How to make a girl who is derailed from the outside world and afraid to meet people live a more acti

I also quit my job in 16 and went home to have a baby, and now I just got a job. Tell me about my experience! I started looking for a job in mid-March and have been doing it for more than 2 and a half months now.

During the period, I was really tormented, on the one hand, my family urged me, and on the other hand, the employer interviewed with no results. At one point, I wanted to give up going home to take care of my children full-time, and I even wondered if I was really incapable of doing my job. But in the end, I convinced myself to try again, and then I found my current job.

When I was at my hardest, I chatted with my husband, chatted with my former colleagues, spit out my bitterness with them, and expressed my worries and uneasiness. I think I'll feel better after talking to them, and at least let me give myself another chance to try. My experience is to find what I am good at, familiar with the job, even if it starts from the grassroots level, it doesn't hurt to do this thing, ability is not a thing to say, do well the company will see.

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Don't be afraid, just get used to it, you can start with the lowest level of work.

You can try to go out to work for a period of time first, and you can also consider upgrading your academic qualifications after slowly adapting to it.

Can you find out why? Analyze it for yourself.

When I come into contact with others.

Have you encountered any embarrassing things, have you encountered any setbacks?

Interpersonal interaction is very common and a happy thing, especially with family and good friends, it is a natural and harmonious thing, what makes you blush when you talk to your family and don't want to contact others?

Is it because of the youth beans? Not confident enough to be in shape? Or is it something else?

The withdrawn personality is very painful and dull.

Why not come out? Be brave?

Maybe it's the adolescent blues?

Let's start by talking to your family.

Talk to mom and dad a lot, talk to them and talk to them.

They are your newest people.

Slowly you will get used to talking and communicating with others.

Give yourself a process of adaptation.

You'll be fine.

After all, the outside world is wonderful.

So calm down, think about the first time you blushed when you talked to someone, what is it, something, the first time it caused a shadow in your heart, it will change later, then it is necessary to untie this knot, find this knot first, and then see if it can be solved, self-confidence must be well prepared, and try to communicate with people with questions, so that your attention will shift to that problem, not something else!

Find a salesperson's profession to exercise your speaking ability, get in touch with some new things, and it will be good after a long time (the salesperson is just exercising himself, not a lifetime

Modern society needs to communicate more, you should try to talk more, as for blushing and it doesn't matter, just eat red apples.

Junji Ito's manga are all horror-oriented.

When the cicadas cry (There is nothing scary about sea cats.)

chaos；head

11eyes (I don't know if the manga is out, but the anime will come out soon).

Fantasy nobleman.

Hell Maiden. When the cicada cries, the corpse is gone.

Onmyoji, Tomie, Hell Teacher, Drifting Classroom, Hyakki Night Copy.

Vampire Knight.

The only thing I know is that it's a little bloody.

But it already has anime.

Have you read Junji Ito's manga?

Super spooky.

Who is the hottest Japanese manga artist? The first place is actually a horror cartoonist!

There's a super scary "Spider Monster" on TV, and it's terrifying, and the spider crawls out of people's mouths.

It seems to be "The Pen of Death".