Urgent! After we broke up, he kept deliberately parting with me, and I really didn t know what to do

Updated on society 2024-07-11
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He guesses a bit selfish.

    I just want to dump others, and others will pull his legs and beg him not to break up.

    Seeing that you agreed so quickly, he felt unhappy and had no face to conquer.

    Men are sometimes like this, j is just one word.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Grab a moment to have a good chat! Ask him why he did it? Why?Otherwise, if you are bullied like this again, you will be suffocated! And if it's him, he has nothing to say. If not. Let's have a good chat.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I still care about you, or he is very selfish, he doesn't want it, he can't get it, and he doesn't let others have a good time!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think so, if he really hates you, will he turn against you? If you really hate someone, then you have long since stopped paying attention to him (her), why do you have to be against him or her everywhere?

    I can only say that his behavior is really weird, maybe it's his way, depending on how you treat it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He still loves you, but he can't get you, so he doesn't want you to ...... smoothlyThis is the best answer ......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A wise person will silently bless when love is weak.

    When the love of benzene is weak, it will turn into ruthlessness.

    It's very simple.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe it's because I still care about you.

    Or maybe it's just a little bit of a hate for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you broke up, just ignore him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you will go against him. Let's see who's better.

    Perhaps this will bring you together ...

    However, the odds are not very high.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It shows that he still cares about you very much in his heart, always pays attention to you, or has a little bit of hatred.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How similar to my situation!

    But I want to say: this is just a kind of inertia on his part, he can't bear to let you leave his world immediately, it's not that he still loves you, his heart has determined that it is impossible to be with you again, but he can't adapt to it for a while, just like picking a tooth, he will habitually feel that it is empty, but as soon as the dentures are installed, he will be able to eat and drink again.

    He just wants to separate from you with a way to reduce his own pain, but this torture hurts the girl quite a lot, because I can't figure out what he really means? What attitude? In fact, it's very simple, treat him as something outside of your life, don't bother too much about him, it is certain that there is basically no possibility of getting back together, and dragging it out any longer will only make you more and more passive and painful.

    I don't know where I saw a study that found that when you break up, the brain will have a painful reaction similar to drug withdrawal, and you will not be able to stand it, you will not forget the bits and pieces of your together, and you will not forget the little bit of kindness he has to you. Of course you will be reluctant, but when everything slowly wears off with time, you will let go. It's like me and my former boyfriend, three years, once separated, entangled, half a year has not been really happy, so what?

    Or do they go their separate ways, and now he even comes to ask me who I am on Q? Feelings are such a thing......

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're all overwhelmed, don't think about it, think about him more if you like him, sometimes it's inevitable to quarrel, it's normal to do something wrong, he doesn't want to be wrong, you have to understand him, don't think too much about it, as long as he likes you, you should be considerate of him, forgive him, no matter what it is.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find a suitable one, I see from your description, he must have machismo, now they are all equal, if you still can't let go, think about it for a night, don't play if you leave.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What can you mean by talking angrily! Men sometimes need to be coaxed, don't think that only women need to be coaxed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That kind of person is narrow-minded, and it's better not to make friends!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, from my point of view, this boyfriend of yours is quite immature, and I don't know how you set the criteria for choosing a mate at the beginning.

    Besides, I don't know your age, according to the above, most of you are middle school students and the like, if you have already worked as adults, then you really have to question your selection criteria.

    Men can have tempers, women can have tempers, but they have to be measured by each other, I don't know if you've ever had this situation before.

    Moreover, I think there must be some irreconcilable contradictions between you that will lead to these problems, and we need to talk about how to analyze them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Did he hear something from someone else, or did he misunderstand? Make things clear, huh!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you are engaged, it is normal for his mother to ask about your attitude, and if your boyfriend's mother thinks that your attitude is unclear when you have not clearly explained to her that you and your boyfriend are unclear, then it is also reasonable to say that you want to solve the problem through legal means, after all, you have said that you are engaged.

    As for what you said about your boyfriend coming to you later, did he want to break the marriage? His politeness to you may be out of guilt, not necessarily because he is stepping on two boats, unless you have proof. If he wants to dissolve the marriage, you can negotiate with his family or even go through legal means, after all, the dissolution of the marriage contract is a big blow to a person or even a family.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can make trouble for more than a year, can you still get married?

    Just imagine the awkwardness after marriage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend wants a car to write his name, and you want to keep a car, it's his fault, men can not make money very well, but in this way, it seems too spineless. In fact, if there is a big difference in the earning power of men and women, it is indeed a kind of pressure for men. You talk to him about breaking up, and he agrees so readily, I don't know if it's because of this kind of pressure for a long time, or if he really doesn't love you very much.

    If it's the latter, it is recommended that you resolutely not look back, your boyfriend won't make money, and if you don't love you very much, it's too sad, and you will only be used as a tool to make money in the future.

    You don't have a detailed description of the state of your relationship and what your boyfriend is like, so it's hard to judge randomly. It doesn't matter if a man doesn't make money now, after all, you have just graduated from college, and after a few years of training, you still have potential. The most important thing is to be good to people, and whether men are self-motivated, if they are very lazy and not good for you, then it is better to break it early, don't be entangled.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hey, I used to read so many words and I was too lazy to read them, but today I somehow read them.

    1.You say "he's not good for nothing, I'm his first love but he's not my first love, I had a boyfriend before him, but he doesn't mind my past, which touches me a lot" I think this sentence is very speechless ==, he doesn't mind that he's not your first love or he's not good for nothing? If this level is the only advantage.,Then I think you're really heavy...

    Besides, it's not the first love at all, it's not a problem at all! If you are married or something, it is worth mentioning, hey!

    2."I've been with him for a year, and I've hardly received a gift from him," he said. It's not a man! With such a person, you have to take care of his feelings everywhere, are you tired!

    3.He insisted that the owner of the car write his name, and I kept the car, and he drove it, "selfish, cowardly, and not responsible!" I want to take advantage of it so much, and I want to be beautiful!

    Landlord, is it worth it for you to be sad for this kind of person?! Is it worth it?! It's already very virtuous for a girl not to require a boy to have a house or a car, he has to make inches!

    I don't work hard and I still want to save face!

    4."Last night we had a fight and he said I hurt his pride and wanted to break up... In fact, he always thinks that you are hurting his self-esteem, no matter how much you want to avoid it, but he is so careful, he will still feel the same.

    So this time he's just playing on the topic. Because the landlord is so good, he is under too much pressure. Even if there is no car incident, this sentence will still appear in the future.

    So the landlord should be glad that he said this sentence before you got married!

    5.The landlord can be reluctant now, but he must be willing to act. Because you two really don't fit.

    Since ancient times, there have been people who say it, and it is not unreasonable.

    My advice is for the landlord to look for the next good man, remember, it should not be much different from your income!

    In the end, there really is basically no man or woman who minds that their lover's first love is not their own! = =

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't know what he thinks, a man should earn money to support his family, if he doesn't have the ability, then well, at least he shouldn't rob his lover of control, this is very incomprehensible.

    In one, if the income is not at the same level, he will be stressed. Later life is difficult to say, contradictions will continue, and you are advised to reconsider.

    Eliminate class, that being said, but marriage is still about class.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since it is destined not to be obtained, it is better to let it go in a chic way.

    Is there a kind of love that already exists but can never have?

    Like amber solidifies all hearts.

    Let an air-dried rose commemorate the eternity of the past.

    Accompany you in my place ...

    Sending an air-dried rose, also known as a dead rose, has been popular in France for many years Meaning solidified love It is a gift that represents the breakup between couples Now**There is also a store name See Xiao Yu again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The two of you are not suitable in the first place, so let's break up and develop a new relationship early.

    Boys who don't understand feelings (can only be called boys) and women who crave care have no results.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Forget about him and find someone who understands you, otherwise it will be too hard to live in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He feels pressured on you.

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