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It depends on the situation! If you run away for the first time, you will be very worried, and if your parents are irritable and don't like their children, ......That will also be the case, so it's best not to run away, and ...... in the long runThen your parents may give up on you, or they may let you go in the future......However, responsible parents will still manage their children well, because several of our classmates have run away, and their families are very rich......But it's best not to run away, because this society is not safe, it's just that your parents have been protecting you, and you don't know it. A few days ago, a classmate in the next class of ours went to an Internet café to play games with another classmate at 6 o'clock in the morning, and for some reason, he got into a fight with someone else, and the other party was angry, so he cut off his hands and feet, ahhh......hIt's scary, it's true, parents are coming to the teacher, so don't run away.
And your parents have always loved you, even though you think they haven't been very good to you, or ......Do you think that they have been spoiling you, not giving you a chance to go out, and making you like a caged bird, but also to protect you! So, in a word of advice, don't leave home......
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It must be very upset and worried, every parent loves their children, but the way of love is different! Calm down and talk to your parents!
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..Very disappointed! What do you think of the idea of a child running away from home? Help me, I'm dying!
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What to do as a parent with a child running away from homeAt the same time, parents should look at the age characteristics of their children, and the time, way, place, time and expectations of parents are different for children of different ages.
Under age
If a child under the age of 10 is being blamed by his parents, dissatisfied, and suddenly runs away from home, in this case the child will not go far, as soon as he goes out, he will see if you are following, and you will become more serious after following him, you can see him, and he will come back in a while. Because the child is younger, he is generally more afraid of the dark and will not run away from home alone, and the child should not scold when he comes back by himself, but tell him that the parents are very worried and do not do this in the future.
years of age
Have their own ideas and opinions, run away from home will not come back immediately, generally will choose to live in the most to imitate the loss of the same school, parents should not be in a hurry to let him come back, back will only intensify the contradiction, after living for two or three days, the child himself will forget, after taking the initiative to come back, parents first admit to the child that the place is not empty, the child will listen patiently to your reasoning.
Children over the age of age
This is the most worrying, the child's age is in the most rebellious stage, the contact with people is more mixed, parents should contact his classmates and friends in time, if classmates and friends know, you can let them persuade, the effect will be better.
How to prevent your child from running away from home1.Be your child's bosom friend
If parents put down their shelves, get along with their children on an equal footing, and talk to each other from the bottom of their hearts, your children will see you as a confidant, and you will talk about everything, and the troubles of teenagers can be alleviated and eliminated in the conversation, and they will not run away from home.
2.Let your child make more good friends
Some parents do not allow their children to make friends, for fear that their children will be influenced by bad friends and hostile to their children's partners, which will only cause bad influence on their children and lead to their children's withdrawn personality. In fact, children are more likely to find friends of the same age as themselves, and parents should encourage and support them.
3.Give your child a chance to talk
When children encounter setbacks and difficulties, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children and encourage their children.
4.Pay attention to your child's psyche
Children usually have some clues before they run away. For example, if you suddenly become distracted and often distracted, and some children are abnormal and become extraordinarily attentive, parents who do not pay attention to these may be caught off guard by the sudden departure of their children.
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1. Don't blindly accommodate your children: Loving your children is not blindly accommodating your children, there are many parents who will choose to compromise after facing the threat of their children running away from home, and feel that it will be good when they grow up. But this is not the case, it will only get worse.
It has always been a compromise child, and whatever he asks will be fulfilled, and suddenly he disagrees once, which will make the child collapse and make him unacceptable. Therefore, since childhood, when children make unreasonable requests, they must learn to refuse, and they can't get what they want by crying, making trouble, and running away from home, so that children can understand this truth. Not blindly accommodating the child is the best thing for the child.
2. Pay attention to the child and understand his thoughts: Children sometimes do not express themselves and do not know how to talk to their parents. In this case, it is necessary for parents to take the initiative to understand the child's situation, let the child express himself, and try to understand the child's inner feelings.
It is more important not to ignore the child because of work and the second child, not to make the child insecure, and to let the child know that he is the spine of the feast that loves him.
3. Let children establish a sense of independence: The famous psychologist Sylvia once said: All love in this world is the ultimate goal of gathering, but the love of parents for their children is the only kind of love for the purpose of separation.
When a child knows that he has run away from home, it is actually when his sense of independence is particularly strong. Let children establish a sense of independence as early as possible, knowing that independence is not about running away from home, but also about having the right way to express it.
4. Let children know the sinister side of society: Parents always want to give their children the best of everything, and they don't want their children to see the bad side of this society. But if he doesn't know, if he doesn't have a sense of prevention, an accident may happen.
Wu Wu told the child that society was sinister, let him know that some children never returned to their home because they ran away from home, and let him know that there is a kind of person in society who is traffickers. After letting him know the danger, he will not run away from home easily.
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