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Alas! I'm very sympathetic to what you're going through.
Put your mind aside and let me speak. Have you ever considered a few questions:
What is the reason why life has started to be different from before marriage, you have changed, he has changed, or you have both changed, or because you are married, he feels that he can "breathe a sigh of relief"?
What do you always quarrel about?
Did he understand your decision to beat the child out, did you tell him what you really thought?
Is he a man who makes a difference?
Do you understand his current situation? Did you tell him where you are now?
Have you told him what you have the truest view of your marriage?
What are your concerns?
Have you ever thought about your future?
Have you thought about all these questions? Please think about it, solve it one by one, and get a satisfactory answer, and soon you will be able to return to your normal life.
Perhaps my suggestions will be useful. I hope you can think about it seriously, since you have chosen to kill the child, don't let each other live in such a hidden pain, since you have chosen to be together, you must have no hesitation, you still have a future, and there is still a long way to go. If he loves you very much and treats you very well, and he has become like this now, it is entirely because he has a weak heart, he is not confident, he blames himself for not being capable, he feels that he is not worthy!
I think you love him very much, otherwise you wouldn't have so many troubles, a love is to resonate with two hearts, you have excluded the blame of your parents, then nothing can stop you from fighting for your love!
I don't think you understand him now, you don't even understand yourself, your mind is very chaotic, you need to get rid of these entanglements, so please have the courage to solve these problems one by one. And I think you should have a good talk with your husband, let him believe that you understand him very well, let him talk about psychological depression, and work together, of course, let him understand that you need his understanding very much, because he is your man, the root of all your troubles is him, and only he can help you solve it completely.
Be sure to talk to each other, and if you don't know what to say, you can show him this question of yours and he will understand you. You should let him know that he is a man, and when he encounters such a thing, he should be strong, not run away, and in order to solve the problem, he must first face the problem!
I believe that you will succeed, and from your choice of love, I can see that you are a very strong woman! It is recommended that you read books on life, marriage and family, and ask your husband to read them too. Come on.
Good luck with all your problems! Restore the sunshine!
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If you love, please love deeply, if you don't, please leave, there is no other reason to separate the two of you, hold on.
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If you continue to do this, you will really lose a person who really loves you, he is in a single-parent family, if you treat his mother (the only relative) badly, it is estimated that he will not marry you no matter how much he loves you, remember, if you can't adjust yourself, then the long pain is better than the short pain. I hope you can adjust to it, love him and love his mother, and you will be happy.
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It depends on whether he really loves you! However, women do need to know how to relax in moderation.
First of all, you have to be self-confident and self-confident, and if you show it like this, he will respect him.
Furthermore, you should love yourself, know how to dress yourself, don't overdo it, but make people feel bright or comfortable. Know how to protect yourself and cherish yourself.
If he doesn't love you, there's no need for you to dwell on it.
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It's hard to say, one may be that he has changed his mind, one may be that someone has seduced him, and the other is that he doesn't like to be with you because you have changed a lot.
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Not necessarily, depending on your boyfriend's personality and emotional intelligence, no matter how much he loves you.
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If you should decide, you will not be harmed, otherwise you will regret it later.
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You can't force anything, especially love, and reluctantly it won't end well.
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It's that you don't like it anymore, so give it up.
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It's hard to buy yourself in the world. If you feel unhappy or feel uncomfortable. The judgment is the judgment.
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Give up, love can't be forced!
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If you take this time like this, be kind to him, be patient, maybe you've forced him to break up with him before, and no one can stand it, and there will be cracks when they separate.
I won't think it's the same as before, there will be a shadow, let him dissipate your anger, you can talk to him again, it's better to come out and play, if he loves you, he will come back, if it's over, then you have paid and don't regret it, don't redeem it too much, so you have no face, and if you love you, you will miss you and find you.
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You should apologize sincerely, and if you add a bit of a threatening tone, it depends on his personality and how much he loves you. Needless to say, I'm already here to redeem you, and all the meaning of your apology is contained in it, so it makes people feel uncomfortable.
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I think as a girl, it's better to be softer in your words, because it will satisfy his face, and then he will definitely come back if he still loves you. Come on, I hope you can reconcile, bless you! Don't be too aggressive, as that will cause him to resent at this critical moment.
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It's up to you to make a small video screen, don't show him, otherwise it's better not to do it.
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The previous sentence was very good, and after the last sentence was added, it felt tasteless
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I think it's better not to add the latter sentence of smart people.。。。
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So love will eventually turn into family affection, which is the best result. It's really impossible to be so sweet all the time.
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Sometimes don't think too much about it, so that you are too tired, try to get back to your old life, so that you can find out what is most important in your life. Be a girl who protects herself.
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When you are first in love and in love, men are always enthusiastic, positive, treat you well, and treat you like a baby.
Once the love period is over, most men will become very cold, and they will not do what they have done before, and they will not do it again.
So, he loved you.
Now he still loves you or not, just looking at the description of your post, in fact, you yourself know how good this man is to you.
Love can't always be vigorous, mostly when it's dull, but, to be honest, I think this man is a bit bad.
You're sick and you have to clean up and cook, is he still a man?
In fact, you know all these truths, so I won't say more.
If you don't want to break up, then you can only settle for him, but, I want to say, it is better for girls to learn to be independent, and taking each other as the focus of life will only make you feel lost often, because you give more than him.
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He has never loved you, and he is not a person who knows how to love. I won't say leave him, because sooner or later you yourself will be forced to sober up by him like this: love is dignified, love is to be heart-to-heart, love is used to warm each other.
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It's cold. If you really want to live a lifetime, you will have a hard time! Even though I'm a boy. But I have to say, he's not a man. What is a man's responsibility?
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The landlord calmed down and thought about the last time he had a conflict with him, and why, and there might be room for relief if he prescribed the right medicine.
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Being cold to you will make you warm to others.
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Break up Bei, if you have a new love, you will forget your old love.
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Long-distance relationships will always break up, although this sentence is cruel.
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Maybe you're too afraid of losing him, that's why you think so, don't think too much, it's yours and yours will always be yours, and you can't ask for it, my husband and I also met online, and it's always been good, I wish you happiness!
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Beauty, you are so beautiful. Is it that the two of you have little contact with each other, and they haven't announced their lives to each other! You can stay together forever! Little Bie is newlywed.
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You have to learn to live a life of dispensability. After all, it's a long-distance relationship. You have no idea what he's doing over there. Don't you know the mind of a man.
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Beauty, it's very hard to be in a different place, change it, find one locally on your terms.
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Long-distance relationships are a bit cruel, watch out for others to take advantage of the situation.
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Long-distance relationship, after a long time, the fact is that the one in your heart is different from the real him, he has changed, and you can't adapt to the change.
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Love can't stand a long-distance relationship, so take it.
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Promise to love enough once, and he will remember it in his heart.
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You're so beautiful, time can change everything, forget it if it doesn't work, anyway, I don't think any man can do it.
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The only way to do this is to end a long-distance relationship!
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Go and become a city lover with him. How to love if you are in love or not.
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Did you ask him if he felt this way?
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Anything can be thrown away for love.
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If the two want to live together, there must be a run-in period, at the beginning they are full of advantages, and after a long time, they will reveal their shortcomings, it depends on whether he can tolerate all of you, or you are willing to sacrifice and change for him, husband and wife life itself is mutually beneficial, you will be me, I will be you!
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They're all, don't listen to them, the relationship between the two of them will fade over time, this is life, even if he won't, you will. The important thing is to trust each other and think about each other, this is the later life.
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is a man who likes the new and hates the old, so it's better to leave early.
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What is the specific situation, is it because of work or something else, if it is not work, it means that he does not care about you so much.
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After a long time, it is enough to eat anything.
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He is the best choice for him to feel that you are
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What you can't get is always the best, and women are king!
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