Now I feel that I am getting more and more ugly, lack of self confidence, and low self esteem

A man's appearance is not the most important thing, not because of his appearance that he is confident. You can't be a man without self-confidence, especially a man. You can not have a lot of money and good looks, but you can't do without self-confidence.

A man who is not confident will not have a woman to love, and if he does, he will not be abandoned for a long time. Of course, not every woman is so ruthless, there are many women who are willing to pay, and stupid women are willing to pay. My boyfriend used to be a person who was not very confident, sometimes he had a little low self-esteem, he was not very educated, his family background was not very good, and he was very unconfident in himself.

He was unemployed a while ago, and he suffered a lot of blows, and he lost his spirit. During this period of unemployment, I ate and drank at home, and when I was full, I would ask if I had anything to eat, and when I was full, I would know that I was playing games on the Internet, and I didn't do anything for me. I was anxious when I asked him to find a job, worried that he would continue to fall like this, lost confidence in our relationship, couldn't see the future, and suddenly felt lost.

I told him everything, and I counted the number of people who should have fallen, and after the number was over, I encouraged him even more, hoping that he would cheer up a little, a little manly, don't let me worry so much, but he is still like this, I really don't know what to do, I just asked God to worship the Buddha and didn't do it, but I also did something similar to this. When I was about to despair, I heard a friend say that there is a kind of blessing bag that opens the light in **Help you get rich, and you can give it to any kind of person, especially people like my boyfriend who also need to open their heads, which can make them sober and make people better. I don't know if it's really like what my friend said, I just took a look at it with curiosity, the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying are very good, they said that the things that open the light are very effective, and many people are rushing to find them.

I think there's nothing I can do anyway, there are some ways to give it a try, just use my boyfriend's dead horse as a live horse doctor, buy him a guard that doesn't work, anyway, it's not bad to do everything this time. As a result, I didn't expect this dead horse to really come back to life, and my boyfriend suddenly seemed to be a different person, cleaned himself up and went out to look for a job. Now he is much more confident than before, his ideas have matured, he has found a new job, he likes his current job, he works harder than before, and he feels sorry for me, I am really a little flattered.

Seeing the way he is now, I feel very worthwhile, the grievances he suffered before are nothing, and he has become the one I love again. Through this incident, I have learned a lot, two people are together to help each other, not to leave when he needs you the most, but to accompany him through the difficulties, pay without asking for anything in return, but maybe get more. If you love someone, you should make him confident, and your love is his self-confidence.

For the people you love, there may be no way to do it, but it is often a way.

Men, the wisdom that has fallen silent is charming, and appearance is not a thing.

Men, career success comes first.

Dear, it's pretty handsome,,, hehe.

The body is skinned, and the parents who receive it, dislike themselves is dislike their parents.

For you to feel ugly, low self-esteem, completely unnecessary. You can do a proper hairstyle, and the hairstyle can affect a person's temperament a lot.

In addition, the lack of strength in the heart is a major factor in one's inferiority.

A friend of mine, with an annual income of 500,000 yuan, no more than 200 yuan in clothes all over his body, and a thousand-yuan machine that has been used for his mobile phone, I asked him what he was doing and if he could improve his surface image when he was rich.

Him: Is the superficial image useful? You see how many of those who use the most ** apples are crowding the subway?

My small broken car of tens of thousands of yuan is enough for my appearance, but my heart is not sufficient and uneducated, and I have no money in my pocket, so I will continue to improve my external factors, so that others think that I am very tall and meaningless.

Furthermore, is Jack Ma handsome? If you want to change Ma Yun to be a poor bastard, no one wants to look at him on the road, it's not that he has a little knowledge and a little money, once a person succeeds, everything is right.

Therefore, you must constantly improve your heart and pockets, and naturally you will not feel inferior because of your appearance.

Ugly yourself? Do your family and friends say you're ugly, or do you think you're ugly? I'm guessing it's the latter.

You are too demanding of yourself, and you always compare yourself with celebrities and beautiful people, of course, you can't compare. After all, those people are rare, we are just ordinary people, as long as we go out and don't scare people. There is another saying, I hope you remember, each is born from the heart, if a person is confident in his heart, good in his heart, kind and honest, his appearance will also be shown.

So, here's a way to overcome low self-esteem:

What can I do to not feel inferior in my heart? This requires you to build up your self-confidence gradually. Self-confidence is formed by accumulating experience and achieving success.

You can start from the details, start from small things, try to succeed, after a success, and then strive to do the next thing well, even if you make a small mistake, or fail, don't be yourself, summarize the lessons, and do the next things well. Gradually, you will receive more and more compliments and more self-confidence. At that time, it will be a completely different you than you are now.

From now on, take it one step at a time, change yourself.

Not everyone is beautiful, accept reality, and pay a little attention to dressing up. Promote your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and improve yourself to increase your self-confidence.

When I grew up, this society taught me that I was unhappy if I saw too thoroughly, that I didn't have a heart, that I didn't feel, that I didn't feel it, that it didn't hurt, and that I didn't care. If you recognize that you are not that important in the hearts of others, you will be much happier. Fragile people will lobby for their misfortunes, and strong people will only grow stronger and stronger quietly.

Knowing people doesn't have to be exhausted, and if you are exhausted, you have no friends. Blame people don't have to be harsh, and if they are harsh, they will be far away. Respecting people does not have to be humble, and being humble is less bones.

To tell you a conclusion I saw online.

In fact, you are cuter in the eyes of others than you are in your own eyes.

Sometimes we feel bad about ourselves.

It's just because we understand and amplify what is bad about ourselves.

And these are often places that others neither know nor care about.

So all we have to do is.

See ourselves the way we see others.

Appreciate your own strengths.

Accept yourself. There is no need to feel inferior.

Because everyone has shortcomings.

It's the same for everyone.

And there is no uniform standard for beauty and ugliness.

No matter what you look like, there are always people who like it and people who don't.

So just be yourself and like yourself.

You should be able to look down on yourself, there is nothing inferior, if you look down on yourself, others will look down on you.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; You will succeed in your studies or career, and you will be the most promising young person. When you have self-confidence, you also have to learn to make friends, only in the heartfelt words of friends can give you a comfort, a chance to speak boldly, an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express their opinions or suggestions, express their own opinions.

Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, so that you can integrate into society and get happiness. Life without friendship is bleak, just as the earth has lost its sun and has no brilliance. Life without friendship is boring, like a damp match, no matter how you rub it, you can't ignite the fire of hope in life.

A life without friendship is incomplete. How can a person who lives in the world understand the true joy of life without friends and without the care of friends? Only a life full of friendship is full and meaningful.

A philosopher once said: If two people share one pain, then there is only half pain; If two people share one happiness, they have two happiness.

When you are in a difficult situation, embarrassed and urgent, and suddenly receive sincere help from a friend, even if it is just an ordinary word of comfort and encouragement, how will you feel? Do you feel a happy release in your heart, feel a warm current rising from the bottom of your heart, and be full of confidence and energy? When you are happy and happy when you are successful, how will you feel when you receive the sincere blessing of your friends?

Whether or not you feel happy.

Therefore, by boosting your self-confidence, you can eliminate the feeling of inferiority. How confident you feel! You'll be able to regain your confidence and work at the same time.

The 47th episode of the stupid overlord flirted and was beaten hard, Leng Langjun was afraid of disaster and went away from home Chapter 48 Indiscriminate Love, Mistaken Thoughts, Amusement Arts, Mu Yanu Ya collected bitter poems.