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What about your self-confidence, your lack of hesitation, or you have changed, don't blame him for saying that you have enriched yourself, one is to study for an undergraduate, even if it is a correspondence course, and the other is to actively look for a job while studying, and you don't have to join a unit to work, you can do some business yourself. You have to be happy so that he will find out what is good about you.

Rationally end the relationship and start your life again. I can already sense from his words that he doesn't love you anymore.

I have also experienced a similar situation to the landlord, except that she is a girl, and she has to ignore it, lie, and find fault again and again. The breakup ended, and the injuries were not to be mentioned, but it took a long time to calm down. What I want to advise is just one sentence, communicate more, and be calm with each other.

Finally, I wish the landlord to get rid of the status quo as soon as possible and be happy every day!

If you feel lost and tired, let yourself calm down and rest. Don't get tired and continue to fight for your dreams. People grow up in different experiences in life and through confused choices again and again.

Lost but don't get lost. Firm the dream in your heart, look ahead, and let the confident faith and dream illuminate the road ahead.

There will always be some stumbles in life, but you must be brave to overcome them, and don't be discouraged and retreat when you encounter setbacks. There are many confusions in life, and it is optimistic to deal with these unpleasant things. There must be a goal that you want to accomplish, life without a goal can only be confused, when you can't find the direction, think about the goal in your heart, and firmly believe that the dream in your heart can be overcome bravely to get out of the confusion.

Keeping a clear head and a calm and optimistic mind is the best way to avoid confusion. Don't let yourself be cranky, calm down and think about how you want to go in the future, and it will be much easier to have a goal and work hard to complete your life. Come on.

There are too many worries, relax and relax appropriately Don't put so much pressure on yourself.

maoyijie521, Hello!

Looking at what you said, I think that you are not only financially poor, but also have a very poor purpose and meaning in life. As the saying goes, money is something outside the body, and you can find a way to earn it again if you have little or nothing, but the lack of purpose and meaning in life is difficult to find back from the outside, and you must rely on strong faith to establish it.

In terms of work and finances, it is better to adjust your mindset and use your spare time to learn more survival skills, rather than spending on things like online and entertainment, so that you can find some more promising jobs in the future, and the economy will improve. Don't blame yourself too much for your family or finding a girlfriend, as long as you become full and optimistic, you will naturally be better for them, and they will feel gratified.

The meaning of life lies in dedicating oneself and serving others, in burning oneself, illuminating and laughing at others, and in the final analysis, in order to have a better life in the future, and strive to learn, live, serve and repay the society. Don't live a confused life anymore, find the purpose of life, and work hard to pay for it and fight for it!

Hope mine is helpful to you.

I wish you a speedy success!

Work hard, and you won't feel inferior if you have a career.

In such a situation, you can only reap helplessness. You should reflect on it, you shouldn't like a man with a family! You already know that this man doesn't really love you, so what else do you have to be confused about?

You should be yourself and stop loving people you shouldn't love. Quickly cut through the mess, let it go, such a scumbag is not worth your efforts for him, your behavior not only hurts yourself, but also hurts others, destroys other people's families, remember to make friends in the future, keep your eyes open and understand clearly in the relationship. Let go of your baggage, relax and go your own way!

You have to get out of this relationship as soon as possible There's nothing wrong with falling in love with someone But feelings are two-way Maybe the first year is that the man's feelings can't be pinned with him and chooses you Maybe he weighs the pros and cons and can't give up the family Maybe his wife is aware of this situation Out of morality You also have to come out and find your true love I wish you happiness According to what you said, when the two of you were in the closest and most frequent contact, he and his wife didn't see each other for a year, and now it seems that it's not that he doesn't want to see him, it's that the conditions don't allow. And it can be seen that although he and his wife are separated, their relationship is still very deep, otherwise, he will not block you every time they meet, just because he is afraid that his wife will see it, and the sea of vinegar will churn when she sees it. Although there is no right or wrong in emotional matters, but in your current situation, you are in an awkward situation, and you are helpless and hurt.

Therefore, I personally think that it is better to give up this relationship, otherwise it will hurt more in the future.

In fact, there is always a time in life when it is like that, just like the weather, there are cloudy days. Sunny and rainy days, people can't stop it, instead of thinking painfully about those things that have been lost, it is better to be optimistic and think about more happy things. Find something you like to do, or go to a place you want to go, forget about the troubles of the past, start your life anew, enrich yourself more, and wish you happiness!

What do you do when you feel lost because you don't have a clear purpose in life?

The biggest difference between humans and animals is that they live consciously, so they need to set a goal for their own life. Without a clear purpose in life, people feel lost, confused, and uneasy. Defining one's life goals is an important part of the development of college students' self-awareness.

Method 1: Social Practice Law. Life goals are not imaginary, but are gradually established through continuous thinking and choice on the basis of sufficient life experience and a full understanding of society, combined with one's own interests, hobbies, specialties, motivations and objective conditions.

Many college students do not have clear life goals, which is caused by insufficient life experience and lack of understanding of society, so it is the only way to establish life goals by stepping out of the closed walls of the campus and fully understanding the society, experiencing life, and increasing experience through various ways. The more confused individual students are, the more they close themselves off and are unwilling to make positive life attempts, which is not conducive to mental health.

Method 2: Stage Objective Method. If you don't know what you want to do at the moment, set yourself a short-term goal (one, two, or five years) based on what you think you should do or want to do at the moment

The realization of the phased goals will greatly promote the formation of long-term goals. Don't mess around and get by because of unclear goals.

What do you do when you feel inferior because you don't have a special strength?

The desire to be excellent is a normal psychological motivation, and everyone should constantly strive for excellence. However, if you stubbornly hope that you are good in everything and feel inferior to yourself for not being able to achieve this goal, you become a perfectionist. This tendency is detrimental to personal development.

Your troubles may have something to do with it, because there is no such thing as a person who has no strengths at all.

Method 1: Merit Survey. As the saying goes, "the bystander is clear", and if you send a questionnaire to the people around you about "what are my strengths or strengths?", through the eyes of others, you will definitely find that you have many strengths and strengths.

Method 2: Learn the Fa in a timely manner. No one's specialty is innate, but is consciously or unconsciously acquired through study and exercise.

Therefore, there is no need to feel inferior, if you want to have any strengths, act immediately and learn and exercise purposefully. You will find that the specialties that you don't have at the moment will be available in a few years.

Hello this friend, I don't know if you knew that this man was married at the beginning, and if you did, you shouldn't be with him, and he shouldn't be with you, because that would ruin his family.

If you didn't know that she was married at first, then now you know, the first thing you have to think of is that this kind of man is unreliable, he can go behind his wife's back to you, he may go behind your back to other women in the future, even if he gets you, sooner or later he may leave you, and it is you who will be hurt in the end, so it is better to let him go as soon as possible; Secondly, he doesn't contact you now, which means that he doesn't love you at all, just play with you, and leave when you've had enough, this kind of person is not worthy of your cherishment, and you don't need to be nostalgic for him; Again, we must understand that no matter how good the other party is to you, as long as you know that he is married, you must stay away from him, not to mention that the husband and wife are close, you should stay away, otherwise the long-term love will really destroy their family, which is immoral, and people can't do things that lack morality.

I understand your current mood very well, once a person falls in love, he is in a dilemma and confused, but pursuing him in the current situation will not lead to results. Emotional matters, when interrupted, are subject to chaos. Therefore, it is recommended that you discourage the desire to chase her, and then adjust your mentality and look elsewhere for love.

There is no grass at the end of the world, I believe you will find a better other half.

Good luck!

Life is not too satisfying, many times we are confused and tired, but we can only bear it ourselves;

Pretending to be strong is because you don't want people to see weakness; pretending to be happy is because you don't want people to know that you are lonely;

pretending to be happy is because you don't want people to see the wound; pretending to be sweet is not wanting people to see tears;

pretending to be relaxed is because you don't want people to feel sad; Pretending to be happy is not wanting people to see the scar;

Pretending to be happy is not wanting people to see loneliness. Everything is fine with me now, pretending that everything is fine.

But whether it's good or not, only you know, those late nights when you can't sleep taste the loneliness of growing up alone;

What makes me so confused, what makes me want to cry without tears, and I don't need to listen to anyone anymore;

There was no urge to confide, only the bleak sound of heartbreak, quietly draining all my energy with time;

Sometimes, a feeling of boredom suddenly arises in my heart, and I feel that I am very tired and tired;

I just want to indulge myself once, hoping to go crazy hysterically once;

Sometimes, I don't want to say anything, I just want to be alone and quiet, because my heart is a little tired;

Sometimes, I am very confused, and I often ask myself why I am so tired;

One sentence broke the embankment and burst into tears, because it touched the heart, and sometimes, I just wanted to cry alone, because my heart was already full of bitter water;

All of a sudden, my nose was sore, my eyes were wet, and I felt so small that I couldn't do anything;

The ups and downs on the road to growth, those late-night confused youth have experienced, but please believe that everything is temporary and will always pass.

What Wei Yi can do is to withdraw from this chaotic relationship, it was a mistake from the beginning, this kind of thing has no good results from ancient times to the present, what he is doing now is to use you as a spare tire, when he is lonely and his wife is not there, you are just a substitute, and the two of them are a family, think about it.

Your feelings like this are like ** tickets, you are invested in feelings, youth. is a sunk cost. The only way is to endure the pain of cutting the flesh.

Just like **, only one percent can make money. The past is gone, don't have any illusions, reflect on yourself. Work and live in a down-to-earth manner, and strive to improve yourself.

Affection, love, giving to someone worthy of love. Wishing you happiness.

You should cut off this relationship immediately, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper, since you know that this man has a wife, you still throw yourself in, and in the end you are the only one who is hurt, you should find your own happiness.

Leave decisively, this kind of person is not worth it. It's you, it's like this again and again, if it were me, he would be blacklisted once, and next time he would be blacklisted forever.

Hehe......That's because you're still too young and too delicate to have experienced the real ups and downs and tribulations of the world.

Life is still so simple and ignorant......

As far as the eye can see, there is only too much confusion in those youthful times, the loneliness of growing up, the fragility of the soul, a little wind and grass, a little wind, and a little rain, which makes your body and mind unbearable, because you are still very immature.

I haven't grown into an adult's thick skin and hardened heart. ......

We've all come from such a youthful time.

You're not the only one who has had this experience.

At that time, just like you, I felt that no matter what, I didn't have the ability to change the status quo and make myself happy.

After ten years have passed, I have seen a lot of bad things, suffered a lot of setbacks and blows, and then look back at .......

Those are the troubles of the little flowers in the greenhouse of youth, and the struggle to survive in the society faced by adulthood is cruel and ruthless... It's not worth mentioning at all.

How can you make yourself happy?

There is only one answer: silently make yourself strong, silently bear the loneliness and troubles of growing up, because the price of growth is an inevitable process that must be endured.

Then after a while, you will find that you will no longer be easily swayed by other people's attitudes, you will no longer be happy for others' praise, and you will no longer want to cry when you say something ugly for others. I will no longer be easily swayed by others, and I have begun to try to make my own decisions.

When you can let yourself take the initiative to do your own life, instead of passively and unwillingly being urged by your elders and teachers to force you to do something, then you will no longer feel very sad to live......

At that time, that is: you have grown up! A person's growth, perhaps, is just a blink of an eye!