Why can t you always learn smartly? Why do you always feel stupid and stupid?

You have doubts about your own abilities and even develop an inferiority complex. There are certain differences in learning, although this difference has a certain relationship with ability, but it depends more on your own efforts and environment, etc., you have some difficulties in learning, but this does not mean that you are stupid, it may be that you have some problems in methods or interests, it is recommended that you reflect on and summarize your own learning methods and other situations, find out the reasons, choose a more suitable method for you to learn, and gradually build up self-confidence.

That's a good thing.

At least you won't be tired.

Because one must learn to be confused in one life.

In fact, everyone doesn't need to learn to be very shrewd, in that case, people will not be credible, there will be no trust between each other, in short, you are stupid and stupid, it means that you are very kind in your heart.

That's a really good question, and since that's been asked, let's take a look at how we deal with the world with the mode of "being stupid".

1.Let's start with an extreme situation, where we use "stupidity" to defend against the world's harm. Many children who have been verbally or physically abused by their parents when they are young will use this pattern, because someone who was close to them will come to hurt you, which is unacceptable to the child's fragile heart, so he will enter a state of "making stupid", not resisting, not fighting back, not even anger, grievances and other emotions, as if he is stupid.

2.If the first is to defend against being "invaded" by the world, then the second is to use "stupidity" to defend against being "taken away" by the world. For example, when others hint at us what they want us to do, and our subconscious mind is unwilling to do so, we will also enter a state of "stupidity".

Especially in the face of authority, or some people who are stronger than themselves, if you find that you are particularly prone to "making fools", it is most likely that this defense mechanism is activated. For example, what the leader hints at, everyone can understand it, or everyone consciously approaches the rent guide to get benefits, but if you are "stupid", it is most likely that your subconscious is actually unwilling to be taken away by others.

3."Being stupid" can sometimes make our suppressed aggression or emotions be smoothly expressed. You can see this from the person who has drunk a little wine and started to "do".

Of course, that is a physiological mechanism, and "being stupid" means that we mentally pour ourselves a little wine, and when the release is almost complete, we will slow down like wine, look back at our behavior and say: "Alas, I am talking stupid again, knowing that I have said it in vain." Or, "Oh, I'm doing stupid things again......”

Maybe being stupid also protects us more, and when we really understand ourselves and why we are "stupid", we can also understand why people say that "it is rare to be confused" is a kind of wisdom.

Caused by excessive sweets, excessive sweets can reduce appetite, reduce the intake of high protein and multivitamins in the body, and eating sweets for a long time can lead to malnutrition, which can affect the development of the brain.

Smoking and drinking alcohol can make the brain stupid, and people who smoke and drink a lot of alcohol will have a greater degree of memory deficit.

Sleeping with your head covered will increase the concentration of carbon dioxide in the bedding and reduce the amount of oxygen, resulting in low oxygen levels in the blood vessels of the brain.

I think yours are too simple and lack social experience, always think that you can do something well as long as you work hard, in fact, many things are to rely on skills and time to complete better, of course, you must also be open-minded, you must try to change yourself, first of all, you must accept yourself, don't always feel that you can't do anything, to give yourself a few more smiles, a little encouragement, because some people say that happiness is the best medicine!

Hello, how can I help you, please describe it in detail.

Where do you feel like you're not doing a good enough?

It's very simple to ask questions and think about things, and it is a little difficult for others to speak.

It's not stupid to be unable to answer, it may be that you don't understand the current topic, or some new words are not familiar with it, now the information is so developed, the network spreads quickly, and the areas of personal concern are different, so when it comes to some things you don't pay attention to, some new Internet terms and other words, maybe you can't understand the stalk that has just circulated. Don't worry, listen patiently first, and you'll soon understand and join the conversation. This is by no means stupid.

If you have more contact with society, more social experience, and richer life experience, you will not have this feeling of getting more and more stupid.

It's just a feeling.

It's okay ha.