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First of all, in the process of puberty, parents should not always blame their children, because children may be more willful at this age, but you must know that these are normal phenomena, if you always murder him, it will make him feel that the world is terrible, and it is easy for children to have an inferiority complex.
You should also often communicate with the girl, tell him what is right in this world, there are some things that cannot be touched, and you have to let the child believe in you before the child is willing to communicate with you. Only if your child lets down his guard when he treats you as a friend, he will become very gentle and not particularly rebellious.
You have to tell him about the importance of reading. And every time he reads, you'd better stay with him all the time, don't let him think that she is reading and you are playing, he will envy you for playing like that, he won't be able to learn, so it will have the opposite effect. Only when you like to read in adolescence is fixed, then you don't have to worry about it in the future.
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Introduction: When children are in adolescence, they can be very rebellious, and it can be a very tricky thing for parents to get along with them. At this stage, parents must learn the right way to educate and guide their adolescent children correctly. <>
Many children are very rebellious during adolescence, because adolescence is a very important stage in the child's growth and a critical period for the development of the child's independent personality. When children are in adolescence, it can be a very tricky thing for parents to get along with their children, because children in this period often have a rebellious mentality, because they begin to move from naivety to maturity, have their own sense of independence, and have their own want to be independent. Therefore, at this stage, parents must respect the child's personal dignity and fully respect the child's opinions in the process of communicating with the child.
Don't treat them like children anymore, but treat them with the corresponding respect, so that they can gradually eliminate that rebellious mentality and quickly come out of puberty. Many parents are not aware of their children's mental journey, and often treat adolescent children as children, which does not fully respect the characteristics of children's psychological development, and may make children more rebellious. <>
For children in adolescence, they are very eager to have a private space, and during this period, parents should give their children enough space and opportunities to be independent. There are some things that should be done independently by letting the children go, rather than letting them always rely on the arms of their parents. As a parent, you should also learn to let go, and let your child fully experience himself during this period.
At the same time, it is also necessary to give children a certain amount of personal space, because children in this period, they often have all kinds of secrets, but after communicating with their parents, many parents often stand on the moral high ground to accuse their children, so many children are reluctant to communicate with their parents. <>
Parents who want to discipline and actively guide their adolescent children should give them appropriate respect, give them a certain amount of personal space, and communicate with them more.
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By communicating with children, or understanding children's ideas, leading children accurately, or teaching children through realistic cases.
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Leave a certain space for your child to grow, don't be too strict with your child, and focus on communication when you encounter problems, and don't blame your child excessively.
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You should think from the other person's point of view, don't put too much pressure on the other party, and reserve some space for the other party, so that the child can develop better.
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Through communication with children, it is necessary to understand children's ideas, guide children correctly, or educate children through practical cases.
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Introduction: Adolescence is a very headache period for parents, in adolescence children are still quite changeable, parents can also see that children are growing. When children are in adolescence, they always do things that make parents very upset.
When children enter puberty, how should parents guide them correctly?
In fact, most children will not be particularly obvious in the conflict with their parents during adolescence, and only a small number of children will have a particularly excessive reaction, so parents should not make some strange actions first, which will make the child uncomfortable. In addition, when the child enters puberty, parents should pay attention to the change of their attitude, and if the child has any problems, do not have any commanding language. It is best to discuss with your child and ask for his opinion first, so that he will feel respected.
At the same time, parents should also give their children some guidance, such as gender education, money education, and interpersonal relationship education, which will be smoother when entering adolescence. Moreover, the relationship with parents will be closer, and parents can correctly guide their children to study hard at this stage and work hard to achieve their goals.
The communication atmosphere in the family is very important, because the communication atmosphere in the family is reflected in many aspects. For example, the communication between husband and wife, the communication between parents and children, as well as the communication between the two parties and the way to solve problems and conflicts can all reflect the communication atmosphere in the family. If there is a problem in communication between husband and wife, there will be quarrels, and if there is a problem in communication between parents and children, children will not obey the discipline of their parents.
But as long as you can maintain respect for the other person, and you can really solve the problem. Most people are willing to solve the problem through communication, so parents have built such a good platform, which actually improves their children's emotional intelligence.
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1. Understand that when children enter adolescence, children will feel that they have grown up and do not want their parents to discipline them too much. The psychology teacher of Henan Rebellious Youth Special Training School hopes that parents will understand the changes in their children's psychology, stop treating their children as children, try to change their identity, get along with their children as friends, and understand their growth and changes.
2. Respect children, when children are young, they will tell their parents about anything as soon as possible, but when they reach adolescence, children have their own thoughts and privacy, and they will not confide in their parents like when they were children. Therefore, parents should also respect their children, do not force or order them to do things they don't like, and give their children enough respect and trust.
3. Give children free space, adolescent children like to lock themselves in their rooms and don't want to be disturbed by their parents. Parents should read from their children's actions that children want to be free and have their own space, that parents should not trespass into their children's rooms without permission, that they should protect their privacy, and that they should give their children time and space alone.
4. Help children set goals, adolescence is the easiest opportunity to change children, Henan rebellious youth special training school psychology teachers hope that parents will lead their children to a correct path, let them set goals, and continue to work hard for their ideals. It is necessary to prevent children from going astray and embarking on a path of no return.
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When the child is in adolescence, parents should guide the child to combine work and rest, give the child some space to play, and then also need to talk to the child more.
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Parents must communicate with their children, understand their children's thoughts, cultivate their children's correct three views, and tell their children what to do and what not to do.
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Parents should guide their children to do some positive things, and at the same time, parents also need to restrain their own behaviors and let their children do things according to their own behavior.
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Parents need to establish a correct concept of sex education for their children and educate their children to protect themselves, which is the right way to guide them.
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Tell your child what to do at what age, parents do not object to you doing anything, but when you do it, you should do it according to your actual situation, and don't be reckless.
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At this time, it is important to tell your child that they have different ideas, but they also have good morals and values, and they should not be afraid to do wrong things and have the courage to admit their mistakes.
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The best way is to systematically educate children about physiology, so that they can face these things correctly.
I think parents should take a gentle approach to let their children learn to control their emotions and change them slowly, so that they can change their children's rebellious personality.
It is impossible to know everything, they do not know anything.
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