I decided in my heart what to do if I hate my wife

Why did you get married? Is it fun, or do you follow the knot when you watch others tie the knot? This question should not be asked online.

Since you asked, I'll tell you two points: one is that your wife is good to you, and you just hate her. Then you change yourself, the woman in your picture may not like you, and the second is that the wife is not good to you, that is, divorce. As for whether it's good or not, you'd better put yourself in another position.

Are you out there? Or was your wife not very kind to you before? In fact, she is willing to marry you, which proves that she still thinks that you have advantages and can spend her life with you, in other words, she trusts you!

If she treats you well now, then you should cherish it, but if she still has the same stinky temper as before, then you can show your manly spirit, people, just such a generation, how can a woman who can't live together live happily for a lifetime!

Your wife will be very chilled if she knows what you are thinking! If you hate her, why marry her?

You find out why you hate your wife:

1.It was she who had a truly unforgivable fault, 2It's you who fall in love with other women.

3.Or something else.

If it's 1, you see if your wife has changed it, whether it's intentional or not, people are not perfect, and if it's not too big, don't care.

If it is 2, you should be ashamed of your own problems, and turn back! Remember! Remember!

If it is 3, you and her will communicate more, don't hold back anything, just say it, one day husband and wife for 100 days! And if you have children, you should think about the children, and if you don't think about the children, you should also consider the parents.

You hate her so much, of course you have to get a divorce, otherwise it will hurt her the most.

A woman's wordiness is annoying.

I'm a girl, so I may not be able to fully understand your mood and feelings, so I'll talk about my own opinion from a woman's point of view. First of all, women usually pay attention to the perspective of life is usually more trivial, so they often give opinions to men because of the details of life. Men are usually more informal, so men will feel that women are always nagging around them, and they are all nagging because of some small things.

Actually, her intentions are also good. Secondly, most women are very dependent, and they all hope that their husbands can be relied on by themselves at any time, accept their own small emotions at any time, and spoil themselves at all times, there are not many truly rational women, but then again, if you really meet a particularly calm and rational woman, you may feel that she is not feminine enough, and the more a woman loves a man, the more she can't keep her sanity in front of him, then on the other hand, if she has no emotional ups and downs in front of you, she is a calm mess, Maybe you're more worried about whether she still loves you or not, don't you? Again, I think your current mood may have something to do with your work pressure or something, and it's not entirely because of your wife herself, so it is recommended that you adjust your emotions, if you are really annoyed and need to be quiet, you can also tell her directly, just keep your tone calm, she will also understand you, the most taboo is not to communicate, cold violence hurts the most feelings.

What did she do wrong, or did you change your mind, if she didn't make a mistake to accompany you to work hard and complain, that's your problem, cherish it, it's not easy for a woman to marry you to treat her well!

Then you should think more about the good of your wife, or think about the pity of the child.

It's best to find out what the reason is, and don't put yourself up too much.

You can be separated for a few days, think about whether the two people get along with each other is the problem, whether to continue, and think clearly to know how to solve it.

You can find the reason for the boredom and let your wife change it.

Then you should separate a little, or you need to adjust psychologically.

Then divorce, it's good for everyone, isn't it.

It's hard to turn around the situation you said, because your wife already has a heart, and she won't come back and start over with you, because your separation has caused the way it is today, and there is no way to do it. I think you better not waste your efforts, the more strongly you redeem it, the more disgusted she becomes!

The key is how you and your wife choose. You have to ask yourself seriously, without any psychological burden, what is most important to you. Depending on what you value most, choose whether to accept that you will not have your own direct descendants in the future and continue to be with your wife, or leave your wife and find a child of your own.

I don't think it's possible, it's so old, don't delay time, she has made up her mind, don't blame yourself too much, no matter who is right and who is wrong, this situation is irreparable, don't hold anyone responsible. You should do a good job of yourself, do a good job in all aspects, the main thing is career, followed by personal image, the world is so big, there are many women who are suitable for you, but no matter which woman needs to be cared for, you need to understand, of course, this is mutual. You're also a divorced person.

There will definitely be experience, I wish you a happy remarriage!

If you lose it, you know how to cherish it, it's too late、、。

Can't find her because she doesn't want you to find her! You promised to say that she wouldn't talk about it again after the divorce, which means that she is still struggling! In other words, there is still a trace of hope for you, change yourself!

For the sake of your children, for the happiness of your loved ones! For my share of responsibility as a husband! As a man, I don't dare to say anything else, I can still change myself!

Be yourself!!

Answer: Your wife has to go, there must be a reason why she has to go, the twisted melon is not sweet, maybe she has found a better man, why force it. Now what you have to do is to impress her with your sincerity and love, if she still has even a little affection for you, I believe she will stay, after all, a day husband and wife hundred days, you are all adults don't know that "first-hand goods" are always better than:

Is it worth the second-hand goods. Know how to cherish the !! in front of you Everything has to be done in a moderation!!

Go ahead. Go and do something for the woman you love! Don't let go of even the slightest chance of redemption, if you let it go, you may miss it!

Summary. I hate my wife, do you have an opinion about her?

I hate my wife, do you have an opinion about her?

Do you think there's something about her that makes you very uncomfortable, dissatisfied, and want to criticize her?

You can say it with a heart.

First of all, we both have jobs, we don't play, we don't have lazy things to do, the main thing is everything at home or Liang, she can't do it, I do it, she can do it, I share the burden. If she doesn't do something well, or forgets to do it, or doesn't do it well, I will keep quiet, I will forgive her and comfort her, otherwise, if she yells at me and tells me to die, I will scold her, I am so sad.

You're just too good, too capable of giving, she has a bad temper, and she can still yell at you? Is she good to her by your kindness?

I have long wanted to divorce, but my mother is here, it will make a lot of chickens and dogs, my mother is not happy, in order to live a safe and stable life for my mother, I endured it, just delayed, in fact, I really want to divorce, but I can't leave the age as if it were done.

This is indeed a bit of a dilemma, you are too good to her, she is still looking for things every day, and her temper is unbearable.

2 ll years I opened a shop, is the store's business, I bought melon seeds for the staff to eat, just 2 yuan, said that without her consent, she in front of her aunt and aunt's daughter, beat me to death, I didn't fight back, so angry that I went to the temple to live for three days, want to become a monk, the master has nothing to take me in or like a friend, also want to divorce, the result is not to leave the oak Weicheng, I have been thinking, when the break continues, there will be chaos later.

Just because you are kind at heart, consider and care about the employees, in order to better retain them, she bought two yuan before transporting the reeds, she took care of you, and she regarded you as something??? Inappropriate person??

Dude, please trust me!

I'll show you.

It's still your wife guaranteed!

What's not to worry about, or is there something about her that makes you feel uneasy?

This is not good, marriage requires trust and tolerance from both parties. Understand.

Don't go to work and stare at her! Hahahaha.

Have you ever thought that she is not at ease with you?

Since you call her wife, then you are not divorced, and she is dead to you, so have you made any mistake of principle? If you make a mistake in principle, you should be kind to him, promise him that you will respect her in the future, you will love her, you will be responsible for this family, do you see that she will forgive you? If you don't correct your mistakes, then he will definitely not forgive you, you should change your past mistakes and express to your wife well, how do he express how you love her?

She can forgive you.

Then try to do something that touches her, try to get rid of the past problems, and tell her with practical actions that you love her and you will make changes for her.