How to solve the problem of children and elderly people in remarried families?

I don't ask how good the relationship between them is, as long as they get along well and there are no contradictions, the remarried family has no blood relationship in the first place, and the family is harmonious.

Treat each other sincerely, strive to integrate, respect each other, and be tolerant.

Respect, we must first consider the other party and look at the problem from the other party's point of view.

Praise the child's well-behaved and sensible and various changes in front of the elderly, and mention the concern and love of the elderly in front of the child.

Disrespect, inequality, traditional concepts, mom treasure, dad treasure man should marry carefully.

In fact, in my opinion, it is better for the elderly and the husband and wife to live separately, because after all, the concepts of the previous generation and the current generation will still be different, but if the two parties quarrel, it can completely make them communicate calmly, and everything can be discussed.

There may be more or less estrangement in this kind of family, but with the passage of time, it may be much easier for family members to communicate with each other.

I don't think that's realistic. In the short term, it is possible, but in the long term, it is impossible. After all, it's an old man. You still have to take some responsibility for your children.

I think it's okay if adults can accept it. i.e. this marriage. Then there is the issue of thinking about children and the elderly. I think the old man will definitely think that the child is innocent, and the society doesn't understand anything. And I think it's going to get along very well.

The existence of the child's biological father or mother is not denied. When children get along, first of all, they should not deny their biological father or mother, and they should not discuss their wrongs in front of their children. In the eyes of children, you are just an "outsider" and you are not qualified to judge them.

If I remarry, I will love each other's children, after all, it is a family. But also learn to discipline, otherwise it is not love. Let's take a look at how to get along and how to interact. Absolutely.

1. Create a good family atmosphere: A good family atmosphere is conducive to the physical and mental health of the children of the remarried family, and is conducive to the harmonious relationship between the husband and wife. Take a little more time to communicate with your children every day, take them for walks, parties, travel, visit relatives, etc.

From time to time, there is a small family evening party on the weekend, and the husband and wife perform some programs that are beneficial to the children, and also let the children tell jokes, tell stories, read poems, sing and dance, and so on. A good family atmosphere for remarried families is beneficial but harmless.

2. Treat children equally: Children from remarried families are generally sensitive and suspicious when they come to a new family and new environment. Husband and wife should treat each other's children equally, don't only care about their own children, favor their own children, and ignore each other's children, don't care less about them, and even often beat and scold, which will not only affect the children's perception of you, but will also seriously affect the relationship between husband and wife in the long run, and the consequences are unimaginable.

3. Let the children become good friends: Let the children study, play, and walk together, and share delicious and fun with each other, so that the children can become good friends who talk about everything. Even if the children don't live together, let them see each other often, get together and become friends.

Don't let them develop a withdrawn, selfish personality.

Although I have not had such a real experience, but just thinking about it, I will feel that this kind of relationship is very difficult to deal with, after all, I didn't grow up in a family, but now because of the factors of my parents, I have to have nothing to do with each other, and now I have become a family, which is actually difficult for any kind of child to accept.

You must know that for the children themselves, they do not want their parents to divorce, because they also want to have a complete family, and they want this family to be their original. But if the parents really can't live together, and then decide to divorce, the children are actually the most difficult to get caught in the middle. Because they don't want their home to be torn apart, and they don't want their parents to be unhappy together.

For children, they generally have no say in this kind of matter, and even if they express their ideas, it is difficult for parents to make changes.

If the parents remarried and re-formed their own families, although legally everyone is a family, it is really difficult to change the relationship. Especially when both parties are reorganized families and both have children, how to get along with each other has become a relatively big problem. Next, I will talk about how to deal with this situation.

1. Don't reject each other in your heart.

Children must be difficult to accept at the beginning, and adults are actually difficult to accept, let alone have a child of their own generation. Children are not required to be good to each other at the beginning, but everyone's hearts should not reject each other's flushing liquid from the beginning, only in this way can we try to accept it slowly.

2. Parents must be treated equally.

If you want the relationship between children to get along well, another important point is the attitude of parents. Parents should have the same attitude towards their two children, and there should be no eccentric behavior, which is also conducive to getting along with children.