In fact, men are more afraid of divorce than women, and what are the things that poke at their soft

His own image in the minds of others, his own biological children, and his own property are all weaknesses of men.

Men's reputation, men's children, outsiders' opinions, men actually care more about these things than women.

I am afraid that I have made a mistake and choose the beginning of my married life, and I choose the end of my married life.

Every couple first wants to be together, because they love each other, and look forward to being together, both of them can be happy forever, but the reality is very cruel, love sometimes really disappears, it is true that I love you very much at that time, and it is true that I don't love you long after getting married, therefore, not every pair of loving lovers, when they come to married life, they can work together to grow old, not every couple who is not loving, and they must be unhappy when they go to married life.

Love is a very complicated feeling, it really exists, but it can't be touched, it fades and exists, we can't go **, therefore, what we can do is just follow our hearts, don't want its existence, exist together, and separate without it, but the form of separation between husband and wife is "divorce", divorce is not afraid of men, they are afraid of the following three things.

The beginning of married life is their own choice, the end of married life is their own choice, in the face of these marriage choices, men are actually quite afraid in their hearts, because every choice, may be wrong, therefore, men and you before marriage, are after careful consideration, before making a choice, the same to deal with "divorce", men are thinking a lot, before talking to you. Even if they choose the wrong choice after divorce, they have to face it bravely, marriage is not about falling in love, not being able to do it again and again, even if you can, women will not give you another chance, therefore, men are also afraid of divorce, what he is most afraid of is not divorce, just because he has missed you all his life.

In fact, in love, not only women are practical, but men are also very realistic, they all understand the good and bad of married life, which determines the future life, and a happy marriage is beneficial to two people to work hard and improve the quality of life of a family; An unhappy marriage will seriously affect the work of the two, and it will also affect the harmony of a family, therefore, marriage and divorce may affect a man's life, especially divorce, the impact on a man's life is huge, and men are also afraid of living a hard life, therefore, many men have thought about this situation before the divorce, until he has an overall plan, his future life, the man will divorce you, the man divorces you, she is not afraid of you, but is afraid that his future life will be difficult, Women, don't be stupid and don't know.

Whether it is a man or a woman, in the divorce, the scruples are more about the children of the two, even if they don't love each other, they are very reluctant to let the child not be by their side, because the child is not by their side for a long time, they will not be close to themselves, therefore, the adult's emotions, whether it is a man or a woman, do not want to involve the child, after all, the child has always been innocent. Therefore, most men will think of children when they divorce, and they also hope that the baby and themselves, they are reluctant to give up the child, not you, if there is no child, there is no affection for themselves, he will choose to leave you without scruples, treat love, men are persistent for love.

Children and money are their weakness, and if they get divorced, it means that their disposable assets will be reduced.

First of all, because he knows that even if the next one is not necessarily better after the divorce, and the second is that it is very likely that he will divide his property when he divorces, which will hurt his interests a lot.

Family is their weakness, children are their weakness, and their emotional needs for each other are also their weaknesses, these are their soft spots.

Man.

1. Under normal circumstances, if there are two people who are married for the second time, the man will be the most afraid of divorceBecause the cost of marriage in society is relatively high now, if you divorce after the second marriage, if you want to start a marriage again, the man has no economic foundation, and the second may have rejection and resistance to marriage from the bottom of his heart, and no longer believe in marriage or love.

2. Compared with men, women without economic conditions may also be more afraid of divorce。First of all, after the divorce, you may not be able to support your own life, and you are getting older, and you have long lost the beauty of your youth. Therefore, if the second marriage is divorced, the woman is also very afraid.

How long does a second marriage generally last?

1. Whether a marriage can last for a long time mainly depends on what kind of attitude two people have towards marriage, and whether they have any intentions to manage in marriage.

2. If two people choose the same attitude towards life after their second marriage, then maybe this marriage will not last too long. Generally, after a marriage fails, I don't know how to find the reason from myself, even if I start again, the new marriage will still fail, so the marriage is generally based on love, if two second-married people do not love each other just to live together, generally this kind of marriage will not survive three years and end.

This depends on who loves whom more and who cares about in marriage. In fact, no one is willing to break up the family and let the children not get the love they deserve, some people say that men pay the most in the family. I'm right and I'm not right.

Because I think that a woman will give up her family to come to a man's house to have children for him for a word of love, and do all the impossible things. That's a lot of effort.

In middle age, men are more afraid of divorce than women? I think they are all afraid of divorce, and they are not afraid of divorce, men and women are the same.

When people reach middle age, they have a family, have a family, and the focus of their lives is on their family and career. Life has passed more than half, how can you want to toss anymore, unless you really can't go on, you will make a fuss and want to divorce, and life really makes everyone tired and wants to rest.

In middle age, men are more afraid of divorce than women? First: Divorce must divide the family property, the joint property of the husband and wife must be halved, how can the hard work of half a lifetime be handed over.

Second: I have reached middle age, my mentality has been stable, and I have been with anyone, and my family is stable. Third:

Children are caring, in order to give children a complete home. Fourth: face engineering, divorce in middle age, many people don't understand.

Second: Husband and wife have been in trouble for half their lives, and no matter how noisy they are, they will be over. Third:

The same for the sake of the children, the family is harmonious. Fourth: It is also a matter of face, people divorce in middle age, gossip.

In middle age, men and women are not afraid of divorce? First: they are financially independent, and they have the money and ability to support themselves after divorce.

Second: The new society is more recognized for the brave pursuit of self, and divorce is not shameful. Third:

When the child grows up, he will understand why his parents have to separate.

The above are some simple insights, but more importantly, it is hoped that middle-aged couples can support each other, respect and love each other, and work together for a lifetime. For yourself and for the children of the family, the days will always be as plain as water, and the long-term life is the meaning of being together.

Mainly because getting married is too expensive now, and if you divorce and marry again, it will cost too much.

Because they will worry that their living standards will decline after the divorce, and they will have children by themselves, there will be many obstacles in choosing a mate. In addition, I am used to being taken care of, and I will not be used to it if I get divorced.

I think the first thing is that men don't want their children to have no real mothers, and there is that men are still dependent on their wives, and the reality will make men more stressed, and the cost of finding another one for divorce will be higher!

Because I am used to my wife taking care of myself, if I divorce at this time, I will make my life unmanageable, so I am afraid of divorce.

Because men are afraid that they will not have a good life in the future, and they are also afraid that they will not find a good woman, and it costs a lot of money to marry a daughter-in-law now, men are even more afraid of divorce.

Because after a man divorces, he does not have a woman around him to take care of himself, and his life will not be taken care of in an orderly manner, so he is very afraid of losing his wife.

Because men pay great attention to property, after divorce, women will share property with men, which will make men reluctant to divorce.

Because there are more men and fewer women in China, tens of millions of singles, what if you can't find a partner after a divorce, what if you want to buy a house and a car, what if you find another one and it's not as good as the original.

For a woman, marriage is the stake of her life. Because, whether the life of oneself and one's children in the future is good or bad depends on whether the marriage you choose is correct; And for men, marriage is a responsibility from the beginning, a thing that must be borne to the end for the rest of their lives. Because, he is responsible for the happiness of women and the growth of future children.

Now in society, if a man wants to get married, he must have a house and a car, and he may have to pay a lot of money for the glory gift, and it is not easy to get married, so the man must be very afraid of divorce.

In this regard, I think that men after marriage should not want to divorce, because divorce will have a great impact on the man's face and the man's family.

I think there is some truth to this, after marriage, men will be more dependent on the family, and this inertia will make them afraid of divorce.

What are the reasons why men are more afraid of divorce than women? It is true that men and women have different divorce experiences for a number of reasons. Studies have shown that men are more miserable than women in their lives after divorce, which not only causes more serious emotional damage, but also triggers a deterioration in physical condition.

During marriage, women tend to have deep emotional ties or more relationships with family and friends than men. So, when a divorce happens, there is a support system that can help them move through their grief and gradually. On the other hand, many men suddenly realize that it is their partner who puts in most of the work during their marriage to maintain the relationship.

And as we all know, men are less likely to seek help from others. They tend to suppress their emotions, believing that talking about their feelings or shedding tears will make them "less like men."

If the mother of the child is granted primary custody at the time of the divorce, the time away from the child gives the man more time to focus on major changes in his life, and the responsibility of caring for the child means that the mother is able to be distracted and keep busy. Anxiety breeds in men because they worry about missing out on their child's events and milestones. And if a man is granted primary custody, they may feel overwhelmed about taking care of their children.

For men, after a divorce, there will no longer be a partner to encourage them to develop healthy habits or discuss everyday issues. Going through a period of grief means that men's daily activities will become more sedentary and healthy daily activities will be put aside.

Meeting strict financial obligations is a major stress for men after divorce. Both parties will suffer losses, but more often than not, men's living standards are hit harder than women due to alimony and child support responsibilities, among other things.

This is because men's self-care ability is not particularly strong, they will always rely on women in their daily life, and they are not as strong as they seem on the outside, so they are also particularly afraid of divorce.

Because these men have no one to take care of their lives after the divorce, and because there is no one to cook for them, and because there is no one to wash their clothes and no one to care about them, men are more afraid of divorce.

This is because of their personality, they look particularly strong on the outside, but they are more fragile on the inside, and some of them are due to physical reasons, and they need someone to take care of themselves more in the later years, and if they divorce, they can't take care of themselves at all.

Mainly because men have been enjoying the care of women after they get married, and once they get divorced, they can't live on their own, so they are afraid of divorce, and men feel that they are taking children after divorce, and it is not easy to find a partner.

Some men really don't have the ability to find a wife, for fear that they will be alone after the divorce, and they don't want to divorce because they don't fit in. However, some men do not attach great importance to their feelings and family, and have a sense of family responsibility and responsibility, and are deeply afraid that the divorce will be unfavorable to the children, so no matter how unhappy they are, they can only make do with it. Therefore, everything is not absolutely dependent on the loyalty of men and women, if the loyalty is high, the family will not be scattered, and if the loyalty is not high, then the family will be scattered, and it depends on how the man and woman deal with it.

Besides, it is indeed not easy to build a family, and starting a family is like picking a needle and losing a family, like pouring snow on the soup and turning into nothing in an instant.

Because women have higher and higher requirements in life due to their own excellent conditions, and there are more single young men with poor conditions. And men who are already married are afraid of divorce, it costs a lot for men to get married, and women can easily find a home after divorce, and men are getting divorced more and more faceless. For divorced men feel ashamed, women feel indifferent.

Men not only spend their savings for several years to get married, but also spend their parents' life savings and even debts, while women don't have to pay anything and make a lot of money. Men marry with a stronger purpose and want a woman to have children for them, take care of the family or have other children for their parents, and need to work together to share the burden.

Then there is the time period when men's physiological needs are stronger than women's, so from psychological to physiological, men are more afraid of a person than women. Men value power, fame and fortune more. Divorce means less money, less fame and fortune.

In particular, the divorce of the poor is afraid of affecting their life destiny and even their lives. And women are very simple, the relationship between husband and wife is broken, the relationship is broken, and they will give up their marriage if they can't get along. I'd rather be a cripple and bear so.

I also want to return peace and freedom to my soul. Live up to yourself and live up to the love you once had. Men are different, they can accept women's love casually, when they try to get married, if they are not suitable, they can be separated at any time, if they have their own suitable people, they are afraid that they will forget the pain of the last time and live a new life, because women leave the most, that is, money, but she has lost her home, and men have just lost their love, but they are still there.