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A man has an extramarital affair, but he will not divorce because he also has feelings for his family, but he will also mess with flowers and grass outside, and he can control his own woman.

I also love my family, I love life, etc. When a man is willing to have an extramarital affair, but is unwilling to divorce, that is to love her family, but also to love her own life, that is, to be very selfish in love, so that he can have two kinds of women.

That must mean that he needs the other party to take care of him, or that he wants the other party to give him a child, and he thinks that the other party is a very good nanny.

An extramarital affair is an immoral act, and both men and women should be responsible for their marriage. There may be several reasons why men are reluctant to divorce:

Family Responsibility: Men may think that divorce will bring unnecessary harm to the family and do not want their wives and children to be harmed.

Social pressure: Men may worry about social evaluation and condemnation, fear of being criticized and ostracized.

Financial reasons: Divorce involves financial issues such as property division and child support, and men may worry that divorce will bring financial losses to themselves.

Emotional entanglement: A man may have or lose feelings for both his wife and his lover, and he may not know what choice to make between the two.

Regardless of the man's reason, an extramarital affair is an undesirable act that can cause great harm to the wife and children. Men should take responsibility for their own actions and think carefully about and deal with their marital problems. If you can't reconcile with your wife, you should also bravely face the reality of divorce and give your wife and children a clear explanation.

Because when men have extramarital affairs, they are not sincere, they just want to seek novelty, so they don't want to divorce.

Because after the divorce, it is because of the man, and the property of the two people in marriage will be divided very little, and the court generally awards more things to the woman, so they are reluctant to divorce.

The main thing is that he also knows that the stability of playing outside and at home cannot be destroyed, and he is very satisfied with his current wife, and he doesn't want to choose divorce at all and destroy his image.

Maybe the man knows his mistake and wants to save the marriage, and he knows that he is confused for a while and wants to remedy the marriage.

<> "What Man Never Divorces After An Affair?"

For men, as long as there are many handles in the hands of women, whether there is love or not, whether there is sex or not, as long as the empty shell of marriage is good.

For many men and women in marriage, don't say that they become relatives or enemies, they are all incense, because there are too many men and women in marriages like this who want to become enemies.

The key is to need your own happiness and not always rely on men.

And for men, if the marriage partner you choose is difficult to get rid of, and you also have a lot of weakness in the hands of the other party, then you can only let the marriage continue, and let the marriage become a battlefield, or let the men and women in the marriage become enemies, most likely.

Indeed, whether it is in marriage or outside marriage, this is the principle, and self-growth is king.

Looking at the many unhappy marriages, many unhappy marriages, and many pain caused by being split in or out of marriage, most of them are holding the entrusted thinking and mentality of "you pay for my happiness", think about it?

Many people think that having love means having each other, and that having it means having the right to manipulate each other. When the manipulation of the other person is unsuccessful, complain, attack, hurt, and at the same time feel uncomfortable. To avoid going down this path, always remind yourself that love is not the same as possession.

It depends on whether the individual can accept it or not.

If you can't accept that your husband has an extramarital affair, of course you have to divorce.

There is also a kind of parting that can be accepted before the obscure, and the husband is also willing to return to the family.

There is another kind that is acceptable, but the husband is unwilling to break off the affair, I believe that no one will be able to stand this kind of marital situation, so the sooner Hongqing leaves, the less harm will be done to himself.

It depends on whether you still have feelings for yourself, you can choose divorce if you don't have feelings, and you can save your husband if you have feelings!

If you can't get by, you can get a divorce, this is not recommended to be delayed. The relationship history can not be forced, unhappy.

If a man has an extramarital affair, he will divorce, and even if he does not divorce, the man will not give wholeheartedly to this family, so it is better to leave.

It's not how he can be like this, but all men will be like this, for married men, extramarital affairs are just a regulator, he is unlikely to give up the family for the regulator, and you are the negative girlfriend who left him for being poor back then, and it is impossible for him to divorce for you! You are still as realistic as back then, don't make your husband divorce you!

In the eyes of some people, love is a gust of wind, and when it is still, it is quiet, and in the eyes of others, love is a volcano, and silence is for a more violent eruption.

The feeling of true love is unattainable, the person who desires to get it may not be able to give, and if you can't pay the true love, you will definitely not get the true love, but if you pay the truth, you may not be able to get the true love!

Love is sad, love is painful, love is a lifetime of desolation, a city, a person's life is distressed...

Because he doesn't love anyone but himself, he is afraid that he will be pointed at by others after the divorce, and he is afraid that his wife will take half of the property away when he divorces, so he doesn't want to divorce.

I feel that it is too troublesome, feel that divorce will damage my reputation, and know that I may not be able to find a more suitable person.

Sometimes they want to rely on you, they want to have a complete family, or they want to use you as a spare tire.

The cost is too high, I can't afford it, and I have parents at home.