In marriage, what are the three major weaknesses that make a man more afraid of divorce?

In this impetuous society, it is always difficult for us to calm down, we will always let love quietly change when we face the pressure of life, and in marriage we always talk to each other less and less.

After a day of work, we will always quarrel because of such and such things, many people think that in marriage a woman is a little weaker will not be easily divorced, but in this society where men and women are equal, women will never worry that they can not find a home, in marriage, the three "weaknesses" of men, pinched to make him more afraid of divorce than women.

Clause. 1. It's too troublesome to start the next marriage.

In marriage, it is very common for conflicts and frictions between husband and wife, and many women choose to divorce when two people have conflicts, even if there is no affection between two people, at most they do not disturb each other.

If it really goes to the point of divorce, two people will feel that they don't have so much time and energy to start the next relationship, and they may never meet someone who loves them so much to him.

The second is that it is difficult to divide the property, and if you choose to divide the property quickly, it is easy to cause chaos in your career or the problem of direct turnover of funds.

Many people don't want to cause trouble for themselves instead of choosing to be happy, and most of the celebrities hide the fact that they are divorced for this reason.

Clause. Second, the growth of children.

Many couples who are parents do not want to become a single-parent family with their children, even if two people quarrel in life, half of their anger will disappear when they see their children.

Two people work hard for the sake of the family and the children, and if the two people choose to divorce, it will cause great damage to the children's psychology and make it difficult for the children to accept.

In life, those families with children who choose to divorce will cause a great psychological shadow on the child's childhood, and may even cause the child to not believe in love in adulthood.

Therefore, many couples will not choose divorce for the sake of the growth of their children, and they can make do with it.

Clause. 3. Get used to the other party's presence.

Habit is a very scary thing, the person you love more has lived together for so many years, there must be a lot of memories and happiness between two people, in the relationship, the man will also be emotional, if the two people are really divorced, the man will become at a loss in the face of the suddenly empty room.

In love, women are always more mature than men, so many men will slowly become very sad after separating from women, and even can't get out of the past relationship for a long time.

Under the principle of not touching each other, few couples will choose to divorce because they are used to each other's existence.

Point 1, you should grab the man's stomach, the man especially likes to eat the food you cook, the man will not leave you, the second point is. Grab the man's money and make the man penniless, so that the man will not leave you, the third point is, grab your mother-in-law's heart and coax your mother-in-law well, then such a man will definitely not divorce.

These three weaknesses. First of all, you have to have a good relationship with your parents-in-law and let them support you. Secondly, let your children be inseparable from their fathers, and let their husbands have a sense of responsibility for the family. The most important thing is to make him inseparable from you.

The property should be notarized before marriage, so that the man will not get an extra penny after the divorce. The house you buy can only be counted in your own name, and you have to sign a contract with the other party.

1.Money. That is, financial power, as the saying goes, money is not omnipotent, but no money is absolutely impossible, as long as you grasp the money, it is equivalent to grasping the lifeline.

2.Parents. Don't speak ill of their parents, but honor their parents.

3.Esteem. Men have a better face, and they have to give them self-esteem in front of outsiders. Don't joke with their self-esteem.

1.All property must be divided equally after the divorce.

2.Children are also what men care more about, and it is still difficult for a man to remarry with children in this era.

3.The husband and wife are still better than the original match, and he may not be able to find a better partner than the original partner if he is divorced.

For a woman, marriage is the stake of her life. Because, whether the life of oneself and one's children in the future is good or bad depends on whether the marriage you choose is correct; And for men, marriage is a responsibility from the beginning, a thing that must be borne to the end for the rest of their lives. Because, he is responsible for the happiness of women and the growth of future children.

Now in society, if a man wants to get married, he must have a house and a car, and he may have to pay a lot of money for the glory gift, and it is not easy to get married, so the man must be very afraid of divorce.

In this regard, I think that men after marriage should not want to divorce, because divorce will have a great impact on the man's face and the man's family.

I think there is some truth to this, after marriage, men will be more dependent on the family, and this inertia will make them afraid of divorce.

Every couple first wants to be together because they love each other, and they look forward to being together after they are together, both of them can be happy forever, but the reality is very cruel, love sometimes really disappears, it was true that I loved you very much at that time, and it was true that I didn't love you long after I got married, so not every pair of loving lovers, when they go to married life, they can work together to grow old, and not every couple who is not loving enough to go to married life must be unhappy.

Love is a very complicated feeling, it really exists, but it can't be touched, it fades and exists, we can't go, therefore, what we can do, just follow our hearts, don't want its existence, exist together, and separate without it, but the form of separation between husband and wife is "divorce", divorce is not afraid of men, they are afraid of the following three things.

The beginning of married life is their own choice, the end of married life is their own choice, in the face of these marriage choices, men are actually quite afraid in their hearts, because every choice, may be wrong, therefore, men and you before marriage, are after careful consideration, before making a choice, the same to deal with "divorce", men are thinking a lot, before talking to you. Even if they choose the wrong choice after divorce, they have to face it bravely, marriage is not about falling in love, not being able to do it again and again, even if you can, women will not give you another chance, therefore, a man is also afraid of divorce, what he is most afraid of is not divorce, just because he has missed you all his life.

In fact, in love, not only women are practical, men are also very realistic, they all understand the good and bad of married life, determine the future life, a happy marriage is beneficial to two people to work hard, improve the quality of life of a family;An unhappy marriage will seriously affect the work of the two, and it will also affect the harmony of a family, therefore, marriage and divorce may affect a man's life, especially divorce, the impact on a man's life is huge, and men are also afraid of living a hard life, therefore, many men have thought about this situation before the divorce, until he has a good overall plan, his future life, the man will divorce you, the man divorces you, she is not afraid of not having you, but is afraid that his future life will be difficult, women don't be stupid and unclear。

Whether it is a man or a woman, when divorcing, the child of the two is more scrupled, even if they don't love each other, they are very reluctant to let the child not be by their side, because the child is not by their side for a long time, they will not be close to themselves, therefore, the adult's emotion, whether it is a man or a woman, does not want the child to be involved, after all, the child has always been innocent. Therefore, most men will think of children when they divorce, and they also hope that the baby and themselves, they are reluctant to give up the child, not you, if there is no child, there is no affection for themselves, he will choose to leave you without scruples, treat love, men are persistent for love.

Children and money are their weakness, and if they get divorced, it means that their disposable assets will be reduced.

First of all, because he knows that even if the next one is not necessarily better after the divorce, and the second is that it is very likely that he will divide his property when he divorces, which will hurt his interests a lot.

Family is their weakness, children are their weakness, and their emotional needs for each other are also their weaknesses, these are their soft spots.

I'm afraid that my wife will look down on me. Because men have very strong self-esteem, they are especially afraid that their wives will look down on them.

What I'm afraid of is your debasement of him. And compare him to others. His incomprehension, distrust, and intolerance will make him feel very tired, and it will also affect the relationship between the two people.

Men are very afraid of divorce, men are especially afraid of being pointed at by others, afraid of divorce, afraid of losing their jobs.

Men are not afraid of divorce at all, what men are afraid of is that they will have no fireworks and no one to take care of themselves when they go home.

Boys are very afraid of divorce, afraid that the other party will leave them, and their lives will not be able to go on normally.

Women cuckold him, so that he can't hold his head up in front of relatives and friends, and he will be pointed at by others when he goes out.

The most feared thing is betrayal. I'm afraid that my family will get sick. I'm afraid I won't be able to pay some of my child's school fees. Fear of losing freedom. Because a man is the pillar of the family, he has a lot of pressure.

What men are most afraid of is that women are not in a state of marriage and do not love themselves, and women can earn a lot of money, so these are what men are most afraid of.

In marriage, what a man fears most is the distrust of his wife, no freedom, no dignity of his own, which is devastating for men.

A woman's complaint. Men are already stressed, and if a woman keeps complaining, he will be very irritable, and there will be problems in the marriage.

The most afraid is that the wife will always nag, and when she encounters something, the wife will always blame the man, and when she returns home, she will always blame and abuse, and she will not get the care she deserves, and she is also afraid that the wife will always make up for her mother's family.

In fact, what men are most afraid of is that the other party is empathetic, once this happens, then it is likely that the relationship between the two people will be seriously affected, and even to the point of divorce.

I think the most fearful thing is that they don't have any status in the family, because every boy is more face-loving, they all want to be the head of the family, and every boy will have a sense of possessiveness.