From na ve to mature, should I tell my parents?

In fact, is a successful man who makes more money?。。 Khan, let the past pass, learn to look forward... There are so many men in this world, why bother?。。 It's good to cherish what you have now. Let the past be passed ...

How can right and wrong be so easily distinguished?

"Disliking the poor and loving the rich" is something that many parents will choose to do, but it does not include all.

The old ones want you to do well, but the real choice is up to you.

Perhaps, his success is only because of the breakup you proposed to him in the first place.

It's also a motivation for him.

People should look forward, not backward.

No matter how good someone else's is, it's always someone else's.

Go find your own.

The biggest problem with young people is that they are emotional.

Whether it is facing parents who are difficult to communicate with, or facing a stressful workplace, it is easy to expose their emotions, or anger, anger, anxiety, and anxiety.

In relationships, if you are always moody, it can cause resentment from others.

If you can't control your emotions, it means that your mind is not mature, you can't deal with problems reasonably and efficiently, and you often face various difficulties.

There is no conviction in doing things.

In this impetuous information age, faith is what young people need the most at work, but also what they lack the most.

Doubting oneself because of other people's words, and giving up easily because of lack of confidence, is a common problem for many young people.

There is no 100% confidence in what you do, belief and belief are two different concepts, belief is visible, belief is invisible.

How can you mature yourself?

The essence of maturity is: on the premise of having a clear understanding of oneself, the social environment, and the operating rules of the world, to clearly pursue the goals you want.

To put it simply, you have to see the world clearly, recognize what you have at hand, and do it with determination.

Get to know the world.

Maturity means that a person begins to know who he is, he begins to pursue self-realization, he begins to create the meaning of his own life. It is no longer controlled by money, the approval of others, the shadow of oneself, etc.

Only when a person reaches such a level does it mean that the person is "living and understanding", and he is beginning to be truly "alive".

Know yourself.

Knowing yourself is the fundamental premise of maturity, and we can even understand that as long as a person can understand himself deeply, he has become mature.

Knowing yourself means knowing what you want, knowing your strengths and weaknesses, knowing your limits, and knowing which direction you should work towards.

Once you really understand yourself, your world begins to be in your hands.

Be tolerant of the outside world.

Childish hearts are never tolerant, they are extreme, angry, act blindly, and are "as evil as hatred", and they themselves repeatedly make mistakes that cannot be "tolerated".

They strive for perfection, but they don't understand their own shortcomings.

Tolerance is not tolerance, because tolerance is still a kind of passive resistance, and this unwise emotion is actually secretly unable to get along with oneself.

The experience of life and the understanding of life constitute the premise and foundation of tolerance.

To be tolerant of others is also to be tolerant of oneself, which reflects tolerance and understanding of human flaws, so tolerance is not only a kind of maturity, but also wisdom.

Mature, can't learn, can only accumulate experience little by little.

If you can be your most authentic self, that's maturity.

You only show maturity in front of them.

Most children are weak and naïve in the eyes of their parents, which is also a fact that cannot be changed, so we can only show understanding in front of them to make them less worried and worried.

Parents often feel that their children are more impulsive and inconsiderate, but they do not expect that they have grown up and have the ability to face the pressure of society. Therefore, we need to dispel their doubts in front of our parents, be mature, and think more about them, so that they will believe in their own abilities.

In fact, in the eyes of parents, children will always not grow up, and they will always worry about them, so they always feel that children are naïve, immature, and always need to be cared for by themselves.

In fact, everyone's character maturity period is different, if you want to change, first let yourself have self-confidence, and use your strength to prove yourself, in the eyes of your parents gradually see your strength, they will feel that you no longer need them to protect, and will no longer feel that you are naïve, and parents can also feel at ease to let you do things.

My parents always say that I am naïve and immature, and the solution is very simple, that is, to make a big deal and show them, so that they feel that you have really grown up and arranged everything in the family properly, and at the same time, or after you start a family, they will also relax with you, even if they feel that you are immature, they will rest assured.

It is normal for every parent to look at their children more and more naïve, and the more they look at it, the more stupid they are, because not all children can be independent, they always have something bad to do, if your parents always say that you are naïve and immature, you should listen to your parents, and then slowly correct it, in fact, you should form a self-opinion, and then let your parents see your ability to do things, so that they will not say that you are immature.

Being always told by adults that you are naïve and immature means that your heart is not stable enough, you are not practical in doing things, you don't use your brains to speak, and you don't think about the feelings of others. At this time, you should adjust your attitude, improve your emotional intelligence, know how to speak and do things, and consider and analyze problems from the other party's point of view. Observe the words and deeds of others, think twice before acting, and make yourself more mature and stable.

Reading more books about interpersonal communication will improve your way of dealing with the world and will be of great help to your life.

Parents always say that they are naïve or immature, we can increase our social experience or ask our parents for experience, increase our own reason, improve our ability to deal with the world, of course, you can also make an achievement, and then let your parents can see your happiness.

Child: If you experience more things, contact more people, and read more books, you will become more and more mature. Use your brain and think about the consequences. As long as we do our best and treat our loved ones and friends well.

Try to do a good job. Protect your family and friends. Don't do bad things.

Do not speak offensive words. With a good mentality, everything will be fine. When I was young, I was very simple, I thought that everyone else was a good person, and later I had a lot of experience, which made me mature and my IQ improved.

In short, life is not smooth sailing. We need to adjust our mentality. Knowing that parents are the best people for us is to know gratitude.

You must not have the intention of harming others, but you must have the heart of defending others. You can't just treat people as bosom friends. Know to protect yourself at all times.

For the sake of parents and yourself, you must live a good life with ambition. Don't say anything you shouldn't say to outsiders. Good luck.

In this case, you must first hold back your thoughts about arguing with them, and then patiently ask them if they think you are not mature enough, and if there is anything that needs to be corrected, after all, your parents have more experience in reading people, and in the eyes of the family, we will always be children, this cannot be denied, so we should be considerate of the family, after all, we have not experienced what they have experienced.

First of all, no matter how old we are, we are children in the eyes of our parents, in fact, in the eyes of many parents, children are always children, what we can do is to use our own practical actions to change the attitude of parents little by little, so that they recognize our approach, and slowly they will realize our growth and affirm our approach.

If you keep learning and working hard. Able to grow gradually. strength to prove yourself.

It's all about this stage, I think it's better to be mentally prepared and feel free to be at ease.

At this time, whatever you say will not work, so it is better for you to be relatively calm for a while at this time. Don't say anything now, wait for a while, wait for the anger to subside, you send her a message to see if there is any hope, if there is no hope, you give up! Let's grow up slowly in the future!

Girls are generally very determined about this kind of thing, and they won't change.

The main embodiment of maturity is the ability to deal with problems, and this ability grows through continuous training, so it is useless for you to be in a hurry now.

The main problem between you is that you both look at and interpret things from your own perspective, and don't empathize. Love should be moving forward in the continuous running-in, there are differences that need to be resolved, and if you can't agree on it for a while, then you should seek common ground while reserving differences, fight for a moment to win, but lose all your life, who is the master and who is not clear?

Both parties in love can go further if they think more about each other in everything. Women always think that men will definitely let themselves, but everything must be talked about a degree, appropriate 'doing' can regulate taste, excessive 'doing' is self-destruction. Men are a complex of contradictions, both want girls to rely on themselves, but also don't want girls to be overly dependent, which requires continuous run-in between the two sides in order to reach a final consensus, this process requires patience and tolerance.

Therefore, another manifestation of maturity is inclusion.

Girls can be naïve, many times, such a character is easier to stimulate men's desire to protect, but naivety does not mean retarded, in some occasions that men value to show naivety, that will definitely disappoint men, you can be naïve to him alone, but not to everyone, if you can understand this truth, it means that you are maturing.

Hello, I suggest you find a time to formally sit down and talk, listen, and analyze whether the other party is too demanding to blame the other party for being naïve and immature, or is it true that they are not mature and stable enough, the most terrible thing for people is not to blame or quibble, if you can't rationally analyze the problem, and disagree with each other's point of view, then it may be really inappropriate, if you do feel that you are lacking and have the confidence to improve, then the other party will also give a certain amount of time to try again on the basis of feelings, It's not easy to cultivate feelings, so don't give them up easily.

You may find that you do not consider what you say and deal with some things, and you need to strengthen your exercise in all aspects in the future.