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What do you think of the phenomenon of young age marriage in rural areas? What impact will this have on social development? The phenomenon of marriage at a young age in rural areas has had a positive impact on the modernization of the concept of marriage in rural areas.
Early marriage also led to the prevalence of free marriage and love in rural areas, and there was essentially no market for engagement. This kind of free marriage has reduced the burden on the man's family and has had a positive impact on the modernization of the concept of marriage in the countryside.
1. Marital responsibilities are not clear, and there are many conflicts after marriage.
Most of the parties involved in early marriage have a vague concept of marriage and a clear understanding of marital responsibilities, which leads to an increase in conflicts after marriage. Most migrant workers who marry early drop out of school, and many of them marry early on their own without parental consent. Young people are prone to impulsiveness and are careless and impulsive when dealing with problems.
Both parties and their parents lamented that there was "no way" about the conflict after marriage. Because their early marriages are "autonomous", when they encounter problems, "no one else is to blame", and most problems are ultimately solved by the parties themselves. The willingness of parents and relatives to mediate and persuade is becoming less and less successful, especially mediation.
2. High divorce rate.
A large proportion of young migrant workers who marry early are indifferent to divorce due to the haste of marriage. On the one hand, people who marry early can easily break up. Influenced by the city's "open" view of marriage and love, they are more open and "unrestrained" than the city; On the other hand, divorce is as "convenient" and casual as marriage because early marriage is not completed and marriage lacks legal protection, and the intrinsic sense of responsibility and loyalty of both parties to a marriage is lower than that of a couple who has obtained a marriage certificate.
3. There are many problems with early marriage and early childbearing.
Young people living in urban areas generally do not give birth prematurely, but young migrant workers tend to have less contraceptive access and early marriage is accompanied by early pregnancy. Due to the young age, the physiological maturity of the parties involved in early marriage is insufficient, and the quality of fertility is prone to defects. According to surveys in Henan, Hubei and other places, due to the better and better modern life and better nutritional conditions, children's physiological quality may not be obvious, but reproductive complications before the age of 20 are still common in young women.
What's more, early marriage has led to the phenomenon of "older children" educating "younger children", and their lack of psychological and educational knowledge has become a major problem in rural areas.
4. Children who marry early are likely to become a new round of left-behind children.
The children of those who marry early generally stay at home and are cared for by their parents, and eventually become a new round of left-behind children. On the one hand, when raising children, early married couples do not take care of their children for a long time, do not participate in the growth process of their children, do not realize the hardships and difficulties of raising children, and are easy to dilute or "cut off" some responsibilities; On the other hand, children are managed by their parents and may not differ much in terms of life care, but children's education is a big issue. Parents' energy, educational concepts, their own cultural level, and their love for intergenerational education all stifle the education of these "left-behind children", which will have a negative impact on their future growth.
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The reason for marriage at a young age in rural areas is that they do not go to university and have a low level of education. It will have some bad effects on social development because they don't know how to educate their children.
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This may produce a lot of contradictions, and sometimes there will be a situation where it is easy to quarrel, and it is easy for two people to divorce if they do not agree with each other. At that time, people's minds were not very mature, and they were not very stable in doing things.
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This phenomenon is actually very common, but getting married at a young age will cause a lot of social problems, which will affect women's health, and if you get married at too young age, there will be no way to eliminate the situation, and you may get divorced.
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Introduction: Marriage is something that every young person goes through when they reach a certain age. In the process of marriage, not only the communication between men and women is needed, but also through the test of two families, some people will get along with the right friends in life and get married, but in the countryside, there are many young people who are more difficult to get married, so what are the factors that cause these problems?
Although many people now advocate treating everyone fairly, there is still a great prejudice against the countryside in everyone's stereotyped thinking, especially if you want to get married, the family background is also the first consideration for many people. Similarly, some parents in rural areas are more aggressive and hope that their children can marry urban people, but urban people have a certain prejudice against rural areas, and there are many parents in rural areas who want to let their children have better development and let their children choose the object of urban hukou. <>
In rural areas, some customs in the wedding are very important, such as the bride price before marriage, most people because of the family's economic situation, can not pay too much bride price, which will lead to a relationship breakdown. Therefore, most people will choose marriage carefully because of the economic situation, but after a long time of choice, it will gradually become more difficult to choose, resulting in many young people in the countryside cannot enter the palace of marriage, and it becomes very difficult to get married. <>
There is an old saying that the children of the poor are in charge of the family early, and the economic situation of everyone in the countryside is generally not very good, and born in such a family, many children will work hard in the big city, so they will rarely return home, and their focus is also more focused on work, so they treat their emotional life more contemptuously, and they also choose to escape in the face of their parents' urging to marry, so many young people do not choose to get married because of their hard work in the big city, which causes the situation of marriage difficulty.
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The cost of marriage is too high, not hundreds of thousands, and it is very difficult to marry a wife. Women like to go to the city to live, and few are willing to marry back to the countryside. Poor conditions or some bad habits.
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For economic reasons, the ratio of men and women to men and so on, because of economic reasons, many leftover men are unable to get married, the ratio of men and women is out of balance, and the conditions for young men in rural areas are even more difficult to find.
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At present, both men and women in rural areas want to change their destiny through marriage, and young women have the absolute right to choose, which will lead to the phenomenon of young men in rural areas getting married.
First of all, the economic conditions of local families in rural areas are corrupt, the economy is underdeveloped, and their incomes are low, and they are really far from being able to buy houses, cars, and savings in the cities in the face of the realistic demands of young women.
Poverty leads to the loss of self-confidence and courage, patience and endurance among young men, and the feeling of low self-esteem in the face of girls' conditions.
The conditions for marriage in rural areas are getting higher and higher, and the cost of blind dates and bride prices are rising, which makes young men lose their fighting spirit and save enough disappointment. With the improvement of young women's education, their minds are broadened, and their horizons are getting farther and farther away, and they all want to change their lives through marriage, yearning for the bright lights of the city and the elevator rooms of high-rise buildings. This is a chasm for young men in rural areas, which is difficult to overcome.
Now it is difficult for young men in rural areas to get married, not because they do not work hard, but because the threshold for young women in rural areas is getting higher and higher.
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