What are the reasons for the increasing number of older young people in rural areas?

Today, living conditions in the countryside are much better than before. But there is a problem that cannot be ignored, but it is more serious, that is, there are more and more bachelor's degrees in the countryside. In the history of nearly 30 years old, even thirty years ago, there are many more and more people who are not married.

Parents are white, but there is no way. Why is that? Why is this caused by the fact that in recent years there have been more and more young people of rural age?

One. It is a serious obstacle for both men and women.

In the traditional thinking of the rural people, only nutrition can prevent the old, and only care for children can pass through protrusions. So in the 80s of the 20th century, even the fine of super-life was a boy. As a result of direct loans, more and more rural bachelor's degrees are happening today.

Under the same conditions for two boys, the girl will be given priority to marry the city. Rural boys have been compared.

Second, the change of traditional thinking.

I remember that when I came to junior high school, the rural boy dropped out of school, and the parents said: baby, there is a proper reception (object). The girl goes to work, and the parents will say:

Nick Ray, don't talk about friends out there. But now, the girl's mind is changing. In the city for many years, it was used in the urban living environment, and returned to the countryside and did not adapt.

So many girls choose to find a city to marry in the city. Rural only once or twice a year. The boy could not find the girl in the city, but the number of girls in the countryside was decreasing.

One enters the other, and the boy has less room to choose.

Three. is a high burden of rural caves.

The current social phenomenon is that in the poorest places, the higher the woman's wedding gift. There are more than 10,000 rural calendars, more than two or three thousand. Many families of rural boys are healthy parents who can earn some money for their children.

It is better to face some homestead parents. A hundred thousand colored gifts are also great colored gifts. I don't have money, I want to get married, it's really hard.

In the end, I could only drag it and I looked at the age, older, and eventually became a bachelor's degree.

There is a complex reason for this rural bachelor's degree, there are problems with traditional thinking, and there are also problems with social development. Today's urban and rural economies are growing and people are being grumpy. At present, the country is also actively thinking about improving the economic level and security of rural areas.

But as a rural child, even more still have to struggle, and now you have to work hard and try to change your destiny, you don't use it. This is not feasible. Only by working hard to increase one's competitiveness, only by increasing one's income should be done.

Because most of the people now go out to study and stay in the big cities to develop, there are basically very few young people who choose to stay in the countryside, so if there are fewer people of the same year, there will be a lot less social circles, so it will be more and more difficult to choose a mate.

There are fewer and fewer employment opportunities in urban areas, and even when rural youth go to cities, the chances of finding a job are very small, and their education level is not very high, which reduces the employment rate even more.

For many rural boys, when they are young, they may still have things they like and dreams, and they can do whatever they want. As time went on, various uncontrollable factors caused him not to study and grow up according to the only path, and because his parents did not accumulate enough social resources, the environment in which he grew up led to a low vision and did not know how to work hard, and there were not many road choices. Many times I don't feel like a person more and more, the walking dead live step by step, and when I get older, I want to get married when I get older, and I find that the girls on a blind date don't look down on you, and I will ask you if you have a house or a car, and then the whole person becomes more and more sad, only to let others ridicule you, and you look down on yourself, and become the kind of licking dog that you despise the most, so how can you exude charm and find a girlfriend.

The main reason is that the rural economy is relatively backward, and there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and unwilling to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and those in the cities!

Although many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the rural living environment, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of noise and noise in the city are not conducive to life and residence.

But after all, the countryside is a rural area, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical resources and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to the old traditions and habits of Xunzhou in our rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.

The ants are trapped in one place and can't get out of the simple countryside, isn't it just stranded in the boring countryside

1；There have always been older young people in rural areas, but the status quo is different in each rural area.

Some older young people have land at home and have conditions at home, but they have difficulties in marrying a daughter-in-law!

There are conditions in the family, why is it difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, for everyone's thoughts, they generally think that there should be any problems with this man. In fact, if you don't live in this village, it's not clear why it's difficult for an older young man to marry a wife. But most of the people who live in this village will envy Jian Jian to know a thing or two.

In the countryside, the family has land, the conditions are not bad, and in the eyes of the people in the same village, it is not difficult to find a daughter-in-law for such a family. But in fact, the more conditions and the more land there are, the more difficult it is to find!

2；Because, my own conditions are too good, I want to find a good person, and the woman is kind, tall, beautiful, and generous, it is really difficult to find the general man's "mate selection standard" is not very high, after the introduction of relatives and friends, it is almost the same, and it is okay to look at the right eye. However, there are a few people who are indeed too "arrogant". In a family like this, it is generally difficult to find a suitable woman to marry.

The garage bride price is introverted.