What are the reasons behind the difficulty of choosing a mate for older young people in rural areas?

Because many women now go out to work and go out to see the world, they are more and more disdainful of rural boys, and it is difficult for rural young people to choose a mate because of their age and house.

1. The imbalance between men and women makes it difficult to choose a mate. Second, the flow of population makes it difficult to choose a mate. Third, the pressure of high bride price makes it difficult to choose a mate. In the final analysis, it is due to the imbalance between men and women, and the high vision of girls and the high bride price of young men in rural areas.

The reasons behind it are generally there, looking down on rural people and feeling that rural people have no academic qualifications. These boys don't have cars, they don't have houses, and their material conditions are not good.

The ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced, and now many women do not want to get married, there will be a phenomenon of fear of marriage, more men and fewer women, and they can't find a girlfriend.

In Hunan, there is a county that encourages young women to stay in their hometowns, just to reduce the imbalance in the ratio of young men and women in rural areas. After this incident was **, it also caused a lot of comments from girls, so I'll talk to you about it today.

Most girls think that the value of their existence is to be their daughter-in-law? And most of the girls think that these single young men can't find a girlfriend because of the lack of girls, because they don't know how to be motivated. Because many young people nowadays have grown up under the care of their parents, especially some boys, who have grown up doted on by their parents.

So when they grow up, they become idle, unlearned, and unskilled, which is why many young men can't find a girlfriend. And most girls think that boys are their own reasons, so why change them through girls losing themselves?

First of all, rural incomes are very low. Many young people will choose to go out to work after graduation, so as to be able to earn more money, and secondly, the bride price in rural areas is very high. Because many parents in rural areas are very old-fashioned, they think that they have finally raised their daughters to such a large age, and their sons-in-law should pay a bride price to honor themselves.

The income in the rural areas itself is very low, and these young men choose to stay in the countryside, which also makes the girls look down on them, and the bride price is very high, so they cannot take out the bride price to marry their daughters-in-law, so many young men cannot marry their daughters-in-law.

In fact, I think that marriage itself is a matter of your affection and mine, and we try our best to crack it, but it is useless, it is better to let two people who are in love with each other be together, this matter is not in a hurry. And the county leader of this county in Hunan really makes people feel very puzzled, if a young man wants to find a daughter-in-law, he might as well work hard to earn more money outside and reach a higher position to find the right person with him.

Young men in rural areas have a relatively low level of knowledge and education, and may be out of touch with society, and they are narrow in the selection of mates, and they are unable to expand their social circles. In addition, older young men in rural areas may have a weak economic foundation and cannot afford huge expenses such as bride price and wedding banquets. As for how to crack it, you can first improve your abilities in all aspects to make yourself more competitive, and then go out to meet new friends and participate in more activities.

The reason behind this is that there are not many girls left to work in the countryside, there are not many young women, and the education of rural boys is not very high, and they are not very handsome. If you want to solve this situation, then you need to leave a lot of job opportunities for young women.

This should be caused by the situation of the family, because the family conditions are relatively poor, there is no way to earn money, there is no way to provide a superior living environment, so it leads to this situation, and the best way is to create a job environment.

It is difficult for older men in rural areas to choose a mate", "Encourage young women to stay in their hometowns", and "Warm the bed of older men in rural areas" ......Recently, the topic of choosing a mate for older young men in rural areas has sparked discussions. What are the reasons behind the difficulty of getting married for older young men in rural areas? How to hack it?

First, the gender ratio is unbalanced or even seriously unbalanced.

Some areas, influenced by the patriarchal mentality, adopt various methods of giving birth to male babies without or with fewer female babies. In addition, many young women in rural areas have gone out to work, seeing the vast world outside the countryside and are reluctant to return to their original rural areas.

Second, the cost of marriage in rural areas is too high.

The current situation of the population with more men and fewer women determines that women are very sought-after in the marriage market, so it is inevitable that there will be various strict marriage conditions, and most of the women will have the idea of improving the quality of life after marriage when choosing a marriage partner, and the standards for all aspects of marriage have been repeatedly raised. If they do not commit to buying a house or a car in the city, it will be difficult to impress the woman's family, and even worse, if the man's family does not come up with a decent bride price, it will also not be able to pass the threshold of the woman's parents.

Third, the flow of population makes it difficult to choose a mate.

For those girls of marriage age, they have left their hometowns to pursue their dreams on a higher platform through various channels such as studying in college and going out to find jobs, which virtually reduces the opportunities for young men in rural areas to choose a mate. Therefore, the way of staying in the countryside and waiting for relatives and friends to propose relatives is on the verge of obsolescence, girls are still working hard to pursue their dreams, and young men are no longer enterprising, and it is no wonder that they cannot find a daughter-in-law.

Therefore, in order to solve the marriage problem of older men in rural areas, it is still necessary to realize rural revitalization, prosper the three rural industries, so that young men who stay in rural areas can have considerable income, and at the same time can retain the footsteps of young women who go out to work. It is necessary to do a good job in poverty alleviation work for rural youths in a targeted manner, teach them a skill through vocational training, or provide them with support in terms of operating funds. On this basis, we will continue to create the concept of equality between men and women, and the concept that both boys and girls are the same, so that the ratio of men and women tends to be balanced.

In addition, it is also necessary to vigorously promote the concept of marriage and love in the new era, and strive to reduce the cost of marriage, so that young men in rural areas can not only find a partner, but also be able to get married smoothly.

Now there is such a phenomenon in many rural areas, that is, there are many young men in their 30s, and they have not yet found a marriage partner, which makes the men themselves and their families very anxious. How to break?

First, because the difference between rural and urban areas is relatively large, it is impossible to retain young women, so it will be difficult for older young people to choose a mate.

We know that many young women like to develop in the city, because here, women can have a better pursuit, constantly improve themselves, and strive to stay in the city, where the medical conditions are good, the living environment is good, and the working conditions are also very good, women are unwilling to go back to the countryside, and the countryside cannot retain marriageable women, which will lead to many men who cannot find a partner and become older young men.

Second, the bride price for marriage in rural areas is relatively high.

We know that in rural areas, there are more things to get married, not that there is a suitable object, just find a day when two people can get married, and there are still a lot of complicated situations, such as the bride price is one, some women want more bride price, there is a car, a house and a deposit, and the deposit also needs to have a certain amount, if there is no villa at home, and there is no house in the city, then, such conditions, many girls are not looking down, girls will look for a better marriage partner, which makes many boys have been single.

Third, if we want to improve this situation, the most important thing is to improve the quality and ability of young men.

Of course, this situation must be changed, so that young women are willing to stay in the countryside, and have better opportunities, better challenges, and better environments in the countryside, then more people will return to their hometowns and build their hometowns. Moreover, the custom of marriage should also be changed, and everything should be simple, and there would not be so much bride price, so that it would be easier for young men who stayed in the countryside to get married. However, I think the most important thing is that young men must change themselves, have the ability to continue learning, have the ability to earn money, and have a good way of thinking, in order to attract the opposite sex.

It is difficult for older young people in rural areas to choose a mate because the economic conditions are not good, and now the requirements for marriage are very high, basically they must have a house and a car, so many older young men can only be single. These young men can go to the big cities outside more often, and maybe they can meet their other half who are struggling with them.

After the young man, the most important thing is the condition, because they are very old at this time, and their family conditions are not very good, so many people will find fault with him, and on the other hand, there is no stable income due to their work problems.

Because there are more men and fewer women now, and many girls have a higher vision, especially for the economic conditions of the family, and people in the countryside, many conditions are just average, which is the main reason why they are single.

There are two main reasons why it is difficult for older young men in rural areas to choose a mate, one is that the conditions are relatively poor, and the other is that they are older and do not know how to be romantic, so they have to change their conditions to improve the situation.

First of all, the difficulty is that it is a rural person, and it is already old, and the conditions are not good, if you want to find a wife, I think you still have to use a matchmaker or an introducer to help him introduce the age, and then the conditions are similar to the person together, so it is easier to find the person you like, and the other party likes.

If he really wants to find his other half, then he must entrust a matchmaker, or an introducer to find a rural person of the same age and family status as him.

Faced with the problem of difficulty in choosing a mate, the older young man in the countryside should first adjust his mate selection criteria, not only focus on the urban girl, but also consider the good girl who is also a rural person, the older young man can not be too arrogant, treat the blind date object to be polite, release the good impression in a timely manner, let the girl feel that she has hope to get married, it will be easy to find a partner.

It is difficult for older young men in rural areas to choose a mate, because they are in rural areas and the geographical location is not good, many young women are reluctant to go to rural areas, and some older young men have relatively high standards for choosing a mate. To solve these problems, older young men in rural areas need to change their thinking and go out to develop in areas above the county seat, while lowering their posture, so that it is relatively easy to find a partner.

There is no effective solution for the difficulty of choosing a spouse for older young men in rural areas, especially in the bride price and new cars, unless the state can introduce a new policy to prohibit the demand for a bride price.

One of the main reasons is that there are a lot of requirements for girls now, both to buy a house and a car, so it is difficult for many older young people in rural areas to find a suitable partner now, because the other party's requirements are too high.

Older young men in rural areas are mainly because their families are relatively poor, so it is relatively difficult to find a partner, and many girls like boys with better economic ability, and if you want to solve it, you need to work hard to make money.

If the family is an older young man who lives in the countryside and wants to choose a mate, in fact, he still has to face a lot of difficulties, because many girls are not willing to marry in the countryside, this is the first point, and if the older young man lives in the countryside, then the economic income is relatively low, and he cannot meet the requirements of the girls.

The difficulty is that there is no car, no house, no money, and he is still old, and now people want to give themselves a stable life when choosing a partner, and they don't want to work hard to run around after being with him.

The difficulty is that the older young people in the countryside have poor family conditions, and they are older and live in the countryside, so many girls will not choose the older youth in the countryside, and they can find people with similar conditions to the older youth through blind dates.

One is in the countryside, others feel that the conditions are not good when they hear it, and they don't want to deal with you, and the other is that you are old, you are old and rural, and others are even more unwilling! In this case, only if you work hard to make money, and with good conditions, these are not a problem.

The difficulty is that they don't recognize their own problems, they don't understand why they can't find the object, they can't recognize their problems, and if they want to break through this problem, they need to know their own shortcomings, and then correct them, so that they can solve this problem.

The difficulty is that you don't have the financial strength, and the difficulty is that you don't have a house or a car. The main solution is to work hard to make money and make your life rich.

Generally in rural areas, the younger generation has left the rural areas where they were born and have gone to the big cities to work hard for their own lives.

The difficulty lies in the poor conditions of rural people, there is a lot of economic pressure, for the current girls are very realistic, it is difficult to marry a wife without money, only this older young man has to work hard, it is best to find a wife in his hometown.