I m very irritable, I don t know what to do, and I m willing to read my question to help me into 10

Ha. It seems that your condition is not depression.

But it's similar

Isn't it just a woman?

You have to get your attitude right first.

Not to others.

It's an attitude towards yourself.

Build up a little self-confidence first.

Take a look at popular magazines.

Take a look at what celebrities are wearing lately.

Then look for a hair shape that suits you.

If you don't have a family background, you can't eat, so take some money and visit more places where young people buy clothes.

Equip yourself with a few decent outfits.

Although everyone says that appearance is not important.

But that's all about putting p

Put on beautiful clothes and have a beautiful head shape.

Look in the mirror more.

Let's see if I'm getting handsome again.

Hehe. This is always a good way to boost your self-confidence.

You always say women, women.

Have you taken the initiative to look for it?

Have you ever worked hard to achieve this goal?

Finding a woman is not the same thing as finding a job.

You need to take it step by step.

Dressed up.

The next step is to find friends around you.

See if there are any women among them.

Yes, at all. Ask them to introduce you to the introduction.

If your friends are not very flattering guys.

I won't be with them anymore.

Because the more you surround yourself with such negative people, the more negative you will become.

No friends introduced to you.

There is still a way.

Go to the legendary Audition.

I don't know if you play or not.

But that unfortunate place was the Ugly Girls Concentration Camp.

It's better to lose.

If not, then if you have a good technique.

And then spend some money.

I'm sure I'll find a woman to come out and meet you.

This is the second option.

The third option is not bad.

There are generally dating groups in the same city on the Internet.

Find one and add one.

Then I went in and soaked in the bubbles.

Usually there are regular activities in such groups.

That is, the legendary group gathering.

Go and participate. There must be women in there.

It can't all be men.

But whether you can soak it depends on your own ability.

But beware of the groups that cheat money, and take you to places with high consumption) If none of these three you want to think that the Internet is too fake.

Then find a job yourself.

Find a place where there are women.

Let's say a supermarket or something.

Like you learn computers.

It's also good to go to an internet café.

Remember, though. We're looking for someone to work.

So know to focus on **.

Woman, woman. Instead of working.

That's all there is to it.

Good luck

I think you should have a good attitude first of all, it's not that there is no possibility of falling in love with same-sex jobs all day long, and there are not many people who are in the same unit as their lovers! You're only 21 now, you're still young, why are you in a hurry? How nice it is!

Now is to work hard, improve your self-cultivation, believe in fate, and you will definitely hold the beauty! Believe in yourself!

Describe your life in two words--- failure.

The world is constantly moving, and money is flowing in the billions, so why do you sit stupidly next to the computer and fantasize and complain, instead of trying to get it yourself in this world where money flows? With money and status, you will live in the circle of rich people, and you will naturally be able to associate with superior people and yourself, and it is not easy to meet good and beautiful women? Look at who Li Jiaxin marries?!

You can only blame yourself for having too little knowledge, blaming yourself for only doing nothing in front of the computer, blaming yourself for not even having the courage to make money (the first pot of gold), what else can you complain about?

Those who have worked so hard to read so many books, and they have not found a job, can you complain compared to your efforts? If I were, I wouldn't post this kind of post, take action myself, fight for my ideals, repay my own efforts, repay my parents' hard work, and be a person who can play a role in society.

I think it's a matter of your mentality, not that you don't have it, but that the time has not yet come!

Hehe. Go find something you love to do....Otherwise, I'll vent on something...

...With a good job and a good way out, are you afraid that there will be no women?

Why do you have to follow the female leader? . . You will be more depressed if you follow a woman. Work is not equal to your marriage, you have a way to introduce jobs to you, and you eat your parents at home every day?

Is it because the leader is a man? I'm a woman, and I hate your way of doing things.

If you find yourself upset, you can't even look at yourself? How to solve it?

Hello, if you find yourself upset, even looking at yourself annoyed, you can try the following methods to relieve your emotions:1Relax:

You can use deep breathing, meditation, yoga and other methods to relax your body and mind, reduce stress and anxiety. 2.Find the reason:

Think about why you're upset, get to the root of the problem, and then take appropriate measures to solve the problem. 3.Adjust your mindset:

Talk to a family member, friend or counsellor to share your feelings and confusion and get support and advice. 5.Do what you love :

Doing something you enjoy, such as listening, watching movies, reading a book, etc., can help you relax and ease your mood. In short, you see that you are annoyed, you are not satisfied with your current self, you want to change, you want to improve, it is a good thing to be self-motivated. There are many ways to relieve upset, and you need to choose the one that suits you according to your individual situation.

At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to maintaining good living habits, such as regular work and rest, healthy diet, etc., to maintain physical and mental health.

If you want to reduce your troubles, the best way is to first have an optimistic attitude towards life, think about problems and look at problems to maintain a peaceful state of mind, reduce the pursuit and desire for material, spend more time with friends, participate in some beneficial activities, let yourself be less lonely, carry out some physical exercises appropriately, keep your body healthy, find more things you like to do, and try to enrich yourself. That way you won't have any worries.

Life is like this, we can't avoid unhappiness and pain, so how can we make ourselves happy after experiencing these sadness and pain? I think true happiness comes from the understanding of pain, because a life without pain is not able to feel happy, we can only face it correctly, analyze it rationally, affirm should affirm can negate should be negated, only in this way can we learn to give up, to know how to cherish, to remember what should be remembered, to forget what should be forgotten, to analyze the pain in life, to make it a kind of wealth in your life, an experience, a memory, A kind of realization rather than pain, so that we can calmly look at the past, be frank in life, live happily and without regrets, and have real happiness in life, rather than escaping and covering up, let alone forcing joy. Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to escape, we can be sad but we must not indulge and escape.

Doing what you love to do is actually very pleasant. Everyone has their own problems to face, and the troubles in life always seem to be with you, whether you want to think about it or not, the days or every day, happy day is not happy is also a day, people must learn to adjust their mentality, or use a psychological suggestion to make themselves happy, you can say out loud to yourself: I am really happy, why not, think about what you have that others do not have, contentment and happiness.

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Friend, I'm sure you'll be able to get back.