Overcoming the reality of the problem together, but in the end they broke up

Opportunity is a hard thing to say.

A man is not stereotyped until he is 30 or even 40 years old.

You can't choose, because you can't tell if he has a future or not.

There are two possible reasons: 1. You don't know how to look at people, or you can't see people accurately. 2. You think he has potential but doesn't play it, and you don't want to wait.

If you leave him, it means that you have decided that he is unlikely or unlikely to meet the standards you want in the future, and one of the principles on which you want to be with him is that he must have a successful career (of course, I am not saying that this principle is necessary, because I myself do not require my boyfriend to have a successful career).

In this case, you have no more than two choices, one to give up on him and the other to get him back.

1. If you give up on him, you at least don't have to worry about his unsuccess in the future. If you choose this, you might as well go straight to a man who has already succeeded. But I advise you, don't say that there are very few men who succeed at a young age, and add one condition - love you, how hard it is to find.

2. Find him. If you make this decision, you have to be mentally prepared for three things. The first is to wait patiently, encourage him, give him advice, and urge him to improve.

The second is that if he reaches his forties and does not succeed, you can't regret this decision, because once you make a decision, you will have to bear the consequences, if you have the psychology of repentance, then you will never be happy, and ruin his life. Third, if he succeeds, then congratulations on your successful training, be careful of his personality changes, and be careful of being favored by the junior.

That's all. How to choose you have to look at the struggle. If you are looking for a boyfriend with such a mentality, you need a gambling feeling in it, and you must be willing to gamble and lose if you pick the good or the bad.

In addition, true love is hard to find, and it is good if the material conditions are passable. Aren't we in trouble?

I wish you happiness.

I guess you're wrong, can true love be measured in money? If you really love him, you should work together with him to create your tomorrow, don't think about who you will rely on in the future, you have to rely on yourself. The environment you create together is the fruit of your love.

I think you should think about yourself and your future children, love is not the whole of life, in the passionate love will pass...

There should be countless people in the world who are troubled by this question, in fact, as long as you ask yourself, do you want a rich life or a happy soul?? Some people, at this time, missed, then, will never come back.

In fact, you have to ask yourself this question. After all, it's you and your boyfriend, not us! Of course, in real life, we must take into account the problem of money, and many of the current feelings are developed on the basis of having money and not having money!

As a woman, I understand your concerns. But if you really love this man! You should be with him for his saddest days, shouldn't you?

It's better for two people to struggle together than to struggle alone, right? Wouldn't that make more sense?

I don't know if you understand what I'm talking about. But I want you to think about it. How to choose.

There is no need to ask how rich you will be in the future, as long as you have plenty of money. However, if you don't believe that your boyfriend can give you such a life, you don't have confidence in him. So how does he go on?

I believe he loves you very much!?

I really hope you've thought about it.

How realistic, the same thing that happened to me, although I worked hard and spoiled her! Follow her!! But in the face of your situation, we broke up today, I begged her for 2 days without results, tonight is the last night, if it still doesn't work, I'm ready to give up...

I've only eaten 2 meals in 3 days, why do 2 people love each other so much, why do you have to give up! After all, I'm still young.

Do you love people, or do you love money?

Do you care about this if you really love each other, if he works hard, it's okay, and he will get better in the future.

Hell, what are you asking now that you've made a decision?

The reality is indeed very cruel, but according to what you say, your boyfriend is actually a very hardworking person. Even if you can't get rich now and can't get a high salary, Wen Bao is still no problem. If you don't choose him and don't want to fight with him, then there's no way.

Feelings are supreme and are not respected in the real world. But when you meet someone you really love and that person really loves you, the chances are so small. If you don't cherish it, forget it, because you're a selfish person.

In the bottom of your heart, you still want a more abundant material life. There's nothing wrong with a woman thinking that way. What's wrong is that your man can't satisfy you right now...

That's all it can say.

So now that you've decided, don't look back. Go ahead and find a handsome guy who is rich and loves you. Good luck.

If he is a motivated man, why not be together? You can encourage him and be the woman behind him.

A happy life comes from the creation of two people together.

Personally, I think that if you are facing a breakup because of reality, then you should let go of your psychology, look for a new person, and stop thinking about the relationship.

I think you should decisively let go of this love, after all, the real problem is in front of you, no one can resist it, you must be able to let go.

I feel that since I chose to break up, I should not go back, let go of this relationship, and find the next emotional belonging that suits me.

It depends on the specific reason. At the beginning of the open source, everyone felt that they could work hard for love, and they could face all difficulties together, but life is very cruel, distance, work, family, and illness will make the people you love not be together, like this kind of thing that people who love each other break up, I will definitely feel sorry, the distance problem can be solved through mutual communication and negotiation, and the work problem can be overcome through mutual support and understanding, but the family, when facing one side is a family member, and one way to love someone, No matter how much you love your lover, thinking of the nurturing grace of your family and the responsibility you shoulder, you will definitely choose love for the family, there are not so many elopements in reality, there are not so many families and lovers understand each other, when the reality forces you to choose one of them, you can only choose the family, although you choose to give up the family or the lover will regret it, but sometimes regret is unavoidable, disease, this depends on the character, but when the disease can separate love, this disease should not be easy to overcome, I think you have to do your best to cherish love, if you can't be together, or when you hurt a lot of people for love, you may still have to compromise with reality, even if you can't be together, the past you have loved can become a precious memory, life is always full of all kinds of helplessness, but you have to cherish the happiness you have now.

If you can't get together, don't be reluctant, there's no way to do it.

Don't pretend to be a saint anymore, true love is unstoppable to overcome all difficulties, no matter what the reason is love, love is love or something, there is a courage to love when you die, life is not stopped, love does not stop.

I feel like there's no fate, and God is playing tricks. So that they will still be good friends in the future

In this case, everyone will regret it in the future.

What is the reason for the reality? Parental opposition is also du

Is it the restriction of economic conditions, or some other dao reason, if you can change it through the efforts of the two answers, you might as well give each other a period of time, work hard, solve the solution, make money that should make money, there is really no way to change it, then don't drag the mud and water, otherwise the longer the pain, the more depressed the person, love can be grasped in the hand, can also be put in the heart.

If you can't accept the reality of the breakup and want to redeem it, it is recommended to understand these three points.

How to get your ex-boyfriend back? In real life, some girls don't realize their emotional problems until they break up. They want to get their ex-boyfriend back and don't know how to get him back by changing themselves.

1.Learn and train in conflict management to save feelings.

He said "it's first love", which means that both of you are partners for the first time, and these are normal. There are conflicts and disagreements between husband and wife; But you can't get up and fight for no reason, you can't get up and break up for no reason, and you can't leave. You are all using your gender advantage to make mistakes.

You're going to make guys feel insecure. It is recommended to learn and train more in conflict management in the future, and not to play such a petty temper for no reason. The mood must be well maintained by two people.

Take good care of them. There are no such shops in this village.

Second, revisit the old place.

In the face of a relationship breakdown, if you want to save your love, you can find a time to follow each other and return to a place that is meaningful to both of you. The benefits of revisiting their hometown can help the two regain their best and most respectful memories. For a revisit, I recommend choosing the place where you date the most when you're in a relationship, or where you spend your honeymoon.

In short, try to choose old places that carry the unique meaning of both.

Three. Secondary attraction and recovery.

Grab the other person's attention with a new look. Touched love is often easy to break up, because touched love is not actually true feelings. Because the other person agrees under this pressure, rather than being attracted from the heart.

In fact, it is the same for both men and women. The boyfriend who is touched can also be moved by other **. If you want to redeem love, you must know how to use your unique charm to attract each other.

Breaking up due to a real problem can be painful for both parties, so what should be done?

It would be best if we love each other very much, and the real problems can be solved through each other's efforts.

It is often said that falling out of love can make a person mature, and I hope that after I mature, I can become wiser and find my other half as soon as possible.

Just bear the pain silently. This kind of helpless breakup will be more painful. There is no good way, and after a long time, it will get better.

If you really can't be together, the long pain will not go to the short pain, and forget it slowly!

It is said that "the ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel". When faced with a cruel reality, it is best for you to face it with her and solve it together. If you can do this, then your love will definitely be stronger in the future and your life will definitely be happier! ~

But then again, sometimes the cruelty of reality is really hard to "parry". If you encounter this situation and are sure that you can no longer be with your beloved, then I advise you to make a decision right away! After all, time is precious, youth is short, don't mislead others and yourself!

Wouldn't you be happy if you didn't break up?

The only measure of whether a relationship is going to end or not: whether you are more painful than happy or happy in the relationship!

So, what you really want is also very important.

Time will dilute everything, it is recommended that you set yourself a goal to achieve in your career, what is it? How much money can I save? Or what hobbies do you want to cultivate, and how much value does it bring to you? You have to remember that there is something better waiting for you.

The breakup is painful, which means that you have worked this relationship, but reality forces you to separate. In the early stages of separation, many people will feel miserable, like losing the whole world. Time is a good thing that can make you forget everything you once cared about.

You can find something that interests you to kill time, and try not to let yourself be idle, once you are idle, your mind will definitely remember the past. You can go to the gym, go for a run, listen to different songs, read a book. If you can, take a solo trip and discover the different scenery of the journey.

Hope it helps!

Reality is the killer of love, and many people who love deeply are separated because of reality. Pain is born and scattered! I think it's easier for people to get out of a new environment.

Life is not easy, just learn to take it and let it go! Give yourself a lofty goal for the future, change the work environment immediately, and over time, you will naturally come out of the pain.

To make people forget about a relationship, it is better to develop a new one. It is estimated that you are a rational person, know the reality, can see the reality clearly, then you can also come out of the pain.

It's basically like this, take your time, and after a long time, it will get better.

Learn to endure as much as I do! Life!! Just accept your fate.

Because of the reality problem, you are separating from your boyfriend, do you think reality can defeat love? I've always been a disapprove of long-distance relationships, but now I'm living alone with my boyfriend. Love, after all, has succumbed to reality.

I think it's because I'm so lonely that I need to find a boyfriend. If he can't live together, it will go against my original intention of finding a boyfriend and lose the meaning of finding a boyfriend. So, after a long life, when I started to fall in love, I expressed my opinion that I hope that two people can be together, take care of each other, and share the joys and sorrows of life.

Eating together, drinking tea together, and chatting together every day is a life full of fireworks. Sanmao also said: "Love, if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping, it is not easy to last forever."

>At first, he agreed with me and stayed in his hometown and didn't go out to work. Accompany me every day, buy groceries, cook, drink tea and chat, and live a very warm life. When I visit my parents, I go together, and I almost never separate them, except when I go to work.

I almost feel so happy in life. Isn't life all about "wishing to win people's hearts and never leaving the white head"?

But the good times didn't last long, and soon the question came: can't you make money if you don't work at home? How to survive?

He couldn't find the right thing to do, and he wasn't happy. I asked him to find something to do. It doesn't matter if he has less money.

When they were together, they were happy. However, he said that the family's salary was low and it was not worth it. So, they are differentiated.

Life is not as harmonious as it used to be, and communication is becoming less and less. I think I can make money by working in my hometown, but he thinks he can make money by going out.

How much love we have has been defeated by reality after all.

Then a year later, one day he suddenly said he was leaving. That morning, he left his hometown and left ...... aloneI, after he left, slept, went to work, and lived alone.

Therefore, you can only have a wonderful life if you learn to entertain yourself! No.