What should I do after the 90s?

Nothing, there are many difficulties in life, you may live in a relatively wealthy family, you can't feel the hardships of life, 17 years old said that it is not small, you can try to change yourself, such as making simple meals or something, the best way to have any problems is to communicate, communicate well with your mother, see if you are not doing well, or**make her angry, find the problem, it is easy to solve, the main thing is that you can slowly learn to be independent, and no difficulties can overwhelm you.

I'm in the same situation as you, in the best school, I just don't study hard, run out all day long, can't take care of myself, everything has to be urged by parents, when I finished the college entrance examination I knew that the road that really belongs to me has arrived, the future is that we need to go by ourselves, go to the road by ourselves, the road paved by parents can only make you feel happy for a while, not enjoy a lifetime!! The single-move road paved for me by my parents was smashed because of the results of cultural classes, and it is impossible to apply for university with the results of the college entrance examination. The road ahead is very slim, and I don't know how to break through.

Taking advantage of the holidays, I went to a club to be a coach, looked at the eyes of others, and took a little money from others, I can only say that we can't afford this complicated society on our own. But the reality is like this, you have to do everything by yourself, do your parents rely on the road paved by your grandparents!! From now on, we really have to rely on our own strength, go our own way, take advantage of our young and promising, work hard, and create our own world.

Parents, brothers, sisters, relatives, friends, no one can be with you for a lifetime, everything still has to rely on yourself, and it is very important to learn survival skills! I hope you will break free from the quagmire of being pampered as soon as possible, learn to fly like a bird, and learn to survive; The comfort zone of childhood seems to be a kind of happiness, but in essence, what you get needs to be made up for later with time and effort.

As for the most basic dishes and foodstuffs, it should be determined according to the different conditions of the family, but the basic meaning is the same.

In the morning, you should have porridge or milk, and it is not easy to eat food that is too hard and difficult to digest.

Lunch and dinner are more nutritious, with vegetables, meat, soups and other ......I believe that you will gradually adapt to it, and you will gradually like these life skills that make you feel fulfilled every day, and you will enjoy them as a happy and meaningful thing.

I'm as old as you, but I'm rural. Of course, your family background will be completely different from yours. I was about 2 or 3 years old in elementary school, and I cooked for the first time.

By the age of 5 or 6, you can basically cook and cook your own food, (of course, as for the taste...) Pay attention to eating and make do) laundry probably. I can't remember.

Anyway, I was very young, and I began to live completely independently in the first year of junior high school. Until now.

In fact, it doesn't have to be like this at a very young age, it's just that the environment is different. If you can't even take care of yourself at the age of 19, and you can't even do basic things like laundry and cooking, you can consider trying.

Take your time, learn by yourself, your mother is cultivating you to be independent, she can't be with you for a lifetime.

Find a boyfriend who can cook

Your parents are good for you! Taiwan's idol dramas are all fairy tales! Do you still believe in fairy tales?

This society is realistic and cruel! Non-mainstream doesn't have to be a bad boy either! OK, go your own way and let others have no way out!

If you don't want to open and add me, thank you.

Actually, you shouldn't be so pessimistic.

It's not important to see how others do it, it's important to be assertive, and look at "The Power of a Positive Mindset".

Let's be a little more angry and be a strong post-90s generation. There are many things that you don't have to think about or do, you have to temper slowly, and doing the current thing well is a solid step forward on your life path.

What's wrong with working part-time, you have to be brave enough to face the reality and stop being addicted to the Internet, which will hurt you.

What's wrong with the post-90s, people nowadays just love to talk nonsense, what is non-mainstream and not non-mainstream, all because today's children are precocious, and their thoughts have not yet reached the state of maturity, but they always love to pretend to be mature, and they don't know how to deal with things and blindly blame the society and blame their parents.

Maybe some families really can't afford their children's education, what's wrong with going out to work, do you know what the owners of KFC and McDonald's used to do??? Toilet !! Child, it's not a part-time job, it's very ungraded, the key is that you have to do one thing with your heart, so that your future is bright!!

Be confident!

Not only you, many people are still confused for many years after graduation, do not know what job you like the most, do not know what job is the most promising, often this mountain looks at that mountain high, what job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market.

Then set some stage goals purely funny, the kind that can be achieved as long as you jump yourself. After it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that you can reach the ultimate goal step by step. The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

Be strong, live the same tomorrow, and try to be optimistic about life.

1. Go your own way, let others say go, it's right that you haven't gone too far;

2. Learn a technology; Learning technology can be considered from your own interests and hobbies, after all, this is different from reading and searching for books, learning technology determines your job category in the future to a certain extent, if you have a technology, then develop in which aspect you are good at, so that you can get started quickly, and the corresponding salary will be a little better. Of course, if you don't have particularly obvious skills or strengths, then cultivate skills first.

Think about your hobbies, what type of work you like to do, and what skills are needed for that job, and then learn and cultivate.

Considering the development trend of Tongwei in the next few years or 5 years, to test the hot industry or new industry, Lei Jun said that standing in the tuyere, pigs can fly, I agree.