My husband earns money for his parents, and when he has no money, he asks him for it.

You can get some private money by yourself, please give points.

Accept your fate, marry into such a family, your husband's money, build a good house, and it is also his family's property, and it has nothing to do with you.

Just don't put your own money into it.

In fact, it's impossible to say that you don't care, and it's hard for anyone to accept this kind of life for a long time, but since you have chosen, let's accept it slowly. Instead of letting her husband get angry in the middle and be unhappy with his hard work, it is better to be his right-hand man and face life together. It's going to get through!

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It can be seen that your husband still has the final say at home, and her mother-in-law is the queen mother who is the chief of staff in the back. Hehe!

Personally is more supportive of you, after all, you think more long-term than your husband, your husband's approach is of course morally correct, but without a reasonable financial allocation is definitely not possible, you can suggest that he sort out the spending plan from your normal income, the most important thing is the growth of children, be sure to prepare them when they grow up, such as school, illness, insurance, living expenses and other financial arrangements. If the talk is not good, you can plan the plan in written form, men are sensory animals, and they don't shed tears when they don't see the coffin, just to let him have a deep understanding! In addition, I also hope that you will observe, he has such a behavior may have a lot to do with her original family, in terms of trust, he may be more inclined to his parents or his younger brother, although you are his dearest person, but in the real world in the final analysis, it is still life, after all, the time you spend together is far less than the relationship between him and his parents, the two feelings are different!

This requires you to slowly and re-establish this family relationship, it takes a long time to complete, only you are truly good to your husband, good to your mother-in-law, for the sake of this family's happier tomorrow! I believe that no one will refuse a good housekeeper of you, a good financial plan I don't have, I just hope to give you a little inspiration, you can learn more along the road of financial management, I believe that the responsibility of the family will be on your shoulders in the near future, when the time comes, your husband must listen to your advice. Suddenly, ......I wish you all happiness.

Persuade yourself and keep an eye on it at the same time. If you can, save some yourself.

This is an emotional problem, you can find a special ** to consult.

Summary. It's possible that they are having some kind of difficulty and have to ask your husband for money.

It's possible that they are having some kind of difficulty and have to ask your husband for money.

If your husband is an only child, they can only ask your husband for money, first of all, they are your husband's parents, and this is as it should be.

Raising children to prevent old age, raising your husband for so many years, and now that he is old, he should indeed support them.

But if they have treated your husband badly before, your husband will not give them money often and often if necessary.

My in-laws are now in their 50s.

If your husband still has a brother, then your husband can refuse money too often.

Because supporting your parents isn't your husband's business alone.

Why are they asking your husband for money?

I don't want to do anything, I want to sit at home and care for the elderly, my mother-in-law likes to play mahjong and dress up, and my father-in-law likes to play poker, but they say they don't have a penny and don't want to work, I don't have a job, I have two children at home, my mother-in-law doesn't want to bring, does your husband have any other brothers?

Yes, his brother earns money, my husband earns very little, and my father-in-law also likes to ask his eldest son for money.

First of all, they are your parents-in-law. Although they are lazy and don't want to help you with anything, they can't change who he is your parents-in-law.

The problem is that we don't have any money at all now, and we keep asking, and they ask me to have another son, and we don't contribute money or effort, and we always ask us to spend money, should I divorce such a family.

Secondly, it is appropriate to spend money on your parents-in-law, and it is also within your responsibility. But if they ask you for money too often, then their behavior is already slanderous.

First of all, you have to understand that the object of your marriage is with your husband, and the object of your life is also with your husband.

If you divorce your husband because of your mother-in-law and father-in-law, it is very unfair to your husband.

In this regard, you need to communicate with your husband. Put your doubts to him and see how he is.

I feel that they have a serious impact on our lives, and the children have no money to pay for school fees, they only care about them gambling, and my husband also listens to his parents and gives money to his parents-in-law. That's as it should be. But giving them money too often is exploiting yourself.

Then you need to clearly explain to your husband what the current situation is at home.

Also take a look at how your husband responds.

Summary. Hello, it's a pleasure to communicate with you, this happens to many families, so is it no wonder? Don't take it too seriously, just tell the other person that I know about it, and then, don't blame him too much, but you tell him that next time you want to give money to your parents, you must tell me.

Hello, I'm glad to communicate with you, this situation will occur in many homes and the vestibule, so it's not strange? Don't take it too seriously, just tell the other party that I know about it, and then, don't blame him too much, but you tell him that next time you want to give money to Tuanla's parents, you must tell me.

You must show your attitude of judgment, not that you do not agree with giving money to your parents, but as a family member, you must let me know that I should have the right to know, as for how much to give, how to discuss it with two people? Ability to make decisions individually <>

On this question, there must be a donkey friend who is lonely, and it cannot be denied that he is wrong to do this, but also cannot agree with him doing so, because after you make any judgment, he may have his own ideas, but such an ambiguous approach will make him have no way to pick your reason, so your purpose is to let him not do something behind your back, Picha is not saying that he will not give money to his parents, so the most important thing you should do is to let your husband give his heart to you, instead of carrying you on your back for everything? What you avoid is this thing <>

I can understand what the landlord asked. The first thing to say is that you will know what is going on with your back. It's best for others not to talk about their daughters-in-law not being filial to their in-laws, just ask the old man if he is really in trouble, how many people can be so ruthless and not pay for it.

This is completely because your husband is ignorant, you must know that when you get married, you should talk to your wife, which shows that he trusts his wife and respects his wife, saying that it is what's wrong with giving the old man some money, in fact, what a woman wants is a respect. A man may have a very simple idea, he feels that I give my parents the money I earn, and wants the two of them to live a good life, and his parents have something to rely on in their old age, so he has to think of respecting his wife. But most men are stupid, they don't understand this truth, they are actually nothing, and they are not very good to be made by themselves.

Talk to your husband. He listens if he wants to, but he doesn't want to listen, and he wants to open up, after all, people have personalities, and he doesn't necessarily say what is right or wrong.

There is such a thing in our family, but I earn more than my husband, he gave it several times a year behind my back, and then I found out, and I also said that it is not easy for my parents to be older, and they are short of money, so you can tell me about it, I know that this matter is fine, but then I found that it seems that he did not feel at ease, and he still did not tell me. Then I will cure him, and if there is no anger, it is good to say. I said that in the future, we will take care of our own affairs, and I will not spend your money, and you can give your money to whoever you want in the future.

But for the cost of life and education for your daughter, you can't take a penny less, and if you want to give money to your parents or lend money to others in the future, you can tell me, and don't say it if you don't want to tell, but you have to know that you don't respect me as a hostess, I don't know, and it's all mutual. Respect me, in the future, you will have money to contribute to your family's affairs, but if you don't respect me, don't come to me for your affairs, and I won't give you any money. What to do, I don't think he's stupid, there's no need to make noise, it's much easier to use than to be reasonable.

After all, people tend to things that are favorable.

Give it all, if it's all to divorce directly, will Ma Bao Nan keep it for the New Year?

Your husband gives his salary to his parents, so you can quietly figure out how you live. Through this confession, Yunfeng can see that he doesn't have his own small family in his heart, and he is the first mom boy who doesn't grow up!

It is only natural for your father-in-law to give money to his parents and support them.

A family always has one person who is responsible for the family's money, after all, a family is a group, and it is impossible for a group to have more than one person to manage the money. If you are married, if you live with your parents, it is okay for one of you to take care of the money, if you start a family on your own, the money of your younger couple should be managed by the two of you, and it is not appropriate for his parents to manage your money again.

For this question, you have to communicate with your husband first, do your husband's work first, and communicate with his parents, and you don't have to come forward. However, whether you show up or not, they will naturally think that you are the mastermind behind it. And you admit it.

However, as a parent, the child has a family, and should take the initiative to give up the child's property and let the child be independent. It's okay to say that a child is a child sooner or later, and if there are several children, it will eventually lead to conflicts. A smart parent will not make trouble for himself.

Don't think it's good to be in charge of your family's money.

Another question is, whether your husband's money for his father's work is all over, maybe you don't know. In the end, you have been married for so long, you have not integrated into this family, your in-laws, you are still fucking father, since you have not integrated into this family, will they treat you as their own family?

So what's the point of getting married?

You should have your own financial freedom when you get married!

I don't really understand your husband's behavior of giving money to his dad.