My parents and relatives won t let me quit my secure job and go to the south with my boyfriend, what

I think if he really loves you, he can come to Beijing to work, after all, Beijing is a metropolis, or more conducive to his development than Zhejiang, if you give up your job and go to the south to find her, I think there will be a good love with a career, which is what I deeply experienced.

Actually, your situation is very similar to my current situation, hehe, in fact, life is full of trade-offs, isn't it? Your boyfriend may be the kind of person who is very pragmatic or very realistic The reason why he doesn't introduce you to their family I think it's because he may feel that he can't give you any security right now There is no way to be responsible for you What men do in this regardWomen may not be able to understand This contradiction is very common The feelings of two people should be very clear So be more tolerant and more understanding Maybe you will live a more relaxed life!

Don't go with him.

Love is still marriage in the end.

And marriage is realistic.

A marriage without a stable livelihood is bitter.

Of course, there is no lack of sweetness after bitterness.

But life is uncertain, and none of us can be sure of the future. All we can do is now.

By the way, there is no shortage of men in the north, and you haven't found the one you like?

Then try to get your boyfriend to work on your side.

It depends on how deep your relationship is.

Friend--- your parents are right, you need to understand their minds, and you must know that you pity the hearts of parents all over the world. I see that you are not married yet, so ask him to get the marriage certificate when he comes back, and see how your boyfriend reacts. Women really have to know how to love themselves, so they don't have to convince their parents, and their parents will naturally agree, if you are like that, the consequences are hard to imagine.

When you go to him, friends have to think twice.

Listen to your parents, no matter what, your parents are good for you, the starting point is definitely good, you need to think about it!

Parents are kind.

You have to enlighten them.

You say, "You go for a while, you go for a year, and if you don't work, you'll come back, and I don't like to give up my happiness easily."

What kind of work? If you find a better job, you can move, but it's easy without that job.

Close relatives.. That's the parents who gave you life. Maybe he's done a lot for you, but can he die for you?

If you don't say it's serious, can he give up the job in front of you for you? Parents can do everything for you, unless your parents are not good parents, then you really have no reason to give up on your parents. So can he come back from working in the field for a few years?

Either talk to your parents about going out of town for a year or two and then coming back, and then ask him to be able to transfer his job.

True love is inclusive, not indulgent.

Love is caring, not pampering.

Love is a blend of love, not unrequited love.

Love is all kinds of flavors, not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love, Zao Tuan Yu knows how to let go when you can't love Because, letting go is to have everything in the stool....

Please love well when you cherish or ominous.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. Don't push yourself too hard and don't put too much pressure on yourself. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent?

Let go of the baggage, relax your mind, and live happily now, maybe in the near future, you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of your life. People are always wonderful, when you love a person with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present full and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily.

Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him. Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! will even wonder if the story of Slow Trace Tong belongs to him.

It's really about fate between people. Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go?

To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put it down! No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth. Finally, I wish you health, happiness, happiness and luck, and I believe that you will be able to adjust your mentality and live, work and study well.

Everything depends on whether you are happy or not, whether you really like him, and then you do what you want.

The main thing is to make your family feel at ease.

So you have to tell them about his abilities, his character, and so on, and so on, it's better for your parents to know about him, to trust him, so that they don't object.

The reason why they do this is that they are afraid that you will not have a good future with him, so you untie the knot, and everything will be fine.

Take your time.

You can't have it both ways, the key is to look at your feelings and opinions about your boyfriend, if you think he has the ability to develop and have potential over there, it's understandable to leave your parents aside for the time being.

Your boyfriend talks and feels good, I think you should believe in yourself, after all, you will be with your boyfriend in the future.

I'm the same now, I don't tell my parents yet, and I'll tell them if I'm happy.

If not. Then let one bear it.

People always have to learn to experience it themselves, so that they can grow up.

Have a good talk with him, if you can be together, don't separate, if you do, don't keep it.

You should say goodbye to her, he may stay, that's the only way, but remember, don't keep pestering him, make him feel that you are the most important.

Let it go, this is all destined, as long as you really love each other and believe in your boyfriend, you will definitely come to you when the time comes.

Let your boyfriend settle the family affairs first, and then you can tell your boyfriend when the time comes, what if your boyfriend really loves you! It will not abandon you.

You can ask him to stay here and work, or you can go to his side.

Divorce, you can't be happy like this.

If the relationship is good, later in the past together.

If I like you, I won't leave you, which means that I don't love you deeply, and it can be divided or good.

Dizzy, how old are you, I guess you're not old.

In order to get the opportunity to improve the quality of life, people who come out of families are like this, either they have to work hard to start from scratch, or they have to abandon something in exchange for a stable life. Your parents are right, but you're right, it's just that you're standing at a different angle, so there's no need to be wronged.

If you don't pursue material comforts, there's nothing wrong with him, and it's hard to find a more suitable one anyway, isn't it? You have to think about it, the next person who can make your heart flutter will be. Money can be earned, but fate is hard to find.

As long as you stand firm, your parents won't force you, since they are for your own good.

But I don't know what your man's attitude is towards you, and I don't know if you can really give everything for each other. If it is difficult to overcome the family hurdle after a long period of tug-of-war, you will not be able to achieve positive results.

Your parents will accept it, you need time to move around a lot, let your parents understand that this man will be successful, after all, you both like each other very much, and you have to make good grades to prove that the man you like is capable.

From your first paragraph, it can be seen that you are a person who cannot be without feelings, you let go of this point and I support you, your choice is right, you can't be together without feelings.

Now this boyfriend is really happy to see that you are with him because you love each other. I think if two people really love each other, the rest is not a problem. Try to convince your parents that money can be earned slowly, as long as you work hard, and happiness does not have to be rich.

Be able to understand your feelings and try your best to make your parents happy. It's not easy to start a relationship, so cherish it.

Drag, continue to let the family accept.

Take good hold of what you love and wish you happiness.

The main thing is to look at people

Marrying someone is not marrying a job or a house.

I don't know what you think, but I do know that unblessed love doesn't last

If you think it's okay, then it's going to work.

Keep your eyes peeled.

Make a decision again. Whether they can really live together for a lifetime.

Marriage is not as simple as you think.

I agree with your parents.

What kind of life needs can a small salesman give you?

Both parents came from this time.

It's not forcing you. But indeed.

Marriage requires more than just love.

It's a material need.

Tuition fees for children, costs.

How much can it offer?

There are many men in the world.

Don't be because of a tree.

and lose the whole forest.

In the end, I lost myself.

After I have a family of my own.

You'll find out.

Love is actually the most useless, illusory.

Nothing will work out.

Don't tell your boyfriend what your parents think.

With material things may not necessarily be very happy, but without a material foundation is absolutely impossible, don't lose your rational judgment for feelings, and don't lose happiness for the sake of material, although the salesman's job is unstable, but it is also a job, now such a society has everything, it will definitely not starve to death, just a matter of quality of life, if your boyfriend is willing to work hard, there will be a great future, to give him confidence, but also to give yourself confidence, to maintain your relationship, what you have to do now is to give yourself a period of time, think clearly.

Think about whether you really have a bright future Don't blindly conclude that the person I loved deeply before I have to look at it now has changed, and if I look at it from a distance, feelings can be cultivated slowly, but the material foundation is the guarantee, if you have nothing, what to defend love, what to take to feed the next generation?

Only by working hard with your own hands proves that you can live well, so that your parents can rest assured.

Stick to it if you like it, don't make excuses.

You always have to face it, find more topics to talk to his family, so that his family will like you very much.

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Yes, sometimes love has to be sacrificed.

The premise is that "your boyfriend also has a legitimate job and loves you very much" or vertically, giving you a reason to sacrifice.

If you quit your job in the South, you can find a new job in the North.

But there is only one boyfriend, and you are sleepy unless you want to change.

If your current job is promising, don't, and of course if it's a dispensable job, it's not a bad thing to go back with him.

But think about it, if you are a hermit from Nanshan, and go to the northern teasing hall with him, you may not be able to fit the environment over there.

It is necessary to consider the problem in many ways.

It's up to you to decide. Concise grip.

Have a happy life!

Yes, love is great! I just quit my job in Shenzhen and came back with my boyfriend. There is also the key that your home is also in the north, otherwise you will marry in the north, and the family will have several friends in the south, and then you will be lonely, and when you are wronged, you will not even have a person to talk to!

What is your situation?