Please put yourself in my shoes

It can only be said that you are a shameful scum trash among men, and there are no words to describe you.

This is the problem of method, when others are sad, you don't have to say anything, she cries, you follow her tears, she wants to drink, you accompany her to get drunk, her defense line is completely broken, if she is crying, you are like a teacher training a child: don't cry, how to be strong... This will backfire, because it is not you who is crying, and you will not be able to understand her sadness at all.

In fact, it would be nice to be by his side silently.

Sincerely to him, heart-to-heart, everything you apologize first, after the anger disappears, and then explain, if you are wrong, then explain, he is wrong, you have to tell him, but during the period look at the face, during the period of the face is not good, give a warm hug, or an affectionate kiss, so that his last line of defense collapses, and finally at your mercy.

It's hard to accept from your own point of view, you have to learn to empathize, you can speak in many different ways, don't just say it directly, it will hurt others, use the gentlest tone, and so on.

The house became like a monster, the blood of chickens and ducks was slain, and the noise of running water was too loud and annoying, and I wanted to flatten the speeding car to relieve my worries.

The house collapsed! Chicken and duck are boiled! The speeding car splashed the water on its body.

House. Lifeless.

Chickens and ducks. It's dirty, it's noisy, it's annoying.

Murmuring water. It was as if he was talking about something.

The appearance of a rush to pass. It makes the mood more irritable.

Tell her that if you think I'm not as good as him, you'll go to him...

Go with the flow, if there is love between them, then choose to be fulfilled, if not, you don't care too much, as long as the other party loves you, points out your shortcomings, hopes you are good, or hopes that you are better than others, this is not a bad thing.

Put yourself in someone's shoes, which means to put yourself in someone else's shoes. You can also be considered to be like this. But more rigorously, you can look at it from the perspective of others.