A 30 year old man s life insights, and a 30 year old man s insights

1. As if in a flash, I have already broken into the year of standing, and I have not had time to write an epitaph for my lost youth, and I have to catch up with the irresistible path of life. Compared with the ancients ten and five and ambition and learning, twenty and weak crown thirty and stand, it can be said that my life is difficult to conform to the conventions at that time, so I found a reason for my gaffe, how can the two eras be the same, the more the society progresses, the more desired, the more naturally distracted, why do I have to stand at thirty, if today's stand, there must be a clear definition, then it should be rich, wealth is the standard for measuring achievement.

2. Today is my birthday, my thirtieth birthday. When I was twenty years old, I always thought that thirty years old was so far away, and I always thought that I still had a lot of time to squander, but the birthday candle lit at the age of twenty did not seem to have been extinguished in front of me, but the birthday candle at the age of thirty had been lit, which had to make me feel the rush of time and the absence of time!

3. I understood a lot of things in the year of establishment, "there is no size on the Huangquan Road", "where the green mountains do not bury bones", what is the joy of life, and what is the fear of death? Wealth does not last long, fame and fortune are all in smoke. Wealth, fame and fortune do not bring about life and death, deliberately pursue wealth, vain care about fame and fortune, and live very painfully.

Some people often put "pampering and humiliation, watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; Go and stay unintentionally, looking at the clouds in the sky" is on the lips, but in fact, he often lives in countless entanglements.

4. In the year of establishment, you should have a knowledge base of your own, and divide it into several storage units in a hierarchical manner like a memory, and store them in your own brain in different categories, so that you will have workplace competitiveness. Cultural literacy is the most basic knowledge requirement, to learn all the knowledge required by the industry and develop.

5. Time flies, and I often think of the famous words of Confucius: "Thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and the ear is obedient." This sentence contains too many life philosophies, and it is the coordinate for Chinese to locate the time of life.

When I was young, I was curious about the outside world, I was curious about everything, I couldn't find the answer, and I needed help from others for everything, which was a kind of external dependence psychology.

6. At the age of 30, I learned to be grateful. I am grateful to my parents for giving me life, giving me a healthy body, a beautiful appearance, and an intelligent mind; I am grateful to my son for giving me warm memories and making me feel how happy it is to be alive; I am grateful to all my relatives and friends, because of you, my life is so colorful.

The following concept should be established: if there is hard work, there will be merit; If you will look for and cherish opportunities, you will not miss talents. Avoid the following pitfalls:

To admit mistakes, they can be explained appropriately but not blindly; You can be rich and happy, but you can't be enterprising; You can have a variety of answers, but don't blindly follow the trend, everyone will follow the clouds, and people will do it; It is better to compare progress than contribution, not to compare ability to treatment; Be down-to-earth rather than thinking;

Find ways not to cringe.

1. Life tells us that there are never perfect people and things in this world, and overly perfect feelings only happen in fairy tales and imaginations.

Second, the circle determines life, what kind of people are approached, what kind of road will be taken, the so-called things gather by like, and people are divided by groups. Card buddies will only urge you to play cards, drinking buddies will only urge you to toast, and reliable people will be infected with how you can make progress.

3. Everyone is striving for a full life. However, there is no such thing as an absolute perfection in the world. As soon as the sun reaches the middle, it will immediately move westward; The full moon will soon wane. Therefore, regrets are eternal, and incompleteness is life.

Fourth, when you reach a certain age, you must throw away four things: meaningless drinking parties, people who don't love you, relatives who look down on you, and false "friends", but at the same time you should have four things: the self-confidence on your face, the kindness that grows in your heart, the backbone that melts into your blood and the strength engraved in your life.

Fifth, the performance of life needs to be practiced a hundred times before it can be exchanged for a beauty. Life gives you some pain, just to tell you what it wants to teach you. If you can't learn it once, you will suffer once, and if you can't learn it all the time, you will wrestle in the same place over and over again.

Sixth, no man can be idle to win the appreciation of women. No woman can be lazy and get the respect of a man. So, let's bury your head in yourself, don't waste time on unrealistic, no growth without grievances.

Seventh, it is not terrible to have no money, what I am afraid of is that I have to wait for someone to come to the rescue; It's not terrible to be lonely, it's terrible to be lonely all the time; It's not scary to be unemployed, it's scary not to look for a job all the time; It's not terrible to be sick, but it's not terrible to be sick; It's not terrible to lose, but it's terrible to lose.

8. Before the age of 30, try hard to make mistakes, try hard, and after the age of 30, start to dock and learn to be reliable. If you don't do some things when you're young, you really don't have the opportunity to do them again. Don't be afraid of failure and falling and starting again, just afraid of burying some expectations in your heart all the time, and finally turning into a pain that often disturbs your heart.

1. What is said is not bitterness, but what cannot be said is bitterness.

2. When you fail, you can call it the wealth of life, and when you succeed, you can call it the wealth of life.

3. True satisfaction comes from your heart, not from people and things in the outside world.

4. If we all do what we can do, we will really surprise ourselves.

5. The power of love is so great that it can make people forget everything, but it is so small that it can't contain even a grain of jealous sand.

6. Adversity is a necessary process of growth, and those who can have the courage to accept adversity will grow stronger and stronger.

7. I can't forget you, or I can't forget the memories of the past.

The incisive insights of a man at the age of thirty are:1. May there be nothing to stumble on the heartstrings in the future, and everything you want is what you want.

2. I only wish to be able to laugh, make trouble, be casual, dare to love, dare to hate, and dare to chase.

3. I hope that this long and small life will live up to your every glorious moment.

4. Give time a little time, let the past pass, let the beginning begin.

5. Come as promised, wait hard, come naturally, and never live up.