Because of practical problems, is it worth breaking up with someone who has been good for many years

There are many times, many couples, and many situations, all because of various practical problems, and they have to face it, choose love or succumb to reality, it can be said that it is not a big difficulty in front of them. In between such choices, many couples have ended their relationship with many years because of reality.

Is it worth it? Is reality really more important than the love that you really give back? Are people really that powerless in reality?

Is love really that worthless? In my heart, I will value love above everything in the world except family affection, and put it on me, I will not choose to break up with my girlfriend because of practical problems.

Because I'm lucky, I have a girlfriend I've been dating for seven years since high school. In the past seven years, we have hardly quarreled, and every day is like the first day of a relationship, and it feels like a rainbow love, one color a day, no one for a week.

Although we have basically never quarreled with each other, we have also encountered choices due to real problems.

It's like the year we just graduated from high school, we originally said before the college entrance examination that we would take the exam well, and then strive to go to the same university, and then continue our love road. However, after the results of the college entrance examination came down, I exceeded the first line of 60 points in our province, and my object was just enough to get on the first line, and the difference between us was basically 60 points.

Originally, I thought we wouldn't be together in college, but she didn't know how important she was in my heart. I didn't hesitate to choose to go to the same school as her, and I didn't tell her at the time.

When school started and she saw me chasing her with my luggage and getting on the same train, she realized that I chose to go to the same city and the same school with her for love.

Later, we were as loving as ever in college, and every day we were the same as other couples, no, we were happier than other couples, because we not only had love between us, but also had a family affection that was difficult for ordinary couples to achieve.

After graduating from university, we were faced with the practical problem of finding a job, and she preferred the north, especially Dalian, which is a city that she has always wanted to have. As for me, due to family reasons, my mother asked me to go home after graduation, arrange a job for me and live a stable life, and fortunately, I can often be with my parents in the future.

It was hard for the two of us to agree on one thing, because we had been in a cold war for more than a week.

In the end, my girlfriend finally relented, because we were born in the same city, and it was only natural for us to return to the place where we were born after graduation. I think a big part of the reason she was willing to compromise with me was because she didn't want to lose me, because if we couldn't come to an agreement, we would be separated forever, and she didn't want that outcome, and I didn't want to.

I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married, don't be bound by the reality in front of you to your belief in love, please carry out love to the end!

Because of the real problem, I want to ask what the real problem is, whether it is the difference between the rich and the poor, whether the parents do not approve or whether one of them has changed his mind. Let's analyze them one by one today.

First, there is a large gap between the rich and the poor.

Nowadays, people are more realistic, and some people even put forward the qualifications for marriage and children without money, I just want to ask, is money really that important? Can money buy love? Can money be used to measure love?

What's wrong with being poor! Isn't a poor person eligible to marry and have children? How ridiculous this is, how ridiculous it is.

Now that you've been together for so many years, you must know each other very well! So if you break up, how long will it take you to get to know your other half? I don't think it's worth it!

2. Parents do not agree.

What age is it now, it's not the era of the original matchmaker's words and parents' orders. Now it's free love. And I believe that as long as you stay together, your parents will not be able to separate you.

Besides, today's parents want their children to form their own happy families. As long as you talk to them well, then they will not object. Parents have softer ears, and often go to see each other's parents and say good things.

The tacit understanding you have cultivated with each other over the years is not something that can be said in a few words. You have to cultivate a tacit understanding with your new partner! How many "wars" have to be passed!

If it's because of this, you have to give up. Then I don't think it's worth it. Also, don't say that you don't have any of these, and your parents are still against it, it can only mean that you haven't worked hard enough.

3. One of them had a change of heart.

If that's the case, I support you breaking up. Better a finger off than always aching. It's worth it. But that shouldn't happen when you've been together for that long.

So, think it about it and try to have a clear conscience. Then make a decision, whether to be together, or break up.

Introduction: In the process of falling in love, in fact, everyone will have a certain intention of getting married, but whether they can finally go to the palace of marriage is caused by many factors, and it is not determined by the time of love. I've been talking to my partner for four years, and I broke up because of family reasons, do you think it's worth it?

First of all, in the process of falling in love and getting married, it will be affected by various reasons, no matter how long you have been in love, but you have not gone to the palace of marriage, it means that two people are not suitable for marriage. And in this process, breaking up for family reasons means that the two families are not suitable, in fact, after getting married, it is inevitable that there will be a deep connection with each other's families. Therefore, if you don't break up but get married, it will also bring a series of problems, in such a situation, break up as soon as possible, and look for a new relationship.

In fact, it is a process of timely stop loss, and it also avoids unhappiness in married life in the future, so there is no need to feel sorry in this process. Instead, you should let go in time, and then you will be able to give yourself a chance, and also give the other party a chance. Therefore, at this time, if you break up, you must get out of the haze as soon as possible and be able to accept a new relationship.

In this way, two people can also be separated better, which can help their own development.

In fact, when you look at some people's views on love and marriage, you will find that the objects you are looking for are different. When you are in love, you may just feel that whoever you want can fall in love. But when getting married, many people hope to be more compatible in personality, to be able to honor their parents, and so on.

Therefore, when you are married and in love, you must think clearly about which one is marriage and which one is love. Don't use the standard of marriage to restrict love, and don't use the standard of love to restrict marriage, which will only bring a series of confusion and contradictions. In daily life, it is also necessary to figure out that if you are in love, you must try to make the other party happy and make yourself happy, which is the most important thing.

But when you get married, you have to take responsibility so that you can help the family grow.

It's not very worth it, because family reasons can be solved, and if two people can't really be together anymore, there is no need to separate for external reasons.

I don't think it's worth it. Because the two have been talking for 4 years, but they broke up because of family reasons, it is very unworthwhile to leave regrets.

I think it's worth it, because getting married is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, and it's better to break up as soon as possible if it's not suitable.

This is actually to look at the probability, the people you meet in each relationship are different, and the feelings are also different.

It is possible to meet a better partner in the next relationship after a breakup, or to meet a worse partner than now.

The next object is always an unknown, because that person is not something you know very well, and only after you are really together will you understand what kind of person the other person is.

Personally, I think that after a breakup, the next love partner will really be better. Because I will be very rational when I look for the next object, and the people I am looking for are people who take great care of themselves and love themselves, not people who are always hurting themselves.

We should never have this kind of thought, because once we feel that the next one is more perfect, we will not be able to be with such people, and I think true love is the best now.

After the breakup, I don't think it's really good to have the next love partner, because I personally think it's true, I don't think it's necessarily.

This one is certainly not absolute. But the next time you're in a relationship, you'll definitely have an increased ability to tell the truth from the fake of your love interest.

Not necessarily. It depends on fate. If you're lucky, you can meet the right one for you. However, it is very possible to treat it with sincerity and care.

Not necessarily, it is not up to us to decide who we meet, but only after a period of dating can we know whether the other party is good or not.

Is it really better to have the next love partner after a breakup? The answer is not necessarily, maybe one is worse than the other, or it is possible to meet a better one.

It depends on whether you meet someone who is destined? People who fall in love, after breaking up, both of them will experience a period of pain, and then after calming down, they will meet the next destined person, at this time they will be more attentive when they are the first object, and they know how to cherish more, because they have learned to cherish.

This is not necessarily, the object only gets along with each other to know whether it is good or not, and maybe it is good or not.

Love is happy and sweet, but the process of pursuing love can be affected by various factors. Among these influencing factors, the subject's family status is one of the most important factors.

I won't break up because of the subject's family. Because of the ups and downs that my husband and I have come all the way over the years, they have seen it in their eyes. "I am willing, and I have done so, and I am still working with him", for so many years, I have worked hard for love, and I have never cared about whether this person is good or not, not his family background.

My husband is the kind of college student who came out of the countryside, and his parents are very poor, anyway, we both work and live in the city, and we have never been able to get anything from our parents. Because I feel that it is not easy for the elderly, how can the children take another penny from them. It is also because of this that when my husband and I got married, there was no bride price, and even the wedding was planned to be held later, because I was poor in order to buy a house at that time.

Over the years, there have been a lot of difficult times when we had no money and were worried, but fortunately, we were both very motivated and relatively economical, and we felt that we would spend less if we had no money. After two years of marriage, the difficult married life has gradually come through, and we have never disliked each other's family background, and we still live a life of "treating each other". Maybe it's because of love, I don't want to miss him as a person, and then I chose to work hard with him without hesitation.

This is my personal relationship between love and materiality, and I choose love because I feel that material things can be earned by myself.

This is mainly not that the other party is not excellent, because this child has a rebellious heart, and always feels that it is appropriate to find a partner by himself, and he doesn't want to be arranged by his father and mother, so it is difficult to have a staring result.

Hello, because you probably won't chase girls you don't know what girls like, so you always break up.

It is recommended that you ask for help from experienced people around you, carefully summarize the lessons learned, and then continue to work hard.