What do you think of those who love to drink at the dinner table?

<> to be honest, I really dislike people who persuade alcohol. Some people advise others to drink because they can drink it, and you can explain this kind of person, just bite yourself and don't drink. But some people persuade to drink completely in the mentality of watching the excitement and not thinking about it, and this kind of person is really annoying.

Nowadays, many transactions are obtained at the dinner table, so eating at the table is inevitably drinking, and once you drink, you will inevitably persuade others to drink two glasses.

When I was a child, there would be a banquet when someone else had a wedding or other event, and we would go with my parents at that time. If you get close, you will see all kinds of people at my dad's table to drink, but because of the problem of face, my dad will choose to drink, and then one of us will go over and tell him to drink less. But in fact, you can't drink less at all.

Every time this happens, I have to drink two glasses, drink too much, and then my dad will come home and feel bad. At that time, I really felt that it was unnecessary to persuade alcohol. But you don't know how to persuade in this situation, because most people will choose to drink it when they encounter this situation.

If you don't drink it, you won't drink it at the beginning, so everyone is familiar with it at the wine table, and you won't persuade if you know that you won't. But if you break the work in the middle, then you will definitely be indispensable every time you drink in the future.

Originally, it was only to show the enthusiasm of the host's family, but now it has changed its taste. On the news, many people can't resist drinking a lot of alcohol because of other people's persuasion, and they die after drinking a lot, which is not uncommon. Now there is also a legal provision that says that persuasion to drink is punishable, so it is better to be cautious in the future.

The liquid of "wine" can be said to run through the ancient and modern history of China, it penetrates into all aspects of people's lives, and naturally forms a wine culture, which penetrates into the blood of the Chinese and has a far-reaching influence.

In ancient times, the real wine culture was a kind of taste, which is completely different from the barbaric energy in the current "wine table culture".

When the ancients drank alcohol, what they admired was not drunk and drunk, but often the artistic conception of "slightly drunk".

In the ancient wine bureau, most of them paid attention to meeting friends with literature and using wine to help fun, and wine was a beautiful and romantic carrier.

Ouyang Xiu also wrote in "The Story of the Drunkard Pavilion": "The drunkard's intention is not to drink, but to care about the mountains and rivers." "Wine is also just a tool, not for drunkenness, but for appreciating the beauty of mountains and rivers.

It can be seen that the core of the wine culture that people really respect lies in the word "culture", and the pursuit is the sublimation of cultural heritage and spiritual level.

In the past, the wine culture had the elegance of "flowing water", but now the so-called "wine table culture" is mostly arrogant to force people to drink.

The so-called "good wine is not greedy, slightly drunk is better than a hundred drunk", wine is actually just an ordinary drink, a communication tool, but the desire of human nature has given it too many negative meanings.

Drinking is about happiness and pleasure, not the so-called "embodiment of rights", etc., and the wine that strips off the deformed wine table culture will taste sweeter and mellower!

I think the culture of persuasion at the wine table is particularly civilized and respectful. Standing on the basis of an independent personality, the correct and objective distance from drinking is the most reasonable.

After being persuaded to drink at the wine table, everyone can choose to tell each other that their bodies are not feeling well. At the same time, you can also tell them that drinking too much alcohol can have a big impact on their condition. At this time, other people will not persuade alcohol anymore, and they may come over to care about everyone's health.

Whether it is in the process of work or in life, everyone will inevitably encounter social situations. But when socializing, many people especially like to persuade drinking, and they also like to pull everyone to drink together. If you are advised to drink all the time, it may also affect everyone's dining experience, and it will also affect everyone's mood.

At this time, you can learn to refuse others tactfully, you can tell your friends that your body is a little uncomfortable, and if you drink, it may also make the condition more serious. In this way, not only will they not persuade them to drink, but they will even care about everyone's physical condition. <>

Everyone knows that drinking alcohol will have a particularly big impact on human health, and it will also cause fatty liver to suffer from human body. Therefore, everyone should try not to drink too much, which is the healthiest way to do it. When you go to socialize, you can choose to drink some drinks or you can choose to drink some tea.

But there are also some people who have to drink alcohol, and at this time everyone can choose to eat some food appropriately. This can reduce the damage caused by alcohol to the stomach and intestines, and when drinking, you should not drink too fast in one go, which will also affect the human body. <>

If you really don't want to drink, you can also tell your friends that you are driving. If you go home and your wife smells alcohol, it may affect the relationship between husband and wife. In addition, drinking alcohol will affect your work the next day, and you may also be criticized by your boss.

Therefore, there are many ways to refuse to be persuaded to drink, and in this process, you should find the most suitable reason for yourself, and at the same time, don't say it too directly. In this case, it may also make friends feel very shameless.

1.Changing the topic, at the dinner, we did not make relevant preparations before the dinner because we did not understand the nature of the dinner. It wasn't until everyone started socializing at the dinner and persuaded each other to drink that they reacted.

2.Ask someone to help keep the wine out, and at the dinner, if we are with friends or acquaintances, then the friends and acquaintances also know that we can't drink. Therefore, when we are persuaded by others to drink at a dinner party, if we can't refuse, we can ask friends or acquaintances to help us block the wine.

You can directly tell the other party that you are allergic to alcohol, so that the other party will have a clear understanding and will not let yourself drink alcohol in the future.

Wine is indispensable for men, but it is extremely hateful for women. Why? Let's talk slowly.

I'm a northerner, and northern men give the impression that they can drink and be bold. In the eyes of northern men, wine equals friends. For them, if they don't drink, they don't have friends.

At a party, if someone asks you to drink wine, you don't give them face. In the business field, if you don't drink if others persuade you not to drink, you won't be able to take this order. It's like you can't do anything without alcohol.

But is this really the case with our wine culture?

From ancient times to the present, drinking alcohol has been a kind of culture, but by some people, the wine culture has changed its taste.

Drink pleasantly, get drunk and hurt your body. Drinking too much is not a little good for yourself or your family.

There are a few friends around me, who are not very old, and they are in their forties. Because of drinking, he was sent to the intensive care unit, and after a few days in it, the person died. Leaving a wife and children to live a difficult life.

Obviously, I can't drink anymore, but I can't help others to let me drink, and in the end, my body is gone, who is hurting?

It's okay to drink alcohol, do what you can. Knowing that you can't drink but not refuse, who will bear the responsibility in the end?

Many couples quarrel because men drink, is this wine so good? As most men say, it's not that you can't quit drinking, it's that you can't quit friends. Will a true friend try his best to persuade you to drink, regardless of your own physical condition?

My husband is also a drinker, and we have 365 days a year, and there are 300 days when he drinks and quarrels. His friends always say that if a man doesn't drink, he won't be called a man, no matter what the situation, he just persuades you to drink, and he has to persuade you to drink.

The result? made other people's husbands and wives quarrel after returning home, and even quarreled with the Civil Affairs Bureau. This is the alcohol culture in the eyes of men now.

In my opinion, the sake culture is to drink something to liven up the atmosphere, and to have a good amount of money in your heart, and not to lose your temper. Instead of having to drink too much, get drunk, and drink unconscious.

I don't know what everyone thinks.

The drinking table culture is valued by some people, and these people have a lot of resources, and in order to cater to these people, those who ask for it or please him will also adhere to this culture. But for most people, the wine table culture is dross and should be discarded.

The culture on the wine table has a history of thousands of years, and these are also a kind of cultural inheritance, so this culture has been passed down and is relatively recognized. The key is what to look at at at the wine table to use. So I think the wine table culture is also desirable, which is also a kind of cultural inheritance.

Persuasion may be well-intentioned. Be moderate, too. Persuading people to drink also depends on how much the other party drinks, whether they are driving to the banquet, and do not persuade people who can't drink to drink. At the wine table, you should just have fun and don't drink too much.

It is not advisable because this behavior will create a bad drinking atmosphere, and it will hurt the body and have safety hazards for a long time, so it is not advisable.