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I want to say to this daughter-in-law, your mother-in-law has paid so much for you, and she bought the house, so you can't do this to her.

In this regard, I would like to say that everyone should think more about themselves, whether it is a mother-in-law or a parent, they should think about their own interests, and should not give all their savings to future generations.

What I want to say is that this daughter-in-law is too unfilial, the mother-in-law has already taken out all her savings to buy you a house, you don't let the mother-in-law live with you, where should the mother-in-law go, this is a manifestation of unfilial piety, such a daughter-in-law can't have it, and she won't take care of her mother-in-law when she is old.

Obviously, the daughter-in-law did something wrong, after all, the mother-in-law took out all her savings to buy a house, and the house must give the mother-in-law a place to live; But the mother-in-law should also examine her own shortcomings, so that the daughter-in-law will not tolerate it, the key is that the son must be able to adjust the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

I don't think the daughter-in-law did the right thing. The mother-in-law took out all her savings and bought a house for her daughter-in-law, but in fact, legally this house also belongs to the mother-in-law, so the daughter-in-law did not do it right, and the mother-in-law should be allowed to live in.

There is an obligation to support parents.

The house is the property of you and your husband, and in principle, you and your husband have the right to occupy, use and dispose of it, and as a son and daughter-in-law, you have the obligation to support the elderly. If you don't want your parents-in-law to live together, it is advisable to negotiate a solution. If you must report to the police, the police may also try to resolve the issue through negotiation with your family.

According to Article 1067 of the Civil Code implemented in 2021, if parents fail to fulfill their maintenance obligations, minor children or adult children who cannot live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children. The obligation to support parents includes three aspects: material support, spiritual comfort, and daily care.

Financial support refers to the provision of necessary maintenance for the elderly when the parents have no financial income, or the economic income is insufficient to maintain the local minimum living needs.

In some regions and families, parents want their sons to live with them after marriage, a phenomenon known as "mother-in-law cohabitation". This phenomenon can be analysed from a cultural, social and psychological perspective. 1. Cultural aspects 1

The influence of traditional concepts In many folk traditions in China, the family is a group, and the son should share the life for his parents when he becomes an adult, and the parents can also have a support in their old age; At the same time, in traditional culture, the son is an important figure in the continuation of the family and needs to take responsibility for the succession. Therefore, parents want their sons and daughters-in-law to live together in order to take better care of them and the family. 2.

Practical considerationsIn some rural areas, it is very difficult for the elderly to live alone and need to be cared for by their children. Because the daughter is married, it is inconvenient to take care of her parents. Therefore, parents want their son to be able to live with them in order to take better care of them and the family.

2. Social aspects 1Housing resources are scarce As the urban population grows, housing resources become more and more scarce. In the city, it is not easy for many families to have a separate house, and the son lives with his parents after marriage, which can save housing resources and better play the role of family gathering.

2.With the development of society and the continuous improvement of material and cultural levels, people have gradually begun to pay attention to the quality of family life. In this context, parents want their son and daughter-in-law to live together, share housework, take care of the family together, and make family life more comfortable and warm.

3. Psychological aspects 1The need for affectionParents want their sons to be able to live with them out of the need for affection. Older people are often lonely and need to be accompanied and cared for by loved ones.

As a son, in order to meet the needs of his parents, he is willing to live with his parents and spend the rest of his life together. 2.Emotional Relationships between Children The emotional relationship between children is very close, and the relationship between sons and mothers is especially delicate.

Some parents believe that if their son does not live with them after marriage, it means losing his son's love and support. Therefore, in some cases, parents desperately want their sons and daughters-in-law to live together in order to maintain the integrity and stability of the family. To sum up, parents want their sons to live with them after marriage, which is caused by a combination of factors.

Whether it is a cultural, social or psychological factor, we need to treat it rationally in order to better maintain family relations and social stability.

Summary. Hello, the mother-in-law lives with her son and daughter-in-law, but the mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law did not support her, and this situation is generally that the daughter-in-law has no job and is just a full-time mother, so the mother-in-law can't see the daughter-in-law's contribution to the family, and always feels that the son is raising the family alone, and it has nothing to do with the daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law lived with her son and daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law did not support her.

Hello, the mother-in-law lives with her son and daughter-in-law, but the mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law did not support her, and this situation is generally that the daughter-in-law has no job and is just a full-time mother, so the mother-in-law can't see the daughter-in-law's contribution to the family, and always feels that the son is raising the family alone, and it has nothing to do with the daughter-in-law.

suggested that the daughter-in-law go out to work and have the financial ability, but the mother-in-law did not dare to say so.

The daughter-in-law also went to work, and the mother-in-law said that she didn't want her daughter-in-law to raise her.

My dear, listening to you say this, I guess you have encountered a conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, since your daughter-in-law also has a job and has financial ability, your mother-in-law still says this, so how do daughters-in-law and mother-in-law usually get along?

What is the husband's attitude when there is a conflict between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law?

My dear, I am a psychological counselor Ripples, I don't know what problems you have encountered here, if time permits, you can say in more detail, Ripples will accompany you to face it.

In fact, the key to this matter is to look at the husband's attitude, if the husband feels that the mother-in-law is unreasonable, patiently comforts his wife, and at the same time makes it clear to the mother-in-law that his home is the daughter-in-law's home, and he is raising the daughter-in-law, then this contradiction will be solved.

My husband also agreed with my mother-in-law's words, saying that she didn't want you to raise her, and that even if you were old, it was right!

Yes, so the teacher does not recommend that you lose your temper directly with your in-laws.

When the time comes, everyone will blame you for being ignorant and calculating.

It's not worth it. My dear, the past can only be forgotten by letting it pass, especially the things at home, which are difficult to read in every family, and they are messy if they are not cleaned. Since your small family is not financially affected by your in-laws, what you can do is to minimize contact with your in-laws in the future.

If you have to get in touch, like going home for the New Year now, then you have to do it on a case-by-case basis.

Summary. The daughter-in-law has no obligation to give her mother-in-law housing, but she is the son's wife, and she has the obligation to help her son fulfill her filial piety, as a mother-in-law raised her son, the son makes money outside, and the daughter-in-law is with her son, these responsibilities are on the daughter-in-law, although the daughter-in-law has no responsibility to take care of the mother-in-law, but the situation in every family is the same, if the daughter-in-law is not filial to the mother-in-law, his own daughter-in-law will not be filial to him in the future, it is the same, generation after generation.

Hello dear. The daughter-in-law has no obligation to give her mother-in-law housing, but she is the son's wife, and she has the obligation to help her son fulfill her filial piety, as a mother-in-law raised her son, the son makes money on the outside trembling bench, and the daughter-in-law is with her son, these responsibilities are on the daughter-in-law, although the daughter-in-law has no responsibility to take care of the mother-in-law, but the situation of each family is the same, if the daughter-in-law is not filial to the mother-in-law, his own daughter-in-law will not be filial to him in the future, it is the same, and the chain of regret is from generation to generation.

Legal analysis: If the names of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are registered, it is okay to be auspicious, but it must be made clear before registration that it must be given to the two; If the mother-in-law dies, the daughter-in-law can dispose of the property only after the mother-in-law's legal heirs give up the inheritance right (one-half) of the property; After the previous conditions are fulfilled, if you want to change the property to the independent name of your daughter-in-law, you also need to pay relevant taxes.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1054 An invalid or annulled marriage is not legally binding from the beginning, and the parties do not have the rights and obligations of husband and wife. The property acquired during the period of living in the same house shall be disposed of by agreement between the parties; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment on the basis of the principle of taking care of the innocent party.

The disposition of property in an invalid marriage caused by bigamy must not infringe upon the property rights and interests of the parties to a lawful marriage. The provisions of this Law on parents and children shall apply to children born to the parties. If the marriage is invalid or annulled, the innocent party has the right to claim damages.