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From the perspective of every family, the mother-in-law brings the daughter-in-law foot washing water, it may be that the daughter-in-law is sick, or she has children with limited mobility, and taking care of each other is also a traditional virtue of the family, the daughter-in-law can bring the mother-in-law foot washing water, and the mother-in-law can also take care of her daughter-in-law.
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Love is mutual. It is also appropriate for a mother-in-law to take care of her daughter-in-law when she is in good health. Palliative women should take good care of their daughters-in-law during pregnancy or when they are unable to support themselves.
Conversely, when the mother-in-law is old or alive, the daughter-in-law will take care of the mother-in-law as her mother-in-law takes care of her. Mutual respect and love can lead to a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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The daughter-in-law also has times when she is sick and uncomfortable, as long as both parties are willing, it is acceptable for the mother-in-law to bring the daughter-in-law foot washing water.
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If the daughter-in-law is pregnant, it is understandable, but it is inconvenient to move. In addition, if the son is not at home and the daughter-in-law is sick, the mother-in-law can do the same.
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One is willing to fight, the other is willing to suffer. No one has to say anyone. When there is difficulty, it is normal for one person to help another, and when the mother-in-law is old, the daughter-in-law feeds back.
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If it's all voluntary, I personally think it's hard for outsiders to say anything, but on the other hand, it's unreasonable to let the old serve the young.
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Summary. Hello, what is the taboo for mother-in-law to wash her daughter-in-law's feet, I think: 1In general, don't choose too late; 2.The temperature of the water should not be too high or too low; 3.The direction is generally southeast!
Hello, what is the taboo for mother-in-law to wash her daughter-in-law's feet, I think: 1The time is generally not to choose Fengchun, choose too late; 2.The temperature of the water should not be too high or too low for the silver base; 3.The direction is generally southeast!
At night. Not the southeast.
It's not too late, it's not good for your health!
The key is that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good now.
Dear, if that's the case, try not to do it, it's easy to increase the contradiction!
Before I got married, she had to wash my feet in the water at night, and I always felt weird.
No wonder, he probably didn't notice the details!
Because she is not a kind person.
Dear, why, he is willing to help you wash your feet and your feelings should be good, do you know, very few mothers-in-law are willing to help their daughter-in-law wash their feet!
He shouldn't want you to be too tired or think you're too tired to do this!
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Mother-in-law helps her daughter-in-law wash her shoes in the water, is such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship enviable? For this kind of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, then of course it is normal for people to be very envious, because many times the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, because the era of mother-in-law life is different from the era of this daughter-in-law's life, resulting in the three views of the two people are different, and there is a generation gap, which leads to the emergence of some friction in life, like this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, then it is a wish of every daughter-in-law, Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always very tense<>
Because the era in which the mother-in-law lived was different from the era in which she lived, and the era in which the daughter-in-law lived was also different, the two people had a very deep generation gap, and the daughter-in-law did these things, so the mother-in-law was very dissatisfied, so it led to a contradiction between the two people, and this kind of contradiction often happened, which led to deeper and deeper contradictions, so the relationship between the two people was very tense <>
Like the current situation, then what this mother-in-law said shows that the relationship between two people should be very harmonious, and it is basically difficult for this scene to occur in many families in the world, let alone this scene, it is <>normal to not fight
In general, it is normal for a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be very enviable, because if there is such a harmonious relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, then the home can be much quieter.
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It must be enviable, throughout the ages, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the most difficult, the mother-in-law helps the daughter-in-law wash her shoes, and some mothers don't tremble and do it, of course, it is enviable.
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Yes, this mother-in-law is very good to her daughter-in-law, and she is very enviable.
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In fact, such a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also envied by many people, so I think such a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also worth our efforts for each other.
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The mother-in-law's behavior is superfluous, and she should not care about the affairs between the young husband and wife. The son washing the daughter-in-law's feet may also be a caring and considerate mentality, it is the love between them, and the mother-in-law should not meddle in this matter.
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The mother-in-law's behavior is understandable, after all, it is her own son, and she is distressed, plus the mother-in-law does not understand the life of the husband and wife, and she will definitely subconsciously think that she is often bullied. At this time, as a child, you should explain to your mother that you are not being bullied.
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I think this behavior of the mother-in-law is also out of the protection of the child, and she may think that her son is oppressed by the daughter-in-law, but this is not conducive to the relationship between the husband and wife at all?
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At present, there is no such custom, after all, this is not quite in line with the traditional concept of Chinese. However, it is normal for a daughter-in-law to wash the feet of her parents-in-law. Maybe it's because the cost of getting married and marrying a daughter-in-law is too great now.
The mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law, who had just entered the door, to wash her feet. If this is a common custom in a certain place, then the daughter-in-law should generally follow the local customs. It's not about human dignity, it's just a matter of custom and etiquette.
On the contrary, if it is only the mother-in-law who deliberately tests the filial piety of her daughter-in-law by washing her feet, I personally think that in the current social environment, I really dare not agree with this method.
In China, from the perspective of traditional etiquette and filial piety, a daughter-in-law washes her mother-in-law's feet, and there is nothing to say, she can wash it. But the times are different, and now many young people, most of them are pampered, they don't care about taking care of people, their parents spoil them, and they have to wait for their mothers at home. And now, just after leaving the home where they have lived for many years and entering another unfamiliar door, they have to wash the feet of their mother-in-law, who is still a little strange, and most daughters-in-law can't accept it.
If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been together for a long time and the relationship is relatively harmonious, and the mother-in-law asks her to wash her feet, most daughters-in-law can still do it.
To a greater extent, this is more likely for the mother-in-law to give her daughter-in-law a "dismount" under the banner of "filial piety". Generally speaking, filial piety should be reflected in the little things that have been living together for a long time, and there is no need to be so pretentious, and the mother-in-law's somewhat feudal patriarchal thinking is likely to arouse the disgust of the daughter-in-law and her foreign family. In fact, filial piety is of course to be promoted, but there should not be this form to speculate whether the younger generation is filial piety, otherwise filial piety will become tasteless.
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These are all changes in the current times, and people's human nature has begun to distort.
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Because in the past, great importance was attached to ethics, but now people have reformed and opened up.
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This is because of the changes that have been made in line with the new atmosphere of the new era.
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I think it may be because my daughter-in-law has limited mobility during pregnancy.
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It shows that this mother-in-law is very reasonable, a reasonable person, will not embarrass her daughter-in-law, and is also educating her son to be filial.
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Mother-in-law, I'll wash your feet and let my son come, he hasn't washed my feet yet, and warns us that maybe the most caring person is still a daughter-in-law, and sometimes a son may not be as filial as a daughter-in-law.
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This dialogue warns us that we must be filial to our parents, and we should also spend more time with our parents, otherwise we will have children who want to support them but will not wait for them, and it will be too late to regret such a situation.
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Tell us that it is impossible for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along like ordinary mothers and sons. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can coexist peacefully, but not too closely.
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First of all, I don't understand, are you a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law? If the mother-in-law wants to wash her feet, it would be good to buy a new basin specifically for washing her feet, why do you have to use the daughter-in-law's washbasin? Or is it that the daughter-in-law washes the basin for her face, and then the mother-in-law takes it to wash her feet, and then the daughter-in-law uses it back to wash her face.
Does my mother-in-law want to prove that her daughter-in-law listens to her in everything at home, she is a queen mother, and you are an effort, and you must serve me.
I don't know if being a mother-in-law is very fulfilling. My mother-in-law is also from the countryside. I'm not saying here to denigrate and look down on rednecks.
My mother-in-law's pot is also omnipotent. I have seen his basin for washing feet, for bathing, for washing clothes. Used to kill chickens and ducks.
Used to wash the mop. It was also used to wash the feet of his best friend. In short, he will take out everything that can be used in pots.
It's not a big deal, I used a basin when I was confined. Everyone knows that it is used for medicinal baths. After using it, the basin broke and I threw it away.
As a result, it was picked up by her mother-in-law and used. I saw it and threw the basin away. But my mother-in-law picked it up and used it again, and I couldn't say anything.
As a result, at a banquet, I actually saw it. I discarded the basin and they used it to hold vegetables and eat them. But of course, I can't say anything.
A basin is used to wash feet and faces, it is really very unhygienic, who knows if your mother-in-law has athlete's foot? Besides, the current basin is not so expensive. One person buys one or two pots, what is your big problem?
A basin is only 18 yuan. The whole family will not buy more than 100 pots, so as a mother-in-law, why do you have to use your daughter-in-law's washbasin to wash your feet? What benefits will you get by practicing your daughter-in-law like this?
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It is not that the mother-in-law has a sense of achievement, but the daughter-in-law is very filial, and under normal circumstances, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is particularly harmonious, and the daughter-in-law uses the washbasin to wash the feet of the mother-in-law.
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Yes, at least I feel that my daughter-in-law is very good to me.
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No, it won't! What is there to be proud of! Daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law get along happily, love and respect each other, so as to maintain the harmony of a family!
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This proves that the daughter-in-law is very filial, and the mother-in-law is particularly touched in her heart, but don't be proud, pride makes people backward, treat it with a normal heart, the daughter-in-law is filial to the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law should also be good to the daughter-in-law, and maintain such a relationship with each other, which is called family harmony, the family has the old and the young, and happiness comes from this.
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What the fuck does this have to do with a sense of accomplishment? It's just a lack of hygiene!
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