What should I do if my child is obviously very smart, but he just doesn t like to learn?

There are many children who are more receptive to things and are very intelligent. But I just don't like learning, mainly because parents don't guide their children in the right direction. First of all, we should not let our children play all the time, we should tell them how happy it is to swim in the ocean of knowledge.

Use the right way to guide children to love learning, and we use the right way to guide children, so that children can truly love learning. Generally, children who accept things quickly are very good at learning, so if parents can guide their children in the right direction, it is also very helpful for children. In this way, it is also a very responsible phenomenon for the child, if the child is particularly playful, we can negotiate with the child.

After the child has studied for a while, he can play for a while, otherwise he will not be able to play with toys, and most children will agree.

Tell the child the importance of learning and we should not disturb the child in the process of watching TV, first of all, we must make a schedule with the child. What kind of things to do in what kind of time, so that the child will have a plan. After a long time, the child will learn on his own when the time is up.

We must not beat and scold our children, if we beat and scold our children, they will only make them more rebellious, and they will only make them more dislike learning.

It is also very important not to force the child to beat or abuse the child's parents, only if you can educate correctly, can you make the child better. We can play games with our children, and parents should not watch TV or play with mobile phones while their children are learning. We can also read a book next to the child, so that the child can ask us if there is anything he can't know.

Then think about it, whether you will only criticize and not encourage in learning, and change it to be consistent with the problems faced by children in learning. Usually encourage and discover the child's shining points.

In this case, it is better to communicate with the child more, so that the child is aware of the importance of learning, and can realize that learning can bring happiness to oneself and can also make oneself grow, and it is very good to do this by yourself.

When the child can learn better and recognize learning, give a certain reward, and the child will definitely learn very seriously.

Introduction: If you find that your child is very smart and doesn't want to learn, find a way to do it.

When many children are at home, they are very smart at learning and can understand thinking children. If the child is very smart and does not want to learn, parents can adjust some of the child's ideas, so that the child can learn well, do not know that the child is in this situation, although the child is very smart, but if the parent wants the child to learn, it is necessary to give the child a correct direction of the child, do not always go to play, must educate the child. Many children often feel that they are not very special when they are young, so parents should talk to their children, let children have a clear understanding, so that children can also know, must tell children in time, can not let children have this habit, if children usually have some bad habits, then parents must tell children what are the benefits of learning, so that children can fall in love with learning, regardless of whether the child is smart or not, parents must let the child learn to accept, so that the child can know.

Although many children are very smart, but parents should also find some shining points in their children, so that children know what kind of methods they can learn to treat their children's learning, parents must learn to concretize, so that children will have a good attitude, must have a good talk with children, let children know how to do it, must give children examples, many children do not feel happy in learning, then parents should also let children swim in the ocean of knowledge, Let the child master more skills and techniques, so that the child will know what the role of learning is, and the parents must ensure a good attitude. Some parents always blindly emphasize their children's learning, regardless of other aspects of the child, which will also make the child very disgusted, and it is important to know what kind of way the child is suitable for. Some children are very smart when they are young and don't want to learn, so parents must learn to be good at guiding their children so that their children can be improved.

It may be that the child is particularly lazy, or it may be that the child does not have a particularly good way of learning, or the parent's management is not particularly strict, so he does not want to learn, and he should make a plan for the child.

In ordinary times, children should be actively guided, and children should be told the importance of learning, so that children can experience fun in learning, and tease so as to stimulate children's learning and fun.

Tell your child about the joy of learning and arouse your child's love for learning, so that your child will love learning.

Nowadays, many parents complain that their children do not like to learn, always want to play, what should they do if their children do not like to learn? In fact, there are no children who are born with a love of learning, the key is to see how parents guide.

1. Help children find the right way to learn.

As a parent, you should help your child develop good study habits and find the right way to learn. If the learning method is not correct, then the child does not regret not only not liking to study, and his grades will become worse and worse, and even he will have an aversion to learning. Parents can communicate with teachers to find out why their children don't like to learn, and then find a learning method that suits them, so that their children can fall in love with learning.

2. Parents should set a good example.

If the child is playful and does not like to learn, parents should check to see if they are doing well enough. If you as a parent come home from work and play with your mobile phone, play mahjong, and watch TV, then your child will also be exposed to it, and slowly stop learning and just want to play. If parents can set a good example and read more books in front of their children, then their children will also be nurtured and slowly fall in love with learning.

3. Create a good learning environment.

Some children don't like to learn, and it has a lot to do with the surrounding environment, for example, children are surrounded by some friends who don't like to learn, and they are naturally close to ink, and they become less and less fond of learning. Therefore, if you want children to fall in love with learning, then you must create a good learning environment for them.

Fourth, let children enjoy the sense of accomplishment brought by learning.

If a person always fails and can't enjoy the joy of success, he will slowly lose his fighting spirit, and the same is true for children's learning. As a parent, you should encourage your children a lot, even if there is only a little progress, you should not hesitate to praise them, and if you make great progress, you can consider giving them some substantial rewards, so that children have a sense of accomplishment and experience the infinite fun brought by learning.

This is a worthwhile question, because parents' educational concepts and behaviors have a profound impact on their children's development. Some parents may think that if their children play with children who are not good at learning or behaving well, it will affect their children's learning and behavior, so they should be taught not to associate with these children. But is this practice good or bad?

First of all, we need to be clear that children need to be exposed to different people and things in the process of growing up in order to gain rich experience and knowledge and better develop their abilities. Interacting with children who are not good at learning or behaving well can help children recognize the differences of different people, so as to cultivate children's tolerance and understanding. In addition, getting along with these children can also promote children's social skills and self-regulation skills, so that children can better adapt to society and life.

Secondly, it must be acknowledged that the family environment and educational background have a great impact on a child's development. Children who do not study well or behave poorly may come from families with poor family circumstances or a lack of attention to learning and conduct. If we educate our children not to associate with them, we may lead to greater isolation and exclusion for these children, making them feel abandoned by society and their families.

This is not only inconsistent with our humanitarian spirit, but also detrimental to the healthy growth of these children. Instead, we should take a more positive approach to helping children who are not learning well or behaving well, so that they feel cared for and supported.

Finally, we need to recognize that children have different personalities and interests. Some children like to be around children who are good learners and prefer to learn good qualities and knowledge from them. Others, on the other hand, prefer to be around children who are not behaving well, preferring to learn more about human nature and social realities from them.

Parents should understand and respect their children's personality differences, do not impose their own educational concepts on their children, but provide a colorful social environment as much as possible, and let children freely choose their favorite friends.

In general, it is not a wise practice to teach children not to associate with children who are not good at learning or behaving well. In response, we should try our best to create a positive and healthy social environment in which children can learn and grow. At the same time, we also need to adopt a more positive attitude to help those who are disadvantaged and make them feel cared for and supported.

Only in this way can we let our children grow up in an all-round way and become good citizens with a sense of responsibility and social responsibility.

1.Usually do two "practice": preview and review.

As the saying goes, the devil is in the details, and the same is true in learning. Many students subconsciously ignore the process of preview and review, thinking that they can understand the class and review the exam from the beginning.

Of course, it's okay to be blind in this way, but doing a good job of pre-study and review can greatly improve your learning efficiency, so why not?

Spend 3 minutes before class to quickly browse the content you will learn, and indeed the focus of learning is **, which people don't understand what they don't understand. When the teacher is lecturing, you can focus on listening. If you have an impression of what you have learned in advance and follow the teacher's ideas, you will be more comfortable and have time for more active thinking.

Every night before going to bed, take 10 minutes to review what you learned that day. It is possible to deepen the impression of knowledge. According to the characteristics of our memory, only by repeating and reviewing can we gradually form a permanent memory.

2.Attention should be paid to the "problem-solving steps" in the correction of wrong questions

Wrong questions are the embodiment of our knowledge weaknesses in the learning process, so we should pay attention to the questions we do wrong. Only by overcoming the wrong questions can we really effectively improve the score.

When dealing with mistakes, many students will feel that they just need to understand the ideas, just listen to the teacher and understand, and copy the correct answers, these ideas are all wrong. Sometimes, you think you understand, but when you actually operate it, you find that you don't understand the logic in many places.

To deal with mistakes, we should pay attention to the "solution steps", understanding is not the same as mastering, mastering requires us to write down the wrong solution steps step by step according to our own understanding.

3.Use your spare time to memorize what you've learned.

There is a lot to memorize during the learning process. For example, ancient Chinese poems, classical Chinese translations, English words, historical events and meanings, etc. I believe that many students have a headache for memorization, and it is the norm for the front foot to just finish memorizing and forgetting the back foot.

Actually, don't worry. It is normal to forget after memorization, which is in line with the laws of human memory. To memorize thoroughly, we need to keep repeating what we have memorized before, so that we can gradually form a permanent memory.

So, it's a good thing to have a split time, and it's perfect for repeating it many times. You don't have to force you to memorize the content all at once, you can take it out and memorize it when you have time, and the effect is better.

1) The child is not interested in learning. First of all, parents should love learning, children have the ability to imitate from an early age, if parents love to learn, children will read and write like parents, and inspire children, there is a learning space and learning atmosphere, children love to learn. Parents teach by word and deed, imperceptibly observe the influence of children, and cultivate children's interest in learning;

2) The child goes to school relatively young, has poor learning ability, the teacher praises or encourages less, he feels inferior to others, the child is more inferior, and does not like to learn, so teachers and parents should encourage the child when he has achievements, no matter how big the achievement, as long as there is a little progress, the child can be praised, enhance the child's self-confidence, so that the child is interested in learning;

3) Children have physiological diseases or nutritional diseases in the process of growth and development, which will affect the development of physical strength or intelligence and affect learning.

In addition to the above, parents should choose the corresponding treatment method according to the reasons why the child does not like to learn, such as:

1) Change the way of learning: Some children do not like to learn, because the child is not interested in the existing learning content, or the teacher's teaching method is not able to understand the child, which leads to the child's lack of comprehension of knowledge, affecting academic performance, and the decline of learning self-confidence. It is necessary to communicate with the teacher in a timely manner to transform the way children learn, so that children can better understand the content of learning, and after the academic performance is gradually improved, the interest in learning will gradually increase;

2) Strengthen communication: Some children do not get along well with teachers and classmates when they are in school, such as teachers often criticize or get along unhappily with classmates, resulting in children not liking to learn or not loving to go to school. Parents need to communicate with teachers, classmates, and children in a timely manner, analyze the causes, and take targeted solutions.

3) **Disease: Some children do not like to learn, which may be due to attention deficit or mental retardation, resulting in a decline in children's academic performance and boredom with school. It is necessary to give corresponding intervention in time**, and after the symptoms improve, the child's interest in learning will also increase.