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There are two possibilities, one is the situation you said, then you can be natural, just do what you usually do, don't care what others think.
The other is that your own psychology is at fault, after all, you feel that he has a car, you take the initiative to greet him as if to please him, this may just be your personal thoughts, people are still the same as before, of course, no matter who it is, buying a car is a big deal, and it is also a happy thing, it is inevitable to reveal happy feelings, but not necessarily with the idea of pride, it depends on what kind of person your cousin is.
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As for how to look at the performance of those so-called relatives who have no one in their eyes, you actually don't want to be angry, you have to be generous! Say hello when you meet, and if your relatives pretend not to hear, you can say hello! Or maybe you have time to eat together!
It's actually quite simple!
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His approach is really ridiculous, first of all, it is a matter of quality and character, even if outsiders greet him, out of politeness, he has to respond, besides, he is his own relative, he bought a car, he doesn't know the height of the sky, no one in his eyes, his proud eyes are floating to the sky, a smug shelf, he doesn't even understand the minimum modesty, this kind of person is not honest at all, kind, and it will not be better in the future**, you observe it silently!
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Some relatives look down on their family members who are poorer than him, and feel that they are high-minded, and their hearts are swollen and too high-profile.
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You can't change others, you can only change yourself, and you still greet and chat with him as always, don't talk about the symbols of his wealth such as cars and houses.
Thank you!
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Look at your description, you also think they are ridiculous, you don't have to think about what they think, just think of them as if they were performing, you just watch the play quietly...
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Accustomed to living independently in their own world, due to the commodification of the material environment consumes feelings, it may be because of illness and everything has been downplayed, or it may be that life has been hit, indicating that this person's psychological pressure is particularly great.
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The personality is more introverted, the relationship with relatives is not good, there are their own ideas and they are unwilling to please others, they are unwilling to be changed by others, and they are not willing to be influenced by the world.
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may be because he has a lower self-esteem, or he is cold by nature, he is not powerful, he is too lazy to care, and the city government is relatively deep.
I think those strict security checks are very serious and responsible, because their behavior is serious about their work, and they are worried that there will be accidents otherwise there will be a lot of trouble, and we should cooperate with and respect them. <>
Between the red and blue faces, maybe it is an ordinary greeting, a knowing look, a faint smile, so that they can read something in common, and leave a special space for each other in their hearts, mutual induction, mutual cherishment, mutual appreciation, and mutual concern.
Parents belittle their children, firstly to show modesty, and secondly, to distance themselves from each other. Parents don't have much in common with each other, and parents are not knowledgeable people themselves, so they will always start with what they know best. They talk endlessly about their children's laziness, gluttony, homeliness, lack of hygiene, and no object in their twenties...If it can cause laughter, they will continue to expose the child's privacy to attract each other's ears.
Divided into several situations, the first is self-cultivation, generosity, tolerance is not seen in a small place, the way of a gentleman, the level of education, the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and the second is not moving forward, timid and afraid of things. At the mercy of others, there is no temper, a good man, some call it a big harm, nothing can be done, mediocrity, and inaction.
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