What is it like to reconcile with yourself?

In life, reconciling with ourselves is like finding a step for ourselves, so that we can let go of the attachments in our hearts and usher in a new life. After reconciliation, your heart will become more comfortable and your mood will be much better. When we are depressed and dissatisfied with our current situation, it is a good experience to reconcile with ourselves, and it can have a very good effect.

Everyone has a two-sided personality, and there will be certain differences between the character they show in their daily life and the character in their hearts. It is these two personalities that make us confused and troubled in our hearts, and if we can't solve our inner problems well, they may affect our work and life from the inside out.

Reconciling with boredom will make you feel comfortable When you are depressed, not only will you not be able to concentrate on doing things, but you will also be affected by emotions, and you will be able to complete things that you could have done in a mess. This kind of boredom can often be passed on to relatives and friends, because of their unfriendly attitude, which makes themselves contradictory and estranged from each other, making their inner mood more troublesome.

In the face of your boredom, give yourself a step and reconcile with your inner self. We will find that our mood will be much soothed, and we will become smooth and efficient when we look at our relatives, friends, and do things.

After reconciliation, it is not so much about reassuring people as reconciling with themselves, but I personally think that it is more appropriate to get out of the misunderstanding of thinking. In life, we will all have troubles, and when we encounter troubles, if we can't think about the good place, we are likely to walk into a "dead end" and fall into it and have no way to move.

In such a situation, our lives will also become distressing and boring. Most people have no guidance from others, and it is difficult to get out of the "dead end" of personal thinking in a short period of time. But when you come out with your own ability, you will feel suddenly enlightened, and at that moment you will not only feel comfortable, but also full of strength.

Stress is always with us, if we can't reconcile with ourselves, maybe the boredom and distress in life will hurt our body. Therefore, it is very important to learn to reconcile with yourself.

Reconciling with oneself is a very relaxing experience, and it is also a very relaxing experience to be able to feel relieved from the heart.

It's a very funny, liberating experience, if you can't get along with yourself, you will be very angry, and sad, and you will feel very happy when you reconcile.

It's a very amazing experience, because in the process of reconciling with yourself, you will feel very happy and understand yourself.

You will feel that life is very good, and you will not be anxious anymore, and you will be completely relaxed.

It is to accept yourself, accept everything you have, accept what kind of person you are, and accept your past, because some people may not have a particularly good past, and have done some wrong things, so because they are a very kind person, they can't accept their past, and they have been haunted by it, but this is just that they can't get along with themselves, and they may be depressed when they are serious, and then they may eventually go to depression. Reconciling with yourself is actually a great wisdom in life, only if you accept yourself, then the whole society, the whole world will accept you.

People are often embarrassed by themselves, so they must learn to reconcile with themselves. And there are many ways to reconcile with yourself. Such an approach can be chosen.

Just as human beings' search for the truth of the world is divided into the macrocosm and the microcosm, the process of personal growth and cognitive iteration is also divided into seeking the truth inward and seeking true knowledge outward. Only those who seek the truth, accept their own imperfections, and reconcile with themselves can be peaceful and peaceful; Only those who seek true knowledge, refuse to compromise with their own shortcomings, and can't get along with themselves can break the shackles in "raising the bar to find faults" again and again.

Is there reconciliation or entanglement between man and self? This philosophical reflection has traversed the long river of history, stirring up the vortex of thinking, so that people often fall into the dilemma of accepting themselves and questioning themselves, and they are stagnant. Dayou incarnates as a traveler walking in the ** city in Kazuo Ishiguro's "Inconsolation":

Everywhere is foggy and misty, everywhere there are lights, everywhere is difficult to move ......

We might as well follow in the footsteps of the philosophers to experience a "bar-raising life". Socrates, the leader of the Three Masters of Ancient Greece, once said, "An unexamined life is not worth living."

He practiced this philosophical thought all his life, and was willing to sacrifice his life for the spread of a philosophical way of life. Socrates is unable to live with himself, with his precious life, and he must dedicate his sincere love to philosophy. The saint is like this, and so is the fool, there is a deep question in the episode of the world-famous inspirational movie "Forrest Gump":

How many journeys does a boy have to walk to become a man? "On the road of growth, we must go through the passage of time and the test in the passage. Growth is one question after another with answers, even ordinary people can live a smooth and wonderful life in a self-raising life.

Reconcile with yourself, the meaning of this sentence may say: no longer compare with yourself, no longer awkward with yourself. I don't take myself seriously anymore.,The meaning of putting this thing down.。

Everyone has a different personality and behaves differently when doing things. Some people will be entangled in all kinds of things because of one thing, and even make themselves very painful and uncomfortable, waste a lot of energy and time, and fail to solve the problem. If we learn to reconcile with ourselves, think about the problem, don't get tangled, don't take it seriously, then we will make ourselves happier and happier.

To reconcile with yourself is not to be more serious and compete with yourself, learn to appreciate yourself, have self-confidence, and be kind to yourself!

When there is a contradiction in one's own psychology, then at this time you need to make a comparison in your own heart, which one is what you really need, which is the most beneficial to yourself, at this time it is often not easy to make a decision, so if you want to reconcile, you can only let one of your ideas follow the development of another idea, which is beneficial to think about which.

The most important thing to reconcile with yourself is to accept yourself and find your own inner peace, joy and strength.

If you have your own reconciliation, you are a person, so why bother to get along with yourself, and when you find a mistake, don't you just change it.

So first of all, I feel what it is to reconcile with myself. If you reconcile with yourself, you forgive yourself for not having so much too much ideological baggage, and this is reconciliation with yourself.

After reading "It's All Good", I answered again and again and thought about the phrase "reconcile with yourself".

Su Mingyu stood at the door of the old mansion at the end of the play, fantasizing about the picture she had been looking forward to - her mother, who had been harsh to her since she was a child, helped her wipe away her tears, picked her up and walked home.

This is Su Mingyu finally reconciled with herself.

But what does it mean to be reconciled with yourself? Is it reconciled to oneself for the past injustices and the injuries that have been suffered in the past? Is repaying grievances with virtue a reconciliation with oneself?

Those who unintentionally or intentionally hurt themselves may not realize the harm they have caused to others in the end, and may not reflect on their own mistakes and apologize in the end, do they deserve to be forgiven? Or is it that if you don't forgive them, you can't get along with yourself?

In the play, the people of the Su family became very cute in the end, but in reality, even if they were forgiven, they still did not want to repent. Many years later, recalling the injustice he suffered at that time, will Rotten Rock regret letting go of the people who hurt him at that time, will he watch them still go their own way, and want to pursue it but are powerless?

Indian movie star Aamir Khan once invited a guest on the show "Truth Interview" hosted by him, who was once beaten by an elder ** when he was a child.

He said that when the a** was about to die, he would go to his hospital bed and say, "I forgive you." Otherwise, he will never be able to get over the hardships of his childhood.

I understand the courage to reconcile with myself and let go of the past. But in other cases, it is unbearable to let him go and let him go his own way, and even to see his behavior every day, and it is hard to imagine what kind of reconciliation this is.

Is this an active reconciliation or a helpless choice?

I would rather be like Wei Yingluo, and get revenge after more than 20 years, maybe it is not easy to think of this matter in the past 20 years, but it will not affect the mentality of normal life, when I am incapable, I will not let him go, and then convince myself that this is a "reconciliation".

How would you choose?

My pride did not allow me to tell anyone about this period of devastation, only I knew, and for a night alone, my heart was like two people.

You don't have to stand at the age of 50 years old, you don't have to stand at the age of 30 and regret your love at the age of 17.

We can't stand at the height of the future, to criticize ourselves back then, this is not fair, if we do it all over again, with the mind and experience at that time, we will still make the same choice.

Try to reconcile with yourself and accept yourself at every stage.

Everyone loses their most precious thing one day.

Hardly anyone can be relieved at the most critical moments.

Only by constantly practicing how to let go in daily life can we accept our troubles, even aging, sickness, and death.

Know how to let go, in order to move forward better, you can't decide the appearance of a person, but also can't stop a person from leaving, you may be able to do only cherish the unexpected surprise, but also accept, the sudden passing.

Our greatest sorrow is that we walk on the road in confusion and cannot see the hope ahead; Our worst habit is to settle for the present and not know the direction of tomorrow.

If you don't have a life you like and yearn for, and take someone else's life as the standard, the bags on your back will become heavier and heavier, and you will only feel more and more stressed.

Reconciling with yourself, having a bad mood, can really be fatal.

Because of all your anxiety, depression, anger, sadness, ......It can weaken your immune system and turn into insomnia, headaches, stomach problems, gout and even cancer to harm you and make you have no escape.

Always thinking about gains and losses, then Fang Qin will feel forced to herself, and even have a knot. Rather than that, it is better to act spontaneously and follow the decision of the heart.

Worries about the future come partly from the uncertainty of the future, and partly from the present self, not dealing with the present well, doubts about the present ability, leading to worries about the future. If you can successfully deal with the split chain and sort out the things in front of you, you will be much less anxious! Life is about how you plan, and there will still be different problems at different times, either the same or the deviation.

Therefore, there is no need to plan everything.

If it doesn't always go well, then you have to realize that "life is like this".

<> "How to reconcile with yourself? All the past is prologue.

1. The original intention of reconciling with oneself is to integrate one's inner solidity and recognize the imperfections of life. Self-acceptance is always the most important part of self-growth, and it is also the fundamental solution to many things.

2. When relatives and friends encounter tragedy and pain, most people will not blame their relatives and friends, but will accept their mistakes and understand their emotions. The same is true for relatives and friends, and the same can be true for yourself.

3. Accept your emotions.

There is no need to deny the feeling of depression and chagrin that has already arisen, and do not force the grief, even if it is forced, the grief will still pop up from time to time. It's better to accept your emotions and release them appropriately.

4. Sort out your emotions.

Zi Xun said, "It is a process of sorting out one's own manual and rushing to the heart, and after this combing, one's mind will be much clearer." Reconciling with oneself is actually to accept one's own emotions, to guide oneself to let out one's emotions, and slowly to sort out one's negative emotions. 5. Discover and bear the dark side of yourself Everyone has a dark side, this dark side is not necessarily a sinful and evil board of thoughts, but it is indeed some defects in our character, such as some people are self-righteous, good face, easy to be impulsive, ignore the family and so on.

6. There is no great difficulty except death.

We must firmly believe that there is no obstacle that people cannot overcome except for life and death.

7. Reconciling with oneself is not letting oneself go freely, on the contrary, only by reconciling with oneself can we stand up again after the tragedy and continue to move forward.

8. Everything that happens today has a reasonable reason in the past; Again, we look forward, all these things that already exist, will produce a reasonable outcome in the future. This process has forged each and every one of us.