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In the end, they all became lonely and old, no one took care of them when they were old, and no one accompanied them to the hospital when they were sick, so they could only stay at home every day
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May be lonely for the rest of your life. If a boy does not choose to get married and have children in his life, then it is very likely that he will have to die alone.
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Single-child pension. If you fail to get married, you will generally become a lonely old man in the village, and the village committee will give special attention and send food during the New Year's holidays.
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At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, parents definitely don't want their daughters to be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions retreat directly.
First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.
Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich.
The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work. The father and son can't save much money for a year, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine.
Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and there was no envy for scumbags in this situation.
I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. Year after year, the man is now in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a girl who is willing, he may not be able to get the high bride price now. The stick is also forced to be helpless.
Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.
There are some singles who can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are lazy and lazy, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person?
There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, Liang Shi went to find a factory to work when he had no money, and he squandered it when he had money in the last few months, and he didn't report when he left his job, and suddenly he didn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory nearby that dares to use him. Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.
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1. Originally, there were more men and fewer women in rural areas, and the imbalance in the sex ratio of the population was a major reason. This is an objective reality caused by social causes.
2. Due to the unbalanced economic development of rural families and the polarization of poverty and wealth, there are many older leftover male families that are in the range of poor people, and the families are poor, lack of bride price money for marriage, lack of money to buy a house and a car, and empty family savings, which are the main reasons for the destruction of these rural older surplus stools. This is the cause of the imbalance in the economic development of rural households.
3. Due to the elderly leftover men in rural areas, everyone has their own shortcomings, such as lack of character, eccentricity of character, lack of body, poor health, lack of family, etc., which makes it difficult for these older leftover men in rural areas to marry wives. This is due to the reasons of these older leftover men in rural areas.
4. Many young women in rural areas saw the huge difference between rural areas and cities, as well as the shortcomings of rural areas, so they yearned for urban life, so they went to Bi Raid City to marry, resulting in an oversupply of young men in rural areas.
5. Due to the popularization of higher education, the degree of education received by rural young women has generally increased, and with the improvement of their own cultural quality and cultivation, they have gradually distanced themselves from rural male young men with low education level and low quality, which has also caused it difficult for young men to find a partner.
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