What are the rural single men afraid of happening to themselves? Why are there so many singles?

Being bullied by others, being despised by others, these things are very afraid of happening to you, some are due to family reasons, and some are caused by accidents.

The biggest fear is getting sick. The main reason is that the current bride price is too high, and many people can't afford to marry a daughter-in-law, and then they can only be a bachelor.

The most feared thing is that a person dies alone, mainly because many women are very picky now, and the bride price is very high in some places, and there is no way to marry a daughter-in-law.

At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, parents definitely don't want their daughters to be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions retreat directly.

First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.

Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich. The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work.

The father and son can't save much money for a year of hard work, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine. Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and they couldn't say anything about this situation.

I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. In this way, year after year, now the man is in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a willing girl, he may not be able to get such a high bride price now. The stick is also forced to be helpless.

Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.

There are some singles who can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are lazy and lazy, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person? There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, so when he has no money, he goes to find a factory to work, and when he has money in the last few months, he squanders it, and he doesn't report when he leaves his job, and suddenly he doesn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory near Bury Hanchun who dares to use him.

Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.

The main reason is that the rural economy is relatively backward, and there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and unwilling to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and those in the cities!

Although many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the rural living environment, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of noise and noise in the city are not conducive to life and residence.

But after all, the countryside is a rural area, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical resources and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to the old traditions and habits of Xunzhou in our rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.