Boys love you, but they are very tired, how to change

You communicate and communicate with each other more, do some things together to see if there is a tacit understanding. Give each other space and time. Trust each other. A comfortable way to get along makes the relationship last longer. Personal opinion, for reference only.

Women's complex and changeable emotions make men tired.

The difference in thinking between men and women leads to a huge difference between two people, and what women want is often not said directly, but by constantly testing and hinting at men, which causes men to feel tired without knowing women's thoughts.

When a woman is angry, men will think about coaxing, come to the aunt and say that it is not good to drink hot water, and if you have a cold, it is not good to say that you can rest more, and you are said to be a straight man, and the woman is angry and the boy has been coaxed for a long time and it is still useless.

Men's behaviors are all purposeful behaviors, and if they don't see any feedback, they will make boys lose motivation and feel frustrated.

Hello, because you are tired, so he is also tired.

I think most boys will feel like this, because the way of thinking between boys and girls is too different, and they often don't know what girls think, so they are very tired of guessing.

There is also because boys may gradually lose points when they fall in love, and they may feel that the other party is perfect at the beginning of the conversation, but in the process of getting along, some of the other party's words and deeds may cause dissatisfaction among boys, so girls slowly subtract points in his heart, and over time, they become less like.

Maybe he doesn't really like you, but if he really likes you, he won't feel tired, he will feel happy. With your approach, let him also feel tired, you have to be considerate of him, encourage him. Take care of her.

Maybe the two of them have very little time to communicate, what problems have not been effectively solved, but two people hold back in each other's hearts and do not solve the problem, often these small things will cause contradictions to freeze the sound of a chill, I think couples still have to understand each other, respect each other, and communicate with each other.

Boys will feel tired when they get along with you, and it must be because they are too much. Girls can occasionally lose their temper and try to be petty, but they can't put no bottom line. This will make the man feel very tired and annoyed with you.

Also, you can't think too much, and too much suspicion will also make men feel tired.

Generally, when falling in love, it has a variety of meanings, and boys sometimes complain that they are tired. Pay more attention to him.

I must not feel you good, so if I am not interested, I will feel physically and mentally exhausted! In the process of getting along, if you don't feel for each other, you will be very passive, so he will feel tired, in fact, you should find some new fun and reminisce about the feeling of first love.

Boys and girls will feel tired when they get along, it must be because this girl has too many things to do and is always too hypocritical, so the boys will be exhausted and have no intention of coping.

Because he doesn't feel like he gets enough response, it's always him who takes the initiative, so he gets tired, and if you take the initiative, provoke a topic that interests her. He'll find it easier to talk to you.

There are always some men, they seem to be full of exhaustion, it makes people feel very distressed, and the heavy and depressing state of life is a bottomless abyss that will slowly swallow people.

This is mainly due to mental tiredness, that is, there have been many reluctant experiences.

Therefore, two people should get along with each other in a relaxed manner, or one of them will be scared away sooner or later.

Because each other may have a liking for each other in their hearts, and when they get along, they will care about each other's every word and every behavior, and the more you focus on this, the more painful you will feel.

<> may be that he feels tired when he feels unworthy of you, but if you both really love each other, it should be a very happy thing.

It is likely that you demand too much from a boy, and you are particularly dependent on him, so that he will feel tired.

It may be that you put more pressure on him, so the boy is more tired.

Probably I need to think about you everywhere, and I'm tired.

I don't want to deal with it, I'm tired. Otherwise, what else can I do?

There is actually a reason why girls feel particularly tired of falling in love.

1. The boyfriend is inconsiderate.

Like nowadays, many boys are actually the only children in the family, so many times they don't know how to take care of other people's feelings, so when they fall in love, girls often feel very insecure, so they will feel very tired after a long time. We all know that in fact, some boys themselves are not particularly mature people, so many times they don't know how to take care of girls, and when they get home from work, they only know how to play games or something, and they are not considerate at all, so girls will also feel very tired.

2. Do not share housework.

You know, in fact, many couples now choose to live together after being together for a period of time, because this can not only enhance the relationship between two people, but also save a lot of rent. Especially those campus couples will choose to live together at the end of their studies. However, after living together, there will actually be a lot of conflicts, because if the distance between two people is shortened, it is likely that there will be quarrels over many trivial things in life.

Moreover, when two people live together, there will definitely be housework, at this time, many boys will not take the initiative to help girls do housework together, and expect their girlfriends to do everything.

3. Mutual personality incompatibility.

Many times, when we first start falling in love, we don't actually feel that there is anything wrong with the person in front of us, if there are any shortcomings in the other party, we will blindly choose to ignore it because of a temporary liking, but in fact, after being together for a long time, it is easy to expose the problems between two people.

For example, sometimes, after you get along with each other for a long time, you will feel that the three views of two people or the personality are a little incompatible, at this time, in fact, the girl will feel very tired, because if you want to break up, you will feel reluctant, but if you don't break up, it will be a kind of torture for yourself.

It should be that you don't love it, and it's wrong to breathe if you don't love it.

The boy said it was uncomfortable and should do it.

1. I feel sorry for you If a boy is very tired, you show your love and do a lot of things for him, then he will feel very warm and futile 2. Come on, dear Give him a loving hug directly and tell him to come on, dear, at this time, the boys will be resurrected in place 3. I am in fact Even if it is difficult and tiring, it is very warm to see the girl you like sending this sentence to yourself.

Boys feel tired when they are in love, most of them are because of their girlfriends, and I think you can solve it from three aspects.

I had a roommate when I was in college, and he had a girlfriend in his sophomore year. At first we were all envious and the roommate was happy, but after a while, the roommate realized that things were not so simple.

Originally, the roommate was free and easy, but after having a girlfriend, he had to take care of her emotions first, and sometimes he couldn't handle his own affairs.

For a while, the roommate came back more and more listless, and he was not so happy.

We asked him why, and after understanding the situation, everyone helped to come up with ideas.

Create a daily schedule

Although I have a girlfriend, I can't forget my own affairs。For example, classes, internships, and exams are done before you have the energy to accomplish other things.

We asked the roommates to make their own daily schedulesGet things done on time so you can get on with other things with confidence.

Change girlfriend

The key issue is still with the roommate's girlfriend, and we tell the roommate to talk to her about it and tell her about her feelings.

Love is a matter of two people, and if you keep compromising, it will not last long.

Fortunately, my roommate's girlfriend is still sensible, and she has restrained herself a little later, at least she won't let her roommate get upset because of him.

Achieve your goals

We told our roommates,Although falling in love is a process, the result is also important, You can set some goals with your girlfriend, such as traveling, fishing, climbing, and research, and the two of you work together, which is also a kind of harvest in love, which will make you get a lot of satisfaction.

In addition,You also need to give each other some time to ease yourself.

Then, the roommate did this, and after a while he was obviously a lot more relaxed and didn't feel tired of falling in love.

Therefore, I think you must discuss with your girlfriend well, falling in love is not a matter of passing through the socks, with a plan and goals, you can enjoy the process and get the result, which is also a way to fall in love.

Deeper and deeper understanding in the relationship,Boys bend lead feel tired mainly by the temper, communication, sense of security of both sides caused by the inner sense of oppression, for this kind of balance to give each other space, learn to empathize, appropriate change the mode of getting along, in order to continue to experience the beauty of love to both parties.

I would thinkLove is a joint effort of two people, understand the other party's temper and really want to tolerate and accommodate girls,Like each other's hearts, not the appearance of the appearance, this is the responsibility of a boy.

I have it in the office in the companyA very good colleague, age can be regarded as a more embarrassing stage, you can imagine that if he doesn't really feel tired and can't go on, he will definitely be willing to marry the girl in the end, after all, the heart will definitely be sad when you break up, whether it is in the relationshipDevelopment, acquaintance, ambiguity, and confirmation of relationships have invested too much。Don't mention how excited I am every day at the stage of my colleague's love, every time I tell us in the office that this is given by my girlfriend, and that is bought by my girlfriend, don't be too sweet, my colleague also makes a little romance from time to time, let me give him advice to my girlfriendChoose lipstick, boiled brown sugar water, and bags, then I'm sure I'm going to laugh at him, is a love affair like this? It's not afraid that the other party will run away, so attentive, also24 hoursto girlfriendsAlways on call, on call.

But at the end of this month, I suddenly said that I was tired and wanted to break up, at that moment, don't say how surprised I was, and complained to me: "My girlfriend doesn't give freedom, I don't think about my own feelings, I'm very tired and I have to see her, and every festival has to celebrate for her regardless of whether it has anything to do with me or not, after all, everyone has matured."In love, you can't blindly give by yourself, I feel tired when I don't walk,"

But I asked the other party a sentence: "Do you really want to separate, do you really have no feelings", so I persuaded him:

If you don't love, the other party does not consider your own feelings, even if you work hard but the result you get is not what you want, then you areTake the initiative and tell the girl to let go

If love, you can find time with your girlfriend fromCommunication from the bottom of my heart, face this problem head-on, both of them made concessions, girls learn to change, and colleagues continue to tolerate each other, which is the mutual effort of love.

A boy is inSay tired in loveYes, actuallyFrom the heartBut I think only the right communication can solve things, and the two have been dating for a whileLoss of freshness, unresponsiveness to effortIt is the point where most boys are tired.

I feel tired when I'm in love.

Looks like you're having trouble getting along.

Take a good look at what went wrong.

1. Long-distance love is always easy to feel tired, and it is easy to feel tired in front of a lover who can't be touched.

2. He will always be coaxing you, even if you are at fault with each other, you will not take the initiative to admit your mistake first.

3. Go to **, you have to report to whoever you meet, and the feeling of being bound makes people envy the freedom when you are single.

4. Lost the interest of talking about love, and when they meet, they will only miss the east and the west, so that he will often miss Ling You just together, your cute and supple appearance.

5. I don't feel loved, I feel like a tool man, waiting for a little mercy from you.

6.When I can't see you, I feel like I want to meet, but when I meet, the way you show when I meet, sometimes it makes people want to run away.

7. I know that there is a problem between the two, but you turn a blind eye, if something happens, you must feel that it is the other party's fault for the first time.

8. Speaking ** and transmitting messages can not be less than a day, excessive stickiness will make people feel breathless.

9. When you get home from work, you have to be tossed by her.

10. Everything is centered on her, but he turned his head and said that he felt very wronged to be with him. Give wholeheartedly, but in exchange for this kind of talk.

Some couples break up because they are tired, before they fall in love, the imaginary love is sweet and happy, but after falling in love, many people feel too tired, what's going on? Sometimes this feeling of boys is more obvious, so what should I do if a boy is tired in love? In fact, this has to be analyzed from many aspects, sometimes it is a boy's problem, and sometimes there are girls' problems.

In fact, after the sweet period of love, if two people often quarrel, or because of money matters and unpleasant quarrels, or girls ask too much of boys, or boys do not trust girls, or they are not confident, this situation accumulates, and over time, you will feel that you are really tired of falling in love. However, the emotional thing is not just that you are happy, the emotional thing is the business of two people, so you can't just care about yourself and ignore others.

Even if you want to break up because you are tired, but your next relationship still has to go through the process of being tired, so breaking up is not a way to solve tiredness, the most important thing is that couples communicate with each other, only if there is good communication with each other, and if there are any problems, they will be put on the table to talk about it, I believe there will be a good result.

It doesn't matter if a boy is tired in a relationship, because girls also have times when they are tired, and when they feel tired in love, both parties can notice it. At this time, couples should do something to regulate their tired mood.

First of all, guys can take their girlfriends to do something romantic together and regain the feeling of being in love. It's like traveling to a city that everyone likes, or revisiting the old place, and then reliving the feeling of being in love at that time.

Second, give each other space. When you are in love, you are very clingy to each other, but after that period of time, everyone wants to have their own space, so at this time, you can be separated for a day or two, busy with your own things, of course, during this period, you must be in touch, you can not meet, the distance will make you miss each other more, and you will not consider the problem of tiredness.

The last point is very important, that is, learn to find each other's strengths, don't always stare at the shortcomings, always think about the other party's shortcomings, after a long time, you will naturally get bored and tired, it is not easy to manage a relationship, don't break up easily!