Nowadays, children are too difficult to bring, and they may have psychological problems at every tur

Many mothers complain: it is becoming more and more difficult to bring their children, not only disobedient and crying, but also especially like to be naughty. The truth is that sometimes it is difficult to bring children, and parents find them themselves.

Not long ago, I went out and met a former colleague, who looked a lot haggard at the same age, and a story she shared about her two children illustrates this very well.

She has two children, Dabao is the elder brother, the second treasure is the younger sister, the two are one and a half years apart, they were originally a happy little family, with both children and daughters, but the two children are very difficult to bring, and she is tortured enough.

Although my brother is older, he has a lot of requirements, and he must buy something whenever he sees it when he goes shopping. At home, as long as he looks uncomfortable and doesn't like something, he must throw it away, and he is a "little emperor". His family can't stop him from doing anything, and once he stops it, he will yell and become hysterical.

The colleague said that she didn't want to do this either, but she had no choice but to satisfy the child again and again, otherwise she would feel distressed when she saw the child's uncomfortable appearance.

And Xiaobao because she is a girl, so she especially likes to cry, she will cry when the toy is gone, she will cry when her clothes are dirty, and she will cry if the cartoon she wants to watch is not **, and when she encounters something, even if it is as small as a sesame seed, she will cry and roll.

And at this time, no matter what she is doing, as long as she hears the child's cry, she will immediately run over to calm the child's emotions and help the child do whatever she wants.

Speaking of which, my colleague helplessly asked: Why did the child become like this?

In fact, children will become like this, and it is all done by the parents themselves.

Many families think that the child is still young, so they do not set rules, boundaries, and bottom lines for the child, and do not cultivate the child's psychology of waiting, so when the child grows up, it becomes difficult to educate and be obedient.

Appropriately delay meeting the child's needs, or not meeting the child's needs, so that the child can become well-behaved, not led by the child's nose, and can also make the child better to lead.

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Today's children are stressed and prone to psychological problems, which is normal and requires a combination of school education and family education to overcome the problem.

In fact, children in the past also had psychological problems, but at that time, society did not pay so much attention to mental health problems.

To sum up, usually take them out to exercise, don't always be bored at home, children who are too quiet are indeed more sensitive and delicate, and even more suspicious. Don't transmit bad emotions to your children, positive energy is very important.

Children are like a blank sheet of paper, there is no psychological problem, but a bad tutor and environment, which affects the child's normal learning and growth. If you want your child to grow up healthily, you must first be a qualified parent and always check whether there are any problems with the parents. It's not that you tell your children to do what they do, but the children are more important to see how their parents are, so teaching by example is more practical and important than words.

It is also necessary to give children a good environment, including a bright and warm family environment, spend more time with children, and take children to do outdoor activities appropriately, so that children can feel nature and society.

Getting married and having children is something that most of us go through when we grow up. When we have children, raising babies has become one of our very important tasks. But the pressure of raising a baby is very high, which will make it difficult for many parents to bear.

So I hope to have a child in the future. About why just one child? Specifically, the pressures encountered when raising a baby include the need to consume a lot of time and energy to raise a baby, the economic cost of raising a baby is not often high, and the process of raising and educating children is very hard.

1. Raising a baby requires a lot of time and energy, which is very stressful for parents.

The pressure of raising a baby is first reflected in the consumption of time and energy. Raising a baby requires a lot of energy and a lot of time from parents. This can be stressful and even overwhelming for parents who still have to work.

Regarding this factor, many parents feel that this is the most direct pressure they show during their baby-raising period.

2. In terms of economy, the cost of raising a baby is very high, which makes many parents feel great pressure.

During the period of raising a baby, the financial pressure on the parents is also very high. In the process of raising children, all aspects have to spend money, especially when the child enters school, it needs to spend more money, which makes the cost of raising a baby very high, and many parents will feel particularly stressed because of this, and therefore give up the plan to have a second child.

3. The process of cultivating and educating children is very hard, which is where parents feel the most pressure to raise a baby.

If there is any factor that is the greatest strength of raising a baby, it is the cultivation and education of children. In order for their children to become talented, parents will do their best to nurture and educate their children. However, in this case, it is not enough to have a passion, but also to master the corresponding methods, and many parents lack this ability, so they will feel great pressure because the effect of nurturing and educating their children is not ideal.

I think it's because the number of children is decreasing now, and then the family conditions are better, so the children will become more delicate.

Because today's children are easy to be precocious, understand a lot of things, and are even more difficult to discipline than adults, it is difficult to carry.

Because now children are too smart and assertive, they have independent thoughts, know how to think, and know how to protect themselves, for such children, it will not be easy to lead.

(1) Raising children is indeed a very hard thing.

In addition to the child's own energy, it is also related to the mother's age, energy, family economic conditions and husband and wife relationship, and your financial pressure will inevitably be distracted and troubled. And if you look at raising children, you are a person with a lot of ideas and heavy thoughts, whether there is anyone to share it for you, fatigue may be the norm. Learn to spread your stress, for example, you can have your parents help you take it, then let yourself relax and rest appropriately.

(2) Children of each age group have their own characteristics.

Children aged 0-3 need to be accompanied, after this stage, children will learn to experience separation and independence, no matter which stage, children are always curious about everything around them, parents may be impatient to deal with their children's endless exploration and questions, may wish to find a set of rules and methods to get along with children, and strive to make both parties satisfied.

(3) Probably no one can bring a child to perfection, don't demand perfection for yourself and your child.

You also don't hold yourself to the standard of perfection. Children not only need to be with their parents all the time to build a sense of intimacy, but they also need to have more contact with other loved ones. Most importantly, a mother who is in a good mood and in a positive state is better than a mother who is in a bad state for a whole day.

No matter how you choose, there are pros and cons to whether you want to take care of your children full-time at home or go out to work, but your child's growth needs to be positive and environmental, and you will do whatever makes you happier. ‍‍