If you want to quit after being engaged, what should I do if the other party grinds hard and foams?

To deal with such people is to refuse. Because you don't know much about him, and the marriage is also very hasty, which in itself is irresponsible to yourself and him, marriage is a lifelong thing. Of course, the person to marry should be chosen.

If you don't want to, you should discuss it with your parents first and explain to them why you don't agree. Then break up at the root of the other party. Now that the other party is stalking and beating you, you don't care, and you also said that marriage is not based on sympathy.

So there is no need to be soft-hearted. It is only necessary to firmly refuse. I wish you to find true happiness.

Be clean and stick to your point no matter what he says. After all, when it comes to your future happiness, you may be soft-hearted for a while, but you will regret it later.

Maybe this man is more realistic. What I want to ask is, do you two really love each other, or do you treat love and marriage as child's play? Realistic people often only think about their own interests and do not consider the feelings of the other party. Either way, you just have to stick to your right side.

Marriage is a lifelong event in life, and you can't be hasty, because it is going to go for a lifetime, and you have to find someone who is in love, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

Marriage is a lifelong event, how can it be! For the sake of your own happiness, don't say yes!

Cut through the mess with a quick knife Now that I hesitate, I won't have a good time getting married in the future.

If you are already engaged, but you want to return, as long as you haven't got the marriage certificate, the two parties can negotiate to return the bride price.

Tell the matchmaker the reason and return all the financial gifts to the man.

Then hurry back, don't wait until the wood is ready, which one will hurt more.

Find someone who isn't your loved one'

Then say it early, so that you don't have too many dreams at night.

You can ask for the opinion of your family, but it's not a trivial matter. You should feel glad that you didn't find out about each other's relationship after the marriage was a fact, at least there is room for redemption now. When the money is gone, you can go out to work and earn it again, but a failed marriage will bring a lingering shadow to your life.

If you don't feel good, the two of you can also communicate and make it clear, not wanting to delay each other's future. If it's not suitable, separate it. I think you are now experiencing the problem of not being able to return the dowry, you can discuss with him and return the money to him later.

If he were a more or less rational man, he would compromise. After all, you must have a relationship that can develop into marriage, and it is also appropriate to leave some room for each other.

The most important thing is to look at the opinion of your family.

Don't force yourself to do what you don't like to do! Not to mention marriage! If you don't have feelings for him anymore, leave as soon as possible!

Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life, there is no legal protection for the engagement, but you have to deal with the relationships around you! And respect your parents' opinions!

If you don't have feelings, then believe in yourself.

Your own happiness is decided by yourself.

However, this person is the same as anyone else, since your parents have identified this son-in-law, there must be a reason, whether it is capable or whatever.

Feelings are slowly run in.

As long as he can be nice to you.

I'm thinking the same as you now, I'm really annoyed, I don't know what to do, if I quit, my parents will be involved, and if I don't retreat, I feel that I am very annoyed for a day, and there is no way to accept it.

You're going to drive the other person crazy, and it's better to quit if you don't like it than to divorce later.

Woman: Please think about it before you make any decisions.

If you still don't like it in the end, then retreat, and make it clear to the boy before you retreat. You have to pay back the money and everything.

If you don't register, you don't have the protection of the law, look at your pull.

If you don't have official permission, but if you agree with your parents, you can postpone it, and if it's officially approved, you're going to get divorced, and you just haven't gone through the ups and downs.

Hello! You are in charge of your own affairs, and your own happiness is your own decision.

It is recommended to select Return.

Obviously, you don't have a common language. It will be painful to live together in the future, and there will be problems in the marriage.

You are now afraid of the views of your relatives and others, including the other party, and you can't bear to hurt or are afraid of rejecting others. But you must know that marriage is a lifelong thing. "Anything can be wrong, but once the marriage is wrong, you can't start again"!!

We must be clear and resolute on this issue, otherwise we will lose our "happiness for a lifetime"!

As long as you explain the problem to your family and each other gently, I believe that you will understand, and you must know that there will be no happiness if you are barely there.

You are responsible for the happiness of the other party, otherwise, knowing that there will be no happiness when you walk together, you still jump into the end, which will only cause more harm to both parties, including your family.

It's best to get out of this marriage, and you can see that there is a generation gap from your different educational backgrounds. You must know that in many cases, if the ideological quality, cultivation, and knowledge cannot reach the same level, there must be problems in communication. In the future, there will be contradictions, conflicts and disputes, and this marriage will be unstable and unstable.

If the other party does not want the family to agree, it is necessary to continue if it is difficult. It is necessary to know that marriage is to live by oneself and not to be replaced by outsiders. Outsiders won't understand that only what you think is good is really good.

Don't say anything about the sophistication of rural people, one day you will regret it, and it will be too late. What age do you still obey your parents' media? You are also a highly educated person, and you can't have a clear opinion on these issues, so what should you hesitate about.

It is advisable to act "sanely"! Which is the most important point. Don't listen to your family's arrangement, choose yourself, your own lifelong happiness!

Good wishes

If you will not live in the countryside in the future, it is recommended that the woman withdraw from the marriage, and you should meet some of the woman's requirements to obtain their consent. The woman is greatly affected by the man's reputation for divorce, and it will be more difficult to marry in the future, so it is better for you to bear the bad reputation of divorce.

It is recommended to withdraw from the marriage, rather than marrying a girl you don't like, you will miss your life and other people's lives.

It's better to be ruthless now, even if it's for you and for her.

Furthermore, this matter is about your happiness, and you can't let "rural thinking" and "face" be poisoned.

If you don't like it, you will withdraw from the marriage, and you don't want to get married and ignore him, which will be deeper than her, you say that he has a more docile temper, so you have to minimize her harm. It's better to say it early than late.

Since you find that it is not suitable to be together, you should separate, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and there is no way to regret it when the time comes! So don't get married!

The first floor is right.

Call your relatives to talk about it, and return all the engagement money and the like! They also know that even if they don't retreat, they won't be happy in the future!

Yes, yes, because betrothal has no legal effect.

But this is a kind of custom ceremony, if you pay more attention to this custom and ceremony, it is recommended that you carefully consider before withdrawing from the marriage, and the divorce should also be explained to the relatives and friends of both parties, whether it is a woman or a man.

My cousin was divorced, we treat engagement and marriage there is no difference, both are big things, a woman was divorced, the man did not explain it clearly to relatives and friends, hey My cousin was really hit hard at that time, and it was often mentioned in the future, and finally my cousin was forced to leave her hometown and go to another place.

Yes, engagement is just a form of constraint.

It has no legal effect at all.

But if you really consider the divorce.

Remember to return all the gifts.

Only after the two are cleared can you start a new life.

You go and make it clear to the girl yourself. Then tell the relatives that they are not married.

If you want to retreat, you can withdraw yourself. The woman returned her and she had to pay back the money.

The two parties should communicate well, negotiate the divorce, and don't hurt the peace.

What are you worried about You only worry about your own future happiness now End early and relax early You also delayed that girl.

You don't care about this problem for now, you ,,, get married like this, you just set it. When your girlfriend can't hold it anymore, she will naturally think of retiring at that time.

Of course, if you have another girlfriend, that's another story.

Alas! I'm in the same state with my boyfriend now, but I want to quit, he doesn't want to quit, it's annoying! He also has no opinions, and the two have no topic!

You need to take a good look at your feelings

You don't care about this problem for now, you ,,, get married like this, you just set it. When your girlfriend can't hold it anymore, she will naturally think of retiring at that time.

Of course, if you have another girlfriend, that's another story.

It's hard to say. You can find a matchmaker and find out what is going on over there.

You can divorce if you get married, but what's the problem with getting married? It's just that when it comes to money, you have to deal with it, don't let people say that you don't pay attention to it. It's not easy to like a person, and it's okay if you don't feel it, and it's a relief to put it in both ways.

You can talk to each other first, start with friends, and the family can deal with it first, if you still don't feel like you can have a showdown after getting along, if you feel good after getting along, then continue, I wish you happiness.

This is a lifelong event, don't make do with it just because your family is against it. Stick to your ideas.

It's okay to make it clear to yourself and the object, marriage is free, and there is no need to listen to your parents.

So why would you want to do it in the first place, and if you really don't like it, say it as soon as possible.

If you don't get a marriage certificate, you won't be married, as long as the parents of both parties cancel the time of marriage and notify relatives and friends soon.

Let's just say that flash marriages are popular now, and we follow the times.

Let's push the marriage back and talk about it with her and her family!After all, a major event in life when you get married!The face of acquaintances is important, but marriage is your life, if you are married now and end up with divorce, it is better to withdraw from the marriage now!

It feels like she's cheating the bride price, and if she doesn't come back, she may continue to cheat others in the future.

1. You're in too much of a hurry to get engaged.

2. The role of the engagement money is to punish the first person who regrets it, and now this person is you, what do you say?Just buy a lesson.

Of course, it's in your Murakami.、Spread it among all the people you know.、The more people know, the better.、And then I can think of a way to force her to say that it's best to unsubscribe."For example, if you already have a child.、Or tell him privately that your ex-girlfriend doesn't know if there's a child or something.、If she says it.,Firmly deny it" Choke her.。。。 Because it feels like she's just going to be a **, or borrowing you to cross the bridge.

Then drag it out, find another home, and keep the cold war until she gives you back.