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A white lie is beautiful, and this lie is not deception or ill-intentioned. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and even a sea change for the other person! It has a magical power and there is no impurity.

A white lie is a lie with good intentions, a nourishment for life, and a driving force for faith. It ignites the flame of hope in people's hearts, and also makes people believe that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world!! White lies can make people find a reason to face life with laughter.

The white lie is to endow human beings with spirituality, embody the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, and involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation. A white lie can save a terminally ill patient from a dead end and give someone a glimmer of hope. White lies can restore self-confidence and sometimes save a person who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown.

Note that a white lie is only a small lie that represents a mild and no ill will. For example, a situation in which a happy event is concealed and the other party suddenly feels happy. Of course, hiding bad things is not a white lie.

A lie is a lie, and what good is a person if he can't do even the simplest of integrity? Those bosses are hired to talk about integrity, and the reason why China has today's achievements is mostly related to integrity, what is the use of white lies? If a white lie can change a person's life, then honesty can.

A white lie is motivated by good intentions, with the purpose and starting point of defending the interests of others. As everyone knows, contradictions are divided into universal and particular, and particularity is included in and distinguished from universality. According to the nature of its white lie, it is not a bad benefit, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, using others as a means with a strong desire for profit and weak reason, and not hesitating to harm others.

The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject. And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity.

The story of "The Wolf Comes" is a story of a child herding sheep who lies and deceives people, resulting in the sheep being eaten by wolves. When we were children, adults would tell us every time we finished telling this story, we had to be honest, otherwise we would be eaten by wolves like the child herding sheep. The words of adults are correct, and honesty is the foundation of being a human being.

However, in the real world, there are many situations where we have to learn to lie. When the time is right, we're going to tell some white lies. Some white lies can make life better for us and those who love us and those we love.

Resurrect over and over again.

A white lie is still a lie after all.

Is it really well-intentioned?! —The purpose is very good, but I didn't think about it further: since it is a lie, then it must be false, and if it is false, there must be flaws, as the saying goes, there is no thatched house that does not leak for three years, and the lie cannot escape the fate of being seen through after all, and at that time, I am afraid that it will hurt even more!

Or is it a kind of excuse for yourself?! — It's a lie, but you have to add a "well-intentioned" embellishment to yourself, which seems a little unkind.

To be honest, I believe in the first interpretation more because I believe in people. But I don't want to talk about that right now, but I want to talk about how we can tell the truth without hurting the other person.

There is no absolute truth, and there is no absolute truth! Many people always like to add "fact" to enhance their persuasiveness, which shows how magical the truth is! So how do we reflect the facts to each other without causing any trouble?

There is a sentence on the reader: The rushing river is not escaping, but advancing. In fact, whether it is escape or enterprising, none of us knows, go ask the river!

But to see all things with my heart, and all things are colored by me, to say that it is to escape, because we stand behind it, away from us; It's aggressive because it's coming at us – both of which are true, and no one can deny it.

Therefore, if you want to tell the facts, if you want to tell the facts that do not cause harm, then you have to have a trade-off from the perspective of looking at the problem, and look at the problem from a perspective that is beneficial to everyone, so that the angle is different, and the answer to the question is different, but it is true, and there is no need for lies, and there is no need for white lies! Because it's always easy for people to believe and accept the facts.

White lies can help a person regain their confidence and make them want to take a big step towards success.

Isn't a white lie a lie?

The so-called lie is to deceive people, should it be deceiving?

The development of integrity requires honest reception. A white lie is a lie after all.

Furthermore, those who tell white lies think that they are well-intentioned, and they are at ease, so that if there is a first, there is a second.

This is a lie after all, and once people get used to it, who can know whether the next lie will be good or malicious?

What if you know?

Good intentions, but what happens to the deceived once they know the truth?

will be more sad, thinking that the world is hurting with both the good intentions of the deceit and the deception.

Moreover, since it is a lie, it is a lie, that is, one party knows the truth, and the other party knows the illusion!

It may be kind to those who know the truth, but it does not mean how much kindness there can be for those who know the illusion.

Since it is necessary to use white lies to make a fool of himself, then the deceived person must be very fragile psychologically, and he hates being deceived very much.

I have been deceived, and I must be deceived back to feel at ease.

This is an example of an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth!

With the first, there is the second. The deceived become deceivers, and once there are deceivers, it means that new deceivers will be created.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.

At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?

When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.

When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?

Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder integrity, but also greatly enhance friendship and affection between people, and have an indelible effect on social stability. Suggestion: White lies should be used, and there is no big conflict with integrity.

When a poor mother leaves her children with the only food she has, and at the same time hides the fact that she is still hungry, do you still accuse the kind and noble mother's love of "dishonesty"? In fact, we can see the shadow of white lies everywhere in life, from the tearful comfort in front of the sickbed to the politeness when euphemistically refusing, from the dry sea between lovers to the beautiful exaggeration of the poet's pen, but they are not so terrible, making the other party talk about "lies" and change color.

A white lie is a lie but a lie is told to help others, and the reason is good after all, so a white lie is helpful to others, so a white lie is essential. Honesty is just promised to others and must be done, the second move and kindness can not go along, so integrity is not good with white lies, positive, I don't know if I am talking about it?

A world without lies, like an earth without dust, does not exist, and the key is how we use it. White lies do not hinder integrity.

I support the opposite side because white lies are most needed in our lives, and while we all know it's wrong to lie, sometimes telling white lies can have magical effects. For example, in the lesson "The Only Listener", although the old woman is a famous professor, she helped me to restore my self-confidence, since I am said to be deaf. Because of her white lies, I went from being unconfident to becoming confident.

Isn't that a good example?! So white lies are sometimes needed in my life!

I'm in favor of the positive side, like "Don't Starve That Horse". Very kind.