Should I still be with him, I m just confused 100

It's been like this for a long time.

Calm down, think about what is good about him, think about what he is not good about, think about what he does for you, think about what he can't do, think about what you like about him, think about what you don't like about him, and finally ask yourself, can I leave him? Will I be happy without him? Life needs two people to run together, both parties should be more tolerant, don't be too careful!

Do you prefer his strengths or do you care more about his weaknesses?

Since this is the case, it is better to have a showdown, saying that you are very tired, and the two of you will be separated for a while to calm down, because he just treats you as a sister level or a mother level person, and he will feel that you have arranged everything for him in life, and everything is OK, then the more he will feel that you are dispensable, and you will become a burden in his heart later.

Love is sometimes a habit, and you may be used to being with him, so when you think about breaking up, you will feel confused and overwhelmed by the future.

But, as a woman, what does your ideal love look like? You say you've been hurt, but are you loving for love's sake?

If you feel that being together is worth it, then give everything without regrets; If you don't think it's worth it, don't be disappointed in the future.

I feel like both of you love each other

Actually, it's just a matter of pressure, it's just a matter of ability In terms of attitude, he's still pretty good to you

Attitude is much more important than ability, so you have to teach him how to take responsibility and how to bear obligations, that is, not to carry the pressure alone, but to carry it together

Maybe people are still young and not sensible, so we have to teach others to be sensible

Men never grow up!

It's that he doesn't live in the world and hasn't understood it yet! And I can conclude that he is not smart enough!

It's been a long time, maybe it's good to know that you understand!

If you're feeling really tired, don't be yourself!

When he matures in a few years, he will also take care of girls younger than him, so are you willing to wait? Okay, I don't think such a man is worth your effort, when you have no income one day, will he still accommodate you? Give it a try.

Sister and brother love, you must pay a little more and sacrifice a little more. It's good after a long time, but I have a bad feeling that when he really makes you think he's sensible, won't he think you're old???

We're just the opposite, huh!

If you want to open up, since you love him, you have to give him time to change, and you have to change too, and the feelings are mutual!

So he's okay with you too!! Love needs to be used to, just get used to it! Lord, you are happy.

When you wait for him to grow up, you will be old, find a suitable one for you, give up as soon as you should, and now you feel tired, what about the future?

I'm also experiencing something like you, it's really annoying, I don't want to lose her, but I don't know how to get her back.

Choose what you choose, for love others can't help you.

Why not live alone and feel the feeling of being single.

No words. Divided, divided.

Women are realistic.

Don't disobey the old man.

It is you who suffer.

Go out on a trip by yourself, and thoroughly think about the process of change between the two of you from the beginning to the present, and whether you will be happy if you are still together in ......the futureThen go back and tell him. Trust your own feelings ......

Like you, I'm confused, and I don't know if I should still be with him.

Leave him, it's not appropriate to part early. Maybe you might find a better partner than him.

Then leave him, it's good to live alone, when you don't take him to heart, maybe he will take you to heart.

It's not appropriate to separate as soon as possible!

What makes you feel lost? Aren't you happy together?

Are there any dramas between Zouping and Jining in Shandong? Isn't online dating hurtful?

I think the landlord should contact it first, after all, you have more time to contact online? If you want to give both sides a chance! You can try to work in one place first! You go to her or she comes to where you work.

Both parties have lived together for a long time, and many unknown shortcomings will be exposed, and if you can both accept each other, then you can consider getting married! In this way, I hope that the landlord will be cautious so as not to regret getting married in the future.

Don't be in a hurry, feelings need to be slowly integrated, don't be too anxious, just follow your feelings!

It's messy, you know your wife, you're still confused, what a betrayal to leave quickly.

Since you are confused, it means that you yourself are also confused, and he is already married, even if he will be with someone else after you are together? So think carefully, some feelings are very hazy just good feelings, don't make the wrong decision.

This is the third party, you should break off as soon as possible, so that the development of the relationship will definitely hurt you, him, and his wife.

No, stay away from him if you don't want to be miserable.

Don't be together, love and like are far apart, for your own sake or not.

Falling in love is not proportional to his confusion. You're not a doping agent, and you're not a beacon. Why did it make him unclear, let him lift his spirits.

There's no need to think of yourself as good for nothing and say you're the most unique. Your mother can't keep up the spirit because of the confusion about the future, it's because he's tired lately, let him rest for a while. I'm going to have some ** plot in my head.

Maybe you are now his only spiritual sustenance, what if you leave him and he collapses? Look forward and think in a good direction! Maybe you can take her out with you.

Relax, don't put too much pressure on him! There is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome. As long as you do your best, you will have a clear conscience.

No, of course you can't leave him, and you should encourage him at this time. You should be with him even more at this time. Help him come up with ideas.

It's too late for a man to be sensible, and it has nothing to do with you, I guess it's useless to it, what does it have to do with you.

Give him a little motivation and you'll have confidence

Confusion has nothing to do with who you're with, and this isn't comforting you.

Men are a purposeful creature to put it bluntly, that is, men are constantly looking for a purpose all their lives, once a purpose is completed, and the next purpose cannot be found, they will begin to think about what the next purpose is, and this process should be what you call confused, right?

Based on the above arguments, I think the only way to get rid of this emotion is to find a goal that will give him something to do. This goal can be studying, working, or making a certain interest; However, it is not recommended for entertainment such as games. Try to build a puzzle, build a model, learn a musical instrument, or learn a foreign language with him.

No, it's that you're thinking too much, and it shouldn't be your business.

What you can't get is always the best.

If you're not with him, I'm sure you're still feeling for him right now.

You're just a momentary favor, not love.

After a while, if you still don't feel too cold, you can end the relationship, which is good for you and him.

How old are you? Isn't it just in adolescence? Adolescent boys and girls often have the same problems as you!

I think you should leave him for a while to calm down, it will be a little better for you, you have to figure out whether to like it or to love.

Judging that there is an element of thought, there is a feeling of heartbeat, it should be.

You're still very young; It's not the age of falling in love. Let's go to school well!

It's better to be a good friend with her first, like you in this era, you like it rather than love!

The love that begged is better than leaving proudly, and turning around is faster than tears. If he doesn't love you anymore, he won't be able to go long, and the problems will haunt you even more in the future.

Renew your own life and find someone who cherishes you, there will be, and the person who really loves you will not care about your past. You need to put away your tears and take care of your life, it may take a long time, compared to your side, the long pain is not as good as the short pain.

It's not that you're naïve. It's just that you should see clearly as soon as possible that you are not suitable, and don't force it. Don't even ask you to take the initiative to pray not to break up ... Girls, it is our privilege to be proud!!

Let him die ... Forget about him and start over.

If you don't think it's suitable, just divide it.

Losing you is his loss! Let him regret going.

Be a haughty girl, break up with him, you are not still young, you are afraid of anything, young is capital. Are you afraid that you won't find a good man in the world? Why should you be so wronged by yourself, this kind of person would rather not.

What does this mean, long pain is better than short pass.