Although this relationship has been let go, I am really unwilling!! Everybody help me analyze it, th

Well, being unwilling means that you feel that you have paid, but you have not received the return you want, right? It seems that she is making a wedding dress for someone else, and you will even hate her. However, have you ever thought that you really loved her in the first place?

Sometimes for some people, it's worth it. But what does your unwillingness mean now? Perhaps, when you came together only out of loneliness or loneliness ...

So you should self-reflect, since you let go, why are you unwilling?

If you are unwilling, it means that you still like him very much, or you feel sour when you see him with someone else, but which one of you still has feelings for you? If there is, you can find a suitable opportunity to talk about it again, and strive to be able to reunite, if he is a flowery person, it is better to quickly cut through the mess and forget it completely I hope you can come out of the whirlpool of feelings, learn to be strong, and hope you are happy.

This is normal, because you care about it, so you can't let it go, if you don't care, then it doesn't matter if you let go of the relationship or not. It's a good thing that you dare to love and hate. Willing or unwilling is the degree to which you let go of the previous relationship, you are naturally willing to see through it, and you are naturally unwilling if you don't see it through.

I just broke up with my boyfriend, it's a practical reason, I can't let go emotionally, and I'm very unwilling in my heart, because I have paid too much on him, of course, I am not unwilling because I have paid too much, and I think it is very worthwhile, although I have not continued with him, you may feel that it is not worth it, otherwise you will not be able to let go

You take a piece of paper.

While writing the reasons why you love him.

While writing the reasons why you don't love him.

Decide for yourself after writing. You can also ask friends who know both of you. Some things are clear to the bystander.

Although this relationship has been let go, I am really unwilling!! Everybody help me analyze it, thanks!!

Once sincerely paid, I was unwilling.

Listen to you.

Finding new feelings is the only way to get there.

Can you add your question a little more?

Are you a man, a woman?

If you don't go, you don't come to the new.

Boring "self-esteem" is just a problem First of all, if LZ "only reads sage books", I don't think I will go to secondary school Secondly, Jiaotong University is not a super first-class university LZ has struggled for half a day and has not exceeded It can only mean that LZ is not suitable for "reading sage books" No matter how extreme it is, your brother is okay, just a graduate student of Jiaotong University If he is a great "genius", do you also plan to live in his shadow for the rest of your life? If that's the case, how boring is this life, and besides, the value of life is not comparable, right? If you really think that surpassing your brother is the biggest pursuit of your life, then there is no way, after all, everyone has their own ambitions, anyway, according to lz's description, he is not high-end to the point that it is out of reach, you continue to struggle, but one day when you trample him under your feet, you will really be happy?

I think it's even more unfortunate, because the only pursuit is gone, and it's obviously impossible to get back what you paid for before, right? What's the point of that? Actually, you don't have to care about him at all, it's just that you have to think of him as your worst enemy, if he is the son of your next-door neighbor, would you still think about him so much?

So let's think more about how you can be happier and happier.

We are just as unwilling to do many things in life, but our unwillingness to change the existing results is deeply tormenting us, and in the end we can only be in a state of complaining. So learn to let go of your unwillingness and learn to let go of yourself.

Find someone who can replace him, and after that, get rid of him in the end, maybe you won't want to get rid of him in the end. Because of this new relationship, you will understand that it is your current boyfriend who really can't let go. Find a new goal, give your heart a new starting point, and you won't feel unwilling!

When is the time for revenge? Life comes and goes in a hurry in the world, the wicked avoid it, and the good people make more friends.

This is the reality, people now fall in love to talk about material, is to see who can give themselves more material life to decide who to love In the eyes of the other party, the conditions are not good enough and imperfect, so when you think about what will happen after getting married, you will choose to give up Of course, there are people who don't pick.

I'm the same way, I'm not willing to be reconciled that you haven't met someone better or the same than him, God will always give you the best.

Fade with time or something else.

Commitment is a blank sheet of paper, no matter how thick the script is, it has an ending, if you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, it's a sigh that never dawns.

** When a relationship comes to an end, it is inevitable that there will be reluctance and unwillingness in my heart.

In fact, there is nothing that you can't let go, as long as you are willing, everything can be put down, but if you are always unwilling, how can you let go?

In the days of unwillingness, you often wash your face with tears, unwilling not only to destroy your body, but also to ruin your enthusiasm for life, to destroy your sparkle and attractiveness, and later become a person who even you don't like.

Can't let go of can't afford to take it because of the imbalance between unwilling to give and get, which is a meaningless struggle.

All the beautiful fantasies in your mind are just hopes created by yourself, and you can't change others Let yourself go, give up those realities that cannot be changed, and say goodbye to those painful experiences.

When you see the end and make up your mind, you should be decisive and die, never sink deeper and deeper, no longer meddle or interfere in their life, and completely cut off all thoughts about them.

** Clenching your fists The hands will be tiring, and the heart will be heavy if you have too much in your heart.

Because you've cried, you don't want to lose again, but if you can't afford to lose, you can't afford anything.

No matter what you gain or lose, you always have to choose to live a better life in order to live a better version of yourself.

There is no eternal happiness in the world, only momentary comfort and comfort, perhaps silence is the best farewell, and being well is the best ending.

**Longer and longer is age, less and less time, less unrealistic, more down-to-earth, the best way to save yourself is, forget what should be forgotten and put away.

What are your thoughts? It's useless to be soft-hearted or something, like being selfish when you should be selfish in love. You have to be free and easy.

Hope it helps. Good night.

Man, alas, as a man can afford to put it down, what kind of child p angry, that's all the patent of girls, he coaxes you almost, I think he hasn't grown yet, and he will send you an ex-girlfriend, I won't put it, who is angry, I'm also a boy, but some of the past is in the past, as long as it's a memory, it's beautiful, but it's good to put it in your heart!

Cold War, I hate this very much, so just say it directly, and tell each other what is in my heart, whether it is right or wrong, it is a matter of two people! However, since they both like each other, they still need to respect and understand each other!

What he did was a bit stupid, but I think this should also be an act of honesty to you, but you didn't give him a chance to "perform", maybe he will "explain" in the next step, women sometimes ""It's better to be wise and stupid, or on this question, you can guide him to say the answer you want, this matter is actually a trivial matter, don't go too far, you will accept it when you see "good" here, and go down the stairs.

Since 99 percent is good, no one is perfect, what do you care? Such a person has a mother-lover plot Also, psychology says: The reason why people lose their temper with you and are coquettish is that they subconsciously regard you as a trusted person, thinking that you will not leave him, and that there is no harm to him, you are such a character in his heart, he depends on you, so he loses his temper with you, what do you think?

He's so sensitive to a man, you tell him what do you do? If he is sensitive, you have to coax him, so who will coax you, tired or not? Send an ex-girlfriend**, temptation or test, or to see how much you love him? This man is so immature.

I think it's your problem, how can you have that attitude when he sends it over? If you joke like this, he will become more and more bold, and this kind of thing will happen again, you should be angry immediately and not let him mention the previous people and things, he will naturally not, subconsciously he will underestimate you, you think about it, if you send him your ex-boyfriend's **, he will be angry immediately, will you do this again? Naturally, there will be no quarrels or anything.

Decisively, there are thousands of Chinese sons and daughters, if this doesn't work, let's change it!

Then find a time to talk to him. Tell him how he feels. See how he reacts.

Some people say that the world is hell, but there are many exits to this hell, find the right way, walk on the fire, and keep going, until you go to the door, you find that there is no key, and there is another door open next to the door, so you hesitate, go back to find the key? Or go through that open door, and my choice is to go back and find the key, because I know that the open door is the gateway to the real hell I made up my own story, can you read it? I understand it, it's mine

You want to give up, but you are not reconciled, proving that you are still not good enough for him. If you have really done your duty to him, then even if you break up, you will not be nostalgic. Because all the fault has gone to his side, and he himself does not know what to do.

So, let's hold on a little longer, and when one day you are really tired, you will find that it is actually easy to leave him. You will find that he is not worth it.

Find your friend and talk to him about your current problems, maybe he can tell someone what he really thinks of you right now.

To be honest, I don't know whether to stick with it or give up, because I'm also confused by this question. But I think your him is not as patient as he used to be because you turned back.

That's exactly what happened to me.

I think he's tired of it and has little patience for you.

So he won't really look forward to what it's like to be with you.

I won't cherish the time I spend with you.

Love needs to be kept fresh. If a lot of the things you started didn't get right.

It wasn't until later that I went to save it. That's harder than climbing to the sky.

That kind of thinking has been deeply rooted in people's hearts. How do you say it's changed?

I suggest you give it up.

Because you're trying to get better right now. He still looked unconcerned.

Even if you keep the original character. Or keep trying.

He'll be indifferent. There are times when it takes proper renunciation.

Otherwise, it will be very painful in my heart. If you've done it well.

You propose to break up without any change in the other person. He didn't keep it.

Then you should know that he doesn't have you in his heart anymore.

If he's still really want to be with you. He apologizes to you before you ask for a breakup.

I guess you can offer to break up. See how he reacts.

Give it up! Now his performance, if he's not someone who doesn't care about people, proves that you love him more than he loves you.

I suggest you hold on for a little longer, and if he still has this attitude towards you, you might as well propose to break up. This is from my personal point of view, because I feel that I am the hero of the one you said, and my girlfriend is also a character like you, and we may encounter more things than you, although I am a little tired of this kind of life, but I still like her, after all, there is still a feeling for being together for so long.

I think you just need to show your own love It's enough, you don't have to care about him so much, maybe he's tired of it, but you love him, and that's enough, I suggest you break up from a boy's point of view

I guess I'm the same personality as you.

But I'm even more extreme than you, I won't change it, I'd rather be in pain to death than go back to him.

I have always believed that there is always someone in this world who loves me and tolerates me, and now this person has appeared, has always been by my side, and we have been together for four years.

You're going to have someone like that, remember, don't go back to him even if you're sad, hold back yourself.

It's all fate!! It is best to be able to be together. If you can't do it together, don't force it. It's good to get together and disperse!! The best way is to communicate,,, the specific method is up to you... Come on... Difficulties and setbacks are inevitable.

May there be lovers who will eventually become married...

You have to go through her to get her, because you're going to be her. Don't look at her shortcomings, tolerance and acceptance can have a future. Otherwise, it's better to separate sooner.

Love, sometimes does not need the commitment of the mountain alliance and the sea oath, but she needs nuanced care and greetings; Love, sometimes she doesn't need the tragedy of Liang Zhuhua, but she needs a tacit understanding and cooperation with her heart; Love, sometimes does not need to be followed by male and female, but she needs the support and understanding of each other. Love is a kind of tolerance. One foot flattened the violet, but it left the fragrance on the heel, this is forgiveness, but also a kind of wordless love.