Why do you have a headache when you don t like to study?

Headaches are primarily psychological.

You haven't studied seriously since junior high school, and now you're in your second year of high school, and your foundation is very poor, and when you pick up a book, you can't understand what is written on it, especially English, right? In class, I heard the teacher's words very clearly, but I didn't know what he was talking about, right? Do your homework, and after reading the question, you don't know what the question is asking, right?

This makes it feel very difficult and very boring to learn. Everyone gets a headache for something like this.

The problem is over, and if you want to solve the problem, then move on.

First of all, you have to learn to control yourself. Nowadays, young people are clamoring for me to be free, that no one can control me, that I can do whatever I want. That's right, we shouldn't be tied down to "people".

But what is the truth? Many students are not controlled by their learning, but they are controlled by something else, and they don't realize it themselves, and they think that this is the result of their "self-control". For example, when playing online games, sometimes you want to learn too, but it's more comfortable to play (maybe not as comfortable as you imagined, isn't it), so you don't learn it, just play.

You want to learn but you can only play, isn't this controlled by play?

People have upward desires, and you have too. It is difficult to move upward, you will be tired, you will be sleepy, and it will be a headache. See if you can control yourself and not be controlled "downward".

Secondly, you have to have the right attitude. There is a way to learn, but there is no shortcut, and the disgusting thing that you can grow internal strength by sleeping will not happen, and it will never be. If you want to learn well, you have to memorize something, which is not ambiguous.

Basic understanding—concepts, definitions, words—is to be memorized. I memorized a lot and found that there were some connections in the middle that could help with memory. For example, when you master 400 words (the first English book in high school is more than 400 words), you can naturally find some rules for memorizing words, but if you want to learn the rules first and then memorize the words, that is the excuse for not wanting to memorize words - you still learn the rules without memorizing a word?

Again, less daydreaming and more doing. When I was a teenager, I liked to talk about ideals, which is a compliment for children like you. Most of what you talk about is not ideals, nor dreams, but pipe dreams (not absolutely).

What is Ideal? It is a "goal", an "ultimate goal", a "goal for which you will put all your efforts". Daydreaming is also a goal and can be an end goal, but it is a "goal to think about and enjoy yourself."

You want to go to a good university and make a lot of money, which is very good and can be considered ambitious. Is there any effort to do that? While thinking about beautiful things, while playing, hehe, how can this work?

In the end, the things I am talking about are only solutions to the problem, and they are not comprehensive. Want to solve the problem in you. It's difficult, it's tiring, it's sleepy, it's boring, it's up to you.

Because you resist learning from the heart, after a long time, your interest in learning will be gone, this is not someone else can help you, you have to make up your own mind, control your lazy emotions, everything is a habit of nature, I believe that it will improve after a long time.

Try to develop an interest in learning. Interest is the best teacher. Define your goals and take concrete actions to achieve them. Take your time and you'll succeed.

1.Don't force yourself to study, when you are tired, you should rest more, pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and don't stay up late.

2.The key to studying is to cultivate your own hobbies, not for exams, if it is for exams, no one will be interested!

3.The courses we study are actually very interesting, such as history can make us think about success and failure, mathematics can let us understand the wonderful world of numbers, physics can let us understand the nature of matter, language can let us understand the charm of language, and so on. We need to discover the joy of this knowledge for ourselves.

4.If you are good at thinking and summarizing experience, you will be able to make continuous progress.

You must have something else on your mind? or other external factors that can't make you meditate and read a book!! Get up every morning and read it, the effect is a little better, maybe the worries of the first day are no longer so strong, the new day has just begun, and it has not brought you to the front of the troubles, take this time to take a good look at the book!!

Find what you are interested in to start, slowly cultivate, and psychologically first customer service obstacles.

In general, it is a matter of your own personality, and it will be helpful to adjust the study time, and you can consult a psychologist if necessary.

Many parents have a headache when they talk about their children's learning problems, especially those parents who don't like to learn, they are always suffering from no way to let their children learn, they are very angry every day, and they have been yelling, but their children still don't like to learn, so what should I do, let's take a look at this mother's approach.

There was a rich boy who didn't like to study, so his mother asked him these words.

One: Is it okay if you skip meals? The child said no.

Two: Where does that rice come from? The child said that his parents gave it.

Three: What about my parents going bankrupt? The child said I'll go to work.

Four: Then what do you rely on to work? The child said he didn't know.

Seeing that the child no longer knows, the mother said: "In fact, you can rely on knowledge to work, use knowledge for money, you study well, rich knowledge, people are likely to invite you, if you don't know anything about learning, you can only sell physical strength, and the future is the era of mechanization, you don't even have the opportunity to sell physical strength, that is to say, if you don't learn knowledge now, you won't even be able to eat in the future, so you must take your learning seriously, otherwise no one will sympathize with you in the future." ”

From then on, the little boy studied hard and was finally admitted to the university of his dreams.

How about it, parents and friends, is it a Daigo empowerment, this mother uses a thing that must be done every day: eating, to guide the child, four consecutive and simple questions, one ring after another, and the child is put in, of course, this is positive, not digging a pit, four consecutive simple questions, directly illustrate the importance of learning.

Many parents treat their children's learning with yelling, but yelling does not let children know the importance and purpose of learning, children will think that this is what parents require, serious and even rebellious, the more you ask me to learn, the more I don't learn, and the mother cleverly uses four questions to guide the importance of learning, so that children realize that if they don't learn, they can't do anything, learning is for themselves, not what parents require, and naturally no longer excludes learning.

Parents and friends learn not to learn, of course, it does not necessarily have to be these 4 questions, we can combine our own actual situation, find some simple and easy to understand, mainly children can understand things to guide children, so that children know why they learn, so as to solve the problem that children do not like to learn.

Yes. In today's era, children's learning is the most common way to get ahead, and it is also the most successful way to get ahead.

Yes. I don't know why children always don't like to study, and would rather shoot a ball in the cold wind than read two texts. Changing the educational methods has had little effect.

It is not a big problem for children to not like to study, after all, we know that few people really like to learn, and then after entering the society, academic performance or something will become less and less important. It is better to cultivate children's interests and specialties, at least let him live happily and have skills.