Parents hand over all their children to the state, why is it so great for parents?

There are many people who think that parents who send their children to the army are stupid, because although the benefits of being a soldier are very good now, there are also drawbacksFirst of all, being a soldier will be trained very hard, and being a qualified soldier requires multi-layer training, and the sweat and hard work paid are unimaginable and difficult for ordinary people; Moreover, after being discharged from the army, they have to face employment problems, which may also cause children to derail from society.

However, despite the persuasion of everyone, the parents resolutely decided to send their three children to the barracks, and their greatness can be said to be incomparable to that of any parent. Originally, the parents could have kept their youngest daughter by their side, after all, the eldest daughter and the second son had already handed over to the state, and it was normal and understandable to keep a child by their side, but they still respected their daughter's idea in the end. In fact, the parents are also extremely reluctant to give up their feelings for their children, and they are also deeply aware of the hardships and difficulties of the army, but they can still make this decision, which is really excellent.

In fact, this pair of parents is the same as ordinary parents, they all hope that their children will be safe and smooth, and do not expect them to be prosperous, as long as the children are healthy, everything is good. But their patriotic feelings have deeply affected their children, so the ideological consciousness of these three children is very high, they are willing to contribute their modest efforts to the motherland, not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, not afraid of derailment with society, can contribute to the motherland is their greatest wish.

However, it is also a highlight for parents to cultivate their children's ideological consciousness to such a high level. They themselves have a special feeling for the army, and they also had a dream of joining the army, but it was delayed for various reasons, and now their sons and daughters have finally helped them realize their dream of being a soldier. At the same time, they hope that their children can inject new strength into the army and defend their families and the country; I also hope that the children can exercise their will and become more brave and wise through the years of being a soldier.

As a parent, and I have a deep admiration for these parents, I may not be able to turn over my children to the state, and I salute them!

Because this couple's thinking is deeply influenced by the state, they have extremely high patriotic ideas and moral backgrounds, and they are well nurtured, so they will hand over their children to the country, which is very great.

There are no parents in the world who don't want their children to be by their side, this pair of parents say that their children are theirs, but they are also the country, as long as the country needs it, they will hand over their children to the country, which shows that they love the country very much in their hearts, which is so great.

Because the parents know that their children have a sense of responsibility and want to contribute to the country, as parents, they have to follow their children's own hearts, so they are willing to hand over all their children to the state.

This is the pride of our Guangxi, one person joins the army and the whole family is glorious, three people join the army, the whole family is glorious, so great, we have to pay tribute to them and salute them.

Educating children is a very important thing for every parent, in recent times, China is the method of parents to educate their children, which has once again caused heated discussions, because for Chinese parents, children are their everything, but also their hope for the future, because of this, there are many parents in order to be able to let their children get better development, willing to pay all for their children, and in this case it has caused everyone to discuss, when taking care of children, is it really to pay all for children?

In fact, there are many parents who think that their children are the continuation of their own lives, and even think that children are their own future, which is a wrong perception, because although children and their parents belong to the same family and are born and raised by their parents, they are actually an independent individual, but because of the blood relationship, so the two sides are closely linked together.

In this case, the child has an independent soul and an independent personality, then they are not the personal belongings of the parents, in this case, the parents naturally cannot strongly ask the child to develop according to their own wishes, then in this case, the parents are naturally not obliged to give everything for the child.

From the aspect of education, if parents pay too much for their children, it is not conducive to the growth of children, because in this case it is easy to spoil children, then it will be difficult for children to receive corresponding setbacks from an early age, which has a great impact on their development of a sound personality and better development in the future, because even if such children enter the society in the future, it is difficult to adapt to the current social environment.

There are many parents who love their actual children very much, and are willing to give everything for them, but it is precisely because of the continuous efforts of parents that children become unenterprising, in this case, they often have nothing to do, I believe that such a situation is also what any parent does not want to see, because of this, so when educating children, we must pay attention to the use of reasonable methods, only in this way can children achieve better growth.

Of course, parents should not give everything for their children, and there are some things that must be done by children themselves, so that children can become more independent.

I don't think parents should give it their all. Because when the children grow up, they always have to start a family on their own, and their parents can't always let them live a life of "clothes to reach out and food to open their mouths", and let them try to be independent on their own.

I think parents should give their all for their children, because the growth of their children is only this time, and they should be responsible for their life when they are born, and do their best to give him a better life.

I don't think so, this is because parents must have their own things, and if they devote themselves wholeheartedly, the pressure on their children will be greater.

Personally, I think that parents should not give everything for their children, parents also have their own lives, and parents' lives should not be kidnapped by children.

Should. However, it is also necessary to give the child the ability to learn appropriately, so that he can be self-sufficient in the future.

A: No, I think it's very important to cultivate children's ability to be independent.

I think parents should not give everything for their children, because although children are a very important thing in your life, parents should also love themselves, don't force their children too much, and give their children a happy childhood no matter what.

Parents should not give everything for their children. They also have to have their own lives, and don't focus on the children, which will make both parties feel tired.

Of course not. Because parents should also pay attention to the way of education, and at the same time should have their own life, do not give everything for their children, which will not have a good impact on the child's independence, but will lead to poor children's independence.

I'm not married now, and I don't have children. But when I get married and have children, I will definitely give my last thing to my children, really, I think the best thing for me in this world is my parents. Although I am not a parent, I have a very good pair of parents.

I used to be too young to understand my parents' good intentions, and I always felt that they were too much to manage, and I couldn't understand myself. But now that I'm older, I know that my parents are all for their own good, and they always give their best to themselves.

But they don't mean that they are doting, my parents have always been doting on me. What they think is right will be given to me, not wrong, these are given to children. Nowadays, many parents are too fond of their children, which is not good for their children, but harmful to their children.

What parents should do is to guide their children, yes, parents should give their children all the best of themselves, but as parents, they should understand what is good and what is bad, so that they can give the best to their children.

Our family is not very wealthy, but they have never refused my request for study. Every year during the Chinese New Year, they don't buy new clothes for themselves, but they prepare them for me every year, and my academic performance is not good, so they would rather prepare the money to buy a refrigerator and use it for me as a make-up fee. In my life, it is really my third life to be able to have such parents.

Children are a piece of meat that falls from their parents, and as parents, they will do their best to cultivate and pay. It is a continuation of life, the continuation of incense. Each of us should honor our parents and accompany our families in a limited time, and companionship is the most affectionate confession.

When the child is young, I will be willing to give him everything, I will give him all I have, give him all the love and care. Take my child, for example, he is still young, and being a parent is their heaven. Because he is not yet independent and cannot adapt to this society, we can give everything for him unconditionally.

But at the same time, I will also train him in the process of raising him, so that he can better adapt to this society in the future. Once he reaches the right age, when it is time to go out and break in, when it is time to be independent, as a parent, what needs to be done is to let go, instead of blindly giving.

Many of my friends have children and leave everything good to them. Buy the best toys for children, eat the best, children's meals are made alone, slightly better expensive fruits are reluctant to eat, keep them for children.

At first, I would also buy toys for my child, but then I realized that books were more suitable, so I stopped buying toys uncontrollably, but chose books that suited him. In terms of the child's eating, we always eat together, and sometimes we even grab the food to prevent him from having the opinion that "this is my own".

There was once a child who complained to his parents, "Since you can't support me for the rest of your life, then why do you spoil me from an early age!" ”

So, in my opinion, as a parent, it's not just okay to give everything to your children, because you can't raise children for a lifetime, and when you leave one day, what will happen to your children? Also, if you give everything to your child, when you need it one day, it is unknown whether your child will be able to count on it.

This era has bred a lot of "gnawing old people", why are there so many gnawing old people. On the one hand, some children are reluctant to grow up, and on the other hand, it is also caused by the reluctance of parents to let go.

Many of my friends are in their thirties, and their parents are in their sixties and seventies. When I got married, my parents used money to buy a house and a car, and when I had a child, I had to pay for it. As long as the need is reasonable, but generally speaking, it will be reasonable for any reason, and parents will not hesitate to lend a hand.

There are even some people whose parents are frugal in the countryside to subsidize their children, and their children live a "luxurious" life in the cities. I think parents are also responsible for this phenomenon. Because they are the ones who create the habit of reaching out to children.

So, as a parent, I don't give everything to my child, I will only give him what he needs. When he becomes an adult and becomes independent, he will not give everything to his children.

As a father of a three-year-old girl, if I were now, I would be willing to give everything I have to my children. But I don't know if I'll still choose this when I'm old and she's gone.

The daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents, and there is nothing wrong with this sentence. Before I became a father, I really didn't know that life with children was so happy, although after having children, I was under a lot of pressure, and almost every day was around my children and family, and my time was getting less and less, and I even forgot the account password for the online games I had played. However, I also have to admit that I am tired but also happy.

After having a daughter, I found that I really grew up, I became a father and I am a big tree next to my daughter, always sheltering my daughter from the wind and rain, everything I have is my daughter's, I am willing to give everything I have to my daughter, without asking for anything in return. I believe that not only me, but also my wife, also has the same opinion. If you can give up everything for the sake of your daughter.

But that's only now and in the future, and I'm not sure if it's still the same, if something will change. Because after all, the daughter has a day to get married, the ancients said that the married daughter spilled the water, this sentence may be a little biased, but we have to admit that after the daughter married and had her own family. The relationship between parents and children will inevitably undergo some changes.

It's not a barrier, but at least it's alienating. My lover and I don't have the idea of having a second child yet, if it's just this one child, we just hope that she can have a happy marriage in the future, let alone that she will be taken care of by our side. She has a life of her own, and we have a life of our own.