My boyfriend s living habits are very bad, should I marry him?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-31
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think it should be judged whether to marry him, and also have to consider the personalities of both parties, and can't make a rash decision, if you really can't stand his living habits, then it is recommended to break up as soon as possible, if you feel that it is still within the range of your tolerance, then it is recommended to run in for a while. In either case, it is not suitable to get married immediately. The difference in living habits greatly affects the relationship between the two parties, for example, you like to eat spicy food, and I like to eat sweet, and then you only cook spicy dishes and not beets, so that the two will quarrel because of this issue.

    Another example is that he always spills urine next to the squatting toilet when he goes to the toilet, and he doesn't clean it himself, so he has to wait for his girlfriend to deal with it every time, and after many times, his girlfriend will feel very bored.

    And some boys are not only sloppy outside, but also sloppy at home, can lie down and never stand, throw all the housework to girls, if this is the habit of life, I recommend not getting married, because after marriage such boys will treat girls as their nannies, and girls will become very hard, after giving birth to children, this hard work will be doubled. There are also some boys who always like to throw their stinky socks and pants around, and don't listen to any matter how much they say. I think as a girlfriend, if your boyfriend has some habits that she can't accept, then you should have a good talk with your boyfriend and ask him to correct his living habits, and you must be careful not to quarrel with your boyfriend in a bored tone every time he has this kind of behavior, because this may make her boyfriend rebellious, not only will not correct the habits, but also destroy the relationship between the two parties.

    We need to treat different people in different ways to get them to get rid of these habits. People who like others to say good things, we praise them more in our lives and give them more psychological hints.

    And the kind of man who always likes others to control him, it is good to command him directly, but you must pay attention to your tone when you give command.

    In fact, there is no major change in life after love and cohabitation and marriage, and this change will not happen until after having children. You don't have to worry too much about it, but if you're not sure, then try to date the other person for a while. However, I think that since this kind of doubt has already arisen in my heart, it is better not to get married.

    Because if you really like someone, you will choose him firmly, not hesitantly. This situation can only show that you don't like your boyfriend enough deeply.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    A boyfriend's bad living habits can be changed, no one is perfect, so as long as there is no problem with his character and his ability to live, he should still get married.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No, if you marry him, just for the sake of living habits, the two of them will often have conflicts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can talk to him first to see if he is willing to change these bad habits. If he can't change, you have to think about it yourself, whether you can tolerate these habits, and if not, then break up and don't get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My boyfriend's living habits are not good, if he loves me and wants to marry me, then he should get rid of his bad habits, if he doesn't change it, I can't accept it, and I won't marry him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, it does not affect your marital status, because it is impossible for everyone to have the same eating habits, the eating habits of two people can be different, and you can run in with each other to try each other's favorite food, or you can do something that the other party likes in order to raise the first party, so that you can still live a very happy life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You should accommodate each other, change for each other, and then your tastes will become more and more the same, so there is no need to worry about such small things.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Two people accommodate each other, make a dish that each other likes to eat at every meal, slowly merge with each other, and slowly get to know each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Cooking in life can not only make one dish, but one dish is what he loves to eat, and one dish is what he loves to eat.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you analyze it from a rational point of view, you need to determine what bad habits your boyfriend has? For example, gambling, heavy drinking, and socializing for various reasons, often come back at night. If it's such a bad habit, no matter how good the other person is, you must break up.

    Because I can survive in a year or two, but after a long time, how many women have suffered?

    Sensual saying, that is, if your boyfriend's bad habits have caused your disgust, it is best to stop in love and never enter into marriage. The reason is simple, if some of your boyfriend's bad habits can be broken before marriage, you can marry the other person. On the contrary, the boyfriend's bad habits have not been changed before marriage, don't marry him.

    Because although bad habits are not painful for marriage, they are easy to disgust you after a long time, making you inexplicably hate each other and bored with this marriage. Rather than wait until then, it is better not to get married.

    In addition, if the bad habits are just some minor problems, such as not flushing the toilet after urinating and throwing clothes around, etc., these can be changed by the other party. But if the bad habits are gambling, often not being at home for nights, splitting legs, etc., even if your boyfriend seems to have changed, you must break up with the other party as soon as possible. Because of this kind of bad habit, you can get rid of it for a year or two, but it's also very easy.

    Once, you can't afford it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone is not perfect, they have their own strengths, they also have their own shortcomings, you have to look at the problem dialectically, if you think he is your favorite, marry him for a lifetime.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you have already found out that your boyfriend has a lot of bad problems, then don't get married, then life for two people after marriage will be more painful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Bad habits can be corrected, as long as there is an emotional foundation, marriage is not a problem, as long as it is good for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you can tolerate such bad habits, then you have to get along well, which has nothing to do with getting married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think that since I have bad habits, I can change them, and after I change them, I can naturally get married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Think about this. Whether you can accept his bad habits or not has nothing to do with the person's good or bad. If you can't accept his bad habits, no matter how good a person is, it's useless. There will be a lot of contradictions in living together in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The boyfriend is very good, it is your evaluation.

    But there are a lot of bad habits, and it may be the opinion of everyone, including you.

    If you can tolerate and tolerate his bad habits, you may be able to continue dating.

    Otherwise, it's better to stop as soon as possible, let alone get married.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your boyfriend is very good, but there are a lot of bad habits, we are not suitable for marriage, your boyfriend has bad problems, you should help him change, and then mention marriage after changing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Good people and inappropriate people are two concepts! Marriage is suitable for both lovers, of course, good people will definitely not harm you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you think you can get married, and if you don't want to, you can not get married, can you observe? Right!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not suitable, otherwise you will get divorced after getting married.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not like that, no matter how many bad habits you have, they can be changed for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on whether you can tolerate his bad habits, or whether he can break his bad habits.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you feel that you can help him correct, accept him, but if you can't accept it, it depends on what you want to do.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can't stand his bad habits, it's better not to get married. It's true...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you think he's not suitable, don't get married if you can't accept it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Everyone has shortcomings, and no one is perfect.

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