My parents behavior makes me feel tired, what should I do?

You can communicate calmly with your parents, talk about your troubles, and ask your parents why they are doing this. Moreover, you have to take the initiative to communicate hard, after all, they are all a family, and it would be good to talk about it.

I'm a second child, I'm a younger sister, and an older sister, since I was a child, my sister is very bold in doing things, and my parents always want to control her but can't control my sister's temperament, and I've been very obedient to my parents since I was a child, so it's natural that I can feel more and more that my parents used the same set of discipline for my sister, and my sister was in early love, so I'm still 22 years old and haven't let me engage in objects; My sister was frustrated at work, so I had to stay at home during the winter vacation. I admit that these are all manifestations of Mom and Dad protecting me and loving me, but I can't breathe anymore from this kind of love. I want to have my own life, I want to be socially connected, I want to have my boyfriend, but it's hard and hard in our family.

There is a "generation gap" between our younger generation and our parents, and there are often differences and disagreements in terms of how to deal with people, make friends, think, work, and so on. This has created a situation where I think my parents don't understand me and are unreasonable, which puts me in a predicament. When encountering this situation, first analyze why your parents don't understand you?

Is it your fault? Can you think of a solution that has the best of both worlds? If the parents are wrong, how to persuade him?

If you ask yourself a few more whys, you often get out of the predicament unconsciously.

It is not easy for parents to raise their children, from the melon to the ground: learn to walk, the first time, the parents have paid too much, can not use words to answer, only with practical actions to repay, no matter what the parents say right or wrong, should use the brain to analyze, try not to hurt the parents, whenever do any life, first strive for the opinions of the parents, be prepared, get the approval of the parents, the above is a personal opinion.

Due to the different growth environments, ways of thinking, and life concepts between parents and children, it is easy for both parties to have conflicts. If there is a disagreement, both parties need to remain calm and communicate their ideas in a timely manner to try to understand each other. Judging or demanding from both sides from your own perspective will only make things worse.

Active communication, multi-directional, multi-angle consideration is the last word!

My mom really makes me feel very tired, and she scolds others for doing something that is not good at everything, and she herself just brushes it up. On the issue of flaunting filial piety, what do I do for her a little slower and say that she raised a donkey, and if she is not filial, she can't do this little thing well, what can she do. Actually, I get really sad sometimes.

I feel like a heinous bad person, and my bad words hurt people. Forcing yourself to follow her trajectory, it would be unfilial to give her a slow bath, and now she will definitely ignore her in the future, and she won't listen to the explanation. Sometimes it's really tiring.

My parents repeatedly stressed the financial pressure, because the financial pressure repeatedly stressed that I studied hard. Sometimes I am really wronged to study outside, and I want some comfort to my family with the instinct of a child, but it always makes me study hard even if I suffer hardship, because my parents do not have too much economic capital, and I feel out of breath every time I feel unreliable and insecure. I really want to talk to them, as a child, with my parents' money, with their nurturing grace, I have to talk to them, but after each call I get more negative energy, I am fragile, depressed, I want to love but dare not love, that's it.

But I feel that my life should not be like this, and now I am studying psychology and preparing to help myself.

Communicate more, in fact, most parents are still more open-minded! After all, they also came step by step from our age! It's just that the older generation may not be as energetic and fighting as the younger ones!

I can only say that do what you think in your heart, make your character independent, independent personality will help you in society, listen to what others say and make your own decisions, even if you are parents.

Summary. Hello dear, this will be longer, you can watch it slowly.

1. This kind of psychological change is normal, you don't need to blame yourself too much, or suppress yourself too much, and don't run away from this problem, because parents are something you can't choose, and you will always have to face them.

It's tiring and depressing to get along with my parents.

Hello dear, this will be more quietly smiling, and you can slowly open and look at it when you are empty. 1. This kind of psychological change is normal, you don't need to blame yourself too much, or suppress yourself too much, and don't run away from this problem, because your parents are something you can't choose to regret, and you will always have to face them.

2. The reason why you feel unpleasant with your parents as you grow up is because when you were young, your parents had more or less caused damage to you mentally or physically, and this damage cannot be repaired, and it will become more and more profound as you get older. When you grow up and continue to improve, you can judge the wrong and right behavior of your parents back then, but at this time, you will still choose to forbear, but deep in your heart you are no longer willing to forbear, and then you have a sense of distance from your parents. And it will get farther and farther away, and the heart will become more and more tired.

Teacher, I'm very depressed, I gave birth to twin babies, if it's all at home to invite an aunt, my parents also have to take a little hand, because I have to go to work, usually go out very early, my parents don't agree, said that by the society to make them easy, can only choose two babies temporarily separated, I sometimes rush over to see the treasure after work, my mother said that people and Sen Que Li did not ask you to see, after all, their daughter, and I am not close, I am also quite sad to search for this, fortunately, there is no social anything over there, This is put here my parents to help, but there are a lot of problems, first of all, I give the baby to do what she has to say, my mother especially wants to face, my dad is very heavy, what happened, my dad in order to seek peace, never talk about right or wrong, and my mother sleeps in a room alone, I sleep on the sofa in the afternoon, sometimes the baby screams, my husband has to go to work in the morning, my husband sleeps on the sofa, there is something, my dad and my mother can't sleep together, must be a room for one person, I feel so tired.

I can understand your current situation. If you want to improve these situations, you must first communicate with your husband, and secondly, if you can compromise on your own, you can take care of the children.

Good afternoon, dear! Getting along with your parents is depressed, and the vertical scumbag indicates that there is a problem with the way you get along with your parents. Of course, the reason why you have problems with your parents is not you, but your parents.

The primitive family environment has a great influence on children, and the basic personality formation of children is formed when they are young. We can't change our parents and our environment, so we can try to change our mindset. Our parents love us and think about us.

But parents are also mortals, and there are also places that they can't reach, and they will make mistakes. When parents do something wrong, we can choose to tolerate and forgive them.

Summary. I think the most effective way to do this is to get rid of your parents.

I think the most effective way to do this is to get rid of your parents.

1. Communicate more and more deeply with our parentsWhen we feel very tired and depressed to get along with our parents, we think about how we got along with our parents when we were young? At that time, we would tell our parents when there was anything, and we would express our emotions to our parents completely, and there was no obstacle to the communication between our parents and us, and the two sides got along very happily. Tan Bi.

2. Open your heart and abandon prejudices.

Therefore, we must open our hearts, abandon prejudices, and communicate with our parents sincerely and frankly, and when the two sides exchange ideas, the generation gap will become smaller and smaller. Of course, it is more difficult to completely eliminate the generation gap, but there is no need for that, we have to allow differences to exist, as long as each other's thinking does not conflict.

I believe that as long as we do the above two things well, our relationship with our parents will be greatly improved. You won't feel tired and depressed.

It's always easy to quarrel.

Try to control the tone and speed of your speech, and then say that after all, it is your parents, the people closest to you, and there is nothing that cannot be solved.