Why do some parents prefer sons over daughters so much that they don t want their daughter s family

Generally speaking, some parents prefer sons over daughters because of gender discrimination, believing that women are more vulnerable than men and less able to withstand failures and setbacks, so they can only allocate resources to boys in the traditional way to protect girls.

In addition, some parents believe that men are more likely to be respected and have greater financial ability when they go out to work, and they believe that women will put their careers aside after marriage and only take care of household chores, while men can continue to work, so they want boys to receive more preferential treatment.

At the same time, there are some parents who believe that the girl's family is better than the son's family, which means that the family wealth is unevenly distributed, which may bring social pressure to the boys and affect their self-confidence, so they do not want the girl's family to live better than the son's family.

This is all feudal thinking, because they think that no matter how good their daughters are, they belong to other families, and their sons belong to their own family.

Hello! That's because some parents are still influenced by feudal thinking! Just don't mind.

They are our parents anyway, they are the ones who give us life, and we should be grateful to them for that! As for what parents think, that's their problem. Leave it alone!

Feel free to do so! If it helps you, hope.

Because when a daughter marries, it is someone else's family, and no one wants someone else's family to be better than their own.

It can only be said that there is a psychological problem, or when the parents have difficulties and only their daughter can help him, they understand the role of their daughter.

In a patriarchal family, daughters are relatively "lacking in love" and cannot get the attention and love of their parents. If there are any good things and delicious food at home, parents give priority to their sons at the first time. As a daughter, in order to get the attention of her parents, she has to become more sensible and filial, hoping that this can get the attention or praise of her parents.

Patriarchy should be strict with boys and pampered with girls. Let the boys be more promising.

Now some parents are just the opposite, and they are raising girls with crooked beating.

Therefore, those who are developed are more capable of filial piety.

In fact, it is because of the lack of parental love that the daughter pleases her parents, but in the eyes of this kind of parents, no matter how much the daughter pays, she should be.

There is no patriarchal problem in our familyThis phenomenon should not exist in this era, but after all, there are still many people's ideological concepts that are still stuck in a few decades ago or more history, personal views are different, and there are thousands of strong women in a society where men and women are equal. I have seen a lot of people, is a son, several parents as a burden to take turns to raise, a few brothers take ten pounds to the old man a hundred, the old man with a daughter is not enough to eat, the daughter and son-in-law often go home to see some firewood, rice, oil, salt and the like, and buy some daily necessities, less than one or two hundred, more than four or five hundred, so it can be seen that there are children may not be able to be filial, children treat the old equally, children will treat the old people the same. But no matter what, it's good to look at everything.

After all, it is the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, don't take it seriously, and treating the elderly well is what everyone must do. Advise patriarchal people to treat them equally, and having children may not necessarily prevent old age. Wake up, right?

Don't say it, there are many mistakes, and there will be netizens who will answer the spine and raise the bar. But as long as it is reasonable, if there is a lifting bar, it will be lifted.

Everyone's experiences and thoughts are different.

We can't hold our parents in the way, but we do.

Ability to choose one's own life.