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didn't kill many children, and if they urged their parents to marry, it must be from their own point of view, or if they are willing to get married, they still have the final say.
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Negative news about this generally doesn't come out unless the family is more prominent I don't report it As far as I know, there are two or three When it's hot, I don't find these things around me Because their parents are more cheerful Parents who are forced to marry are stupid people who don't have any culture My parents are also forced to marry I guess I might kill myself one day The people who hurt you the most in this world are often the people closest to you Under the banner of loving you, doing what they want to do and imposing their ideas on us And we are cultured, thoughtful, and individual, and we can't be the minds of the older generation, and our parents will always insult you, often humiliate you, often threaten you with suicide, and often sneer at you, and over time, we will definitely commit suicide, which is the inevitable result.
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1.Family members urging marriage can easily make children rebellious. In order to cope with their parents' urging behavior, many children will choose to go on a blind date or fall in love, but after many blind dates fail, people will be afraid of blind dates or falling in love.
Although the family's intentions are good, the end result is to harm the child. 2
Family members urging marriage are likely to make children's marriages of low quality or even divorced.
Many people face the urging of their family members to marry, and only decide their life events through a few simple meetings. Such a marriage without an emotional foundation cannot last long, even if it is reluctant to be together, it may lead to all kinds of conflicts after marriage, and it is best to go to divorce
3.Urging marriage can easily lead to family disharmony.
If your child doesn't listen to you to go on a blind date, or if you talk too much and your child doesn't do it, parents will also feel frustrated in their hearts. Children will also be irritated when they listen too much. In this way, it is easy to cause family conflicts, so urging marriage is easy to lead to family disharmony.
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What happened to those who were in a hurry because their parents urged them to get married? Urging marriage has become a social phenomenon, and parents urging marriage are naturally out of good intentions, hoping that someone will take care of them in the second half of the year, and it will be zero in the concept of the older generation. In fact, after the best period of marriage, if you don't get married for one more day after that age, your parents will be more anxious.
So they tried every means to chase marriage, children in the receipt of their parents' request after a lot of unbearable parents worry about it every day, so they chose to find a partner as soon as possible, into the marriage hall, but with a purposeful love, always so flawed, so parents in the marriage knot ending?
My cousin was chasing marriage. And then he couldn't say no, because they were a match made in heaven in the eyes of everyone. My husband is also very gentle, excellent, go home on time every day, prepare surprises for her every small festival but Xiaoyu, always feel that there is a lack of taste in the ordinary life, in his fantasy before, love is romantic and free, but it can break all the shackles, and now love is produced in bondage, their lives are stable, but because of this, there is less expectation and heartbeat.
So he wasn't happy.
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I believe that many friends have encountered the scene of being urged to marry by their parents, Chinese parents are generally particularly nervous about their children's marriages, and they are always worried that their children will become leftover men and women, and they will not be able to find a good partner in the future. Many parents will be a little overdone because of this, which will cause their children to be disgusted. Many friends have said that their parents' urging to marry has killed many children, and the parents who urge marriage are selfish.
In this regard, let's take a look at everyone's views on parents' urging marriage.
According to psychological experts, due to the fast pace of modern life, the psychological pressure that modern people need to bear is also very large, and the pressure that everyone can bear is also limited. After some young people accept the destruction of society and life, they also need to face the pressure from their parents, relatives and friends to urge them to marry, and it is easy for the psychological defense line to collapse, so their thoughts will become extreme, and they may not be able to bear it and choose to commit suicide. Therefore, there are many young people who call on modern parents to be open-minded and open to the issue of their children's marriage, and should not exert pressure.
Of course, young people blame their parents for being selfish in urging marriage, but in fact, this idea is not necessarily true, most parents' love is moisturizing things silently, and they are selfless and dedicated to their children all their lives. Parents urge marriage, a big reason is that they are nervous, concerned and concerned about their children. Worried that the child will not be able to find a good partner when he is older, worried that the child is single, unable to take good care of himself without a partner, worried that the child will have children in the future, and will encounter difficulties in inheriting the family lineage, etc.
Therefore, young people can look at marriage urging from the perspective of their parents, communicate their thoughts with their parents in a timely and effective manner, obtain their parents' understanding, and be considerate of their parents' practice of urging marriage. Only when both parents and children are considerate of each other can each other's physical and mental health develop well.
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I'm also very entangled in this question, because my parents are also urging marriage, but I think they are also for your good, don't think too much, they just want you to be happy, if you don't want to find it, you can also tell them, don't rush you.
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Parental urging to marry can have a different impact on a person. In some cases, parents may urge their children to marry because they are worried about their children's future and well-being, as well as the inheritance of family blood, but in other cases, the reason why parents are forced to marry may be influenced by various factors such as social traditions, pressure from relatives and friends, personal expectations, etc.
If the child is not willing to marry with him/her, such urging will often bring stress, annoyance and negative emotions to the child, and will also affect self-esteem and self-worth. In this case, you should communicate in a timely manner so that your parents understand your thoughts and needs, and stick to your own ideas and positions, and at the same time you can try to seek the help of a professional psychologist to relieve your emotions and anxiety.
It is important to note that while children's ideas and choices are important aspects of respecting individual rights, the opinions of parents are also worthy of respect and consideration. It is recommended that both parties remain open, honest and rational in their communication, and strive to reach a certain consensus and compromise, so that parents can understand their situation and at the same time be able to respect family traditions and values.
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