Because of a man, I ruined myself and hurt my parents who loved me, how stupid am I, how ridiculous?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's not stupid, it's just once in life, and it's not in vain to love boldly once. This shows that you value your feelings, and if you are hurt, it also means that you have not met your fate. Next time, remember not to give unilaterally or elevate your partner's status in the relationship.

    Before you set foot in the palace of marriage, you were still friends, very close friends rather than relatives. Compared with friends, for most people, relatives will have a higher status in their hearts. Because loved ones will not give up on you in many, many situations, and even if you have been hurt, the home will always leave you a place, and that is enough.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    In the world of human feelings, love has always been celebrated. The great love "makes life and death promise each other", which has been moving since ancient times. There is no way to go back to the past, and when it hurts, let it go. In the future, it will be better to see people, these are the products of growth.

    Let go of the past and let it go, and the future will definitely be better. Don't let yourself lose everything because of the passer-by in your life, although the wound is difficult to repair, but there is no way to make up for the loss. As long as people live, there is nothing that they can't do again, and if they hurt their parents, they should be doubly good to them, and no parents will hate their children.

    The most important thing for a person to be himself is throughout his life, no matter what kind of people he is.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's not stupid, it's because you value feelings, if you don't value feelings, you won't hurt your parents, I have the same experience as you, but only people with the same experience will empathize with you

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You are indeed stupid, because your parents are the most beloved people, you ruined yourself, can you make that man look at you squarely? No, while loving others, you have to feel more sorry for yourself!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no regret medicine in the world. It's an experience, a past. The damage that man has done to you and your parents is irreparable, and it is useless for you to blame yourself. You feel stupid and ridiculous, and that's in the past tense. The past is gone, and the page is turned.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is not advisable to abandon your parents for the sake of a man, and it is not advisable to hurt yourself, and do not regret it for life because of impulse.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, it's crazy about love! How did you hurt your parents, and you didn't take a knife and didn't hit them, what did you hurt?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I hurt what I might have loved and how much I felt for him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friend, don't despair, you must know that there are no absolutes in everything, your parents are very angry looking at it right now, but the anger will always go away, and it will take time. To know the meaning of the phrase 'true relatives are not annoyed for 100 days' Your parents, dearest relatives, and you will not be angry for more than 100 days.

    Besides, there is no one who does not make mistakes, and it is inevitable that young people will do things too radically Don't be sad, okay, things have happened, why bother putting so much pressure on yourself. Find a way to remedy it If you can't help it, just let it go Time is the best medicine for everything Don't be in a hurry It will definitely get better Your parents will forgive you Gradually, it's going to pass Relax your heart.

    And friends You care about your parents and care about their feelings Otherwise, they will care about you You are their child Don't look at what you say and how you scold You still think about you in your heart Don't think that your only relative is gone Such a stupid concept is impossible Bystanders clear Oh I wish you the understanding of your parents as soon as possible Good luck.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Admit your mistakes to your family, you can throw away anything, your family has the same blood as you, and family affection can't disappear.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't say what your fault is, we don't think about it, anyway, the purpose is one Parents, there is only one parent, and there is only you as the parent's child, everyone is scarce with each other, there is nothing that can't be overcome, and everything will go well with your parents.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Impress parents with sincerity, after all, human nature is flesh and blood, no parent does not love their children, to have patience and perseverance, the so-called "sincerity, gold and stone for the open", and parents to communicate more, in front of parents more filial piety.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's your luck to leave now, I don't understand why you're sad.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm a man, I suggest you.

    Quickly cut off relations with that kind of man.

    I know this may be difficult for you, but you must overcome it, don't be ruined by such a man, I wish you to get out of the predicament as soon as possible, and meet a really good man in the future Start over, in this world, there are still good men like me, hehe,

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel the same way, you are liberated, you should feel an incomparable sense of freedom, I don't know why you still have feelings for him.

    No matter how much you love him, it turns out that he is not worthy of your love, see clearly.

    I'm a man and support letting this kind of man experience the terrible revenge of a woman Hehe It depends on your wisdom If you will only blindly do stupid actions Then I advise you not to think about it Admit bad luck.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Leave him. Such a person is not worthy of your heartache and cherishment, you must leave him proudly. Let him see that you will be fine without him. Let him know that some people really can't come back if they miss something.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Separate from him! This kind of man is not worth your sadness. Seriously, you can definitely live without anyone, and there is no need to treat yourself badly for an unworthy person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are in pain, you should find a place to vent it, and you shouldn't think about revenge, there will be retribution for the miserable creatures. Vent to bars, ballrooms!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not worth it to give up your parents for anything in the world, because they are the only ones who love you unconditionally. (I'm a boy).

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's not giving up on your parents. It's just a temporary departure. If you are with him and you are really happy, your parents will see it and will forgive you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To be honest, it's not straightforward, because decades later you are married to a boy, and when you think of your parents, you will regret your choice. You can have a good talk with your parents and settle it out calmly. Tell my parents that we can't interfere with my children's marriages now, and that my boy and I will be happy.

    The people who will live later are you and the boy, not the parents. [Parents can never fight their children, because they love us, they want us to be happy].

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not so serious, don't you want you to live better if your parents oppose you, as long as you live happily, love it, and don't give up your parents to communicate with your heart, you will succeed in cheering.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That is actually the angry words of the parents, and it is impossible to break off the mother-daughter relationship because they don't listen to them. I believe that with the passage of time and your unremitting efforts, your parents will definitely accept you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's a blessing to be with someone you like! But if you want to choose between the person you love and your parents, it's better to stand on your parents' side! After all, your parents are the only people in this world who love you unconditionally!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As long as you live well, you can slowly come back and be filial to your parents in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Young people are like this, and they always can't control this kind of thing. So try to avoid being alone in the future, this is very useful.

    Now that it has happened, there is not only one thing in life, there are still many things waiting to be done. Focus on other things, and be open-minded. When you grow up and behave in the world, you feel it, in fact, this is normal.

    Sex is just as commonplace, not so serious.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What do you say, why are you so impulsive? Girls should be self-respecting, but it seems that you can regret it. Actually, if the man who really loves you will forgive you. But don't be too casual in the future and think about the consequences.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't put too much baggage on yourself, and if you really value it too much, go for a repair surgery.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay, let it be, you'll find true love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No one can destroy you, only you can destroy you. If you fall, don't you get up! Even if we are covered in bruises, even if we are covered in dirt, we still have to stand up and continue to move forward and continue to pursue our dreams.

    It's not worth it to be angry for this kind of man, forget it, there is no grass at the end of the world, I believe you will definitely find the feeling that belongs to you, and I sincerely wish you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In this world, there is a material thing called money, and in this world there is a phenomenon called cruelty, so for the sake of unworthy people and unworthy things, give up! Let's start over, maybe there is someone waiting for you in the next second. Don't lose faith in the world.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are cheap men in this world, and there are good men. Discern well, love doesn't have to be bullshit. Life is still long, it can be rebuilt, have faith.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Dick Cowboy's Worth In fact, there is no one who is right or wrong in love, only suitable and unsuitable When you fall in love, the person who makes you smarter and smarter is just a chess opponent. And the person who makes you more and more 2, that is true love Take your time Fate fate.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hey, when the happy moment is around you, you don't care so much! Maybe after a long time, everything will be fine!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After that, do you look for a man to find a man and eat bullshit yourself?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why destroy yourself, silly girl, to destroy him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hey, another guy who scolded the whole table because of a fly.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Know what the problem is and don't repeat it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It is necessary to look at feelings correctly, reflect on one's own shortcomings, correct one's shortcomings, enhance one's judgment, and get to know a good man, and you will get out of the pain.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Take a walk-and-go trip. Through the adventures of travel, relax yourself, get rid of hatred, live well, and love yourself.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You must adjust your mentality, there is no need to dwell too much on this relationship that has hurt you, bury this relationship in the bottom of your heart, only in this way can you start a new life.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Be sure to tell yourself that there is no need to hurt yourself because of your hatred for others and let yourself fall for a moment.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Either the parents are against it or they are wrong.

    The main thing is whether you have found the right person.

    Find the right person.

    Of course, a lifetime of happiness.

    Spend time with the wrong people.

    Marriage will naturally be difficult.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think I must first see what that person looks like, don't be blind to yourself, I don't understand whether he loves you or not, I think you must be deceived, and now people are not so simple, you must keep your eyes open, don't be stupid, you don't know anything, and be deceived,

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The only people who love you unconditionally are your parents. So many times, we have to carefully consider the opinions of our parents and not easily betray and deny them.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Time will tell you the truth, and people still have to rely on themselves.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Yes, because parents they have been through a lot, and it is standard to look at people with their eyes. When he was young and frivolous, he was willful. Wayward turned out to be just that. Therefore, when you do anything, you must consider the advice that others give you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Yes, sometimes you have to listen to your parents, after all, it's someone who has come over.

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