I want to break up when I m together, I m reluctant to be separated, and I keep going back and forth

Updated on healthy 2024-07-13
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I want to break up when I'm together, but I'm reluctant to separate. In fact, you are not feelings, let alone love. It's just that you're not confident in yourself, and you're insecure.

    Because you don't love each other at all, you want to break up when you show up together, which shows that you reject each other from the bottom of your heart. But after the breakup, a person is insecure outside, so he wants to turn back, and feels that there is one more person together and his heart is more down-to-earth.

    You have hurt others and yourself by doing this, so it is recommended that you quickly separate and study or work hard. Improve your abilities and slowly develop new relationships.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't cherish it when you have it, and only after you lose it will know that it is valuable, and what you can't accept from the other party, two people can communicate calmly. When two people are together, they should cherish it, and don't wait until they really lose, it's too late to regret it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Feelings are something that can't be forced. You still have rational thinking and repeated consideration to see if you are suitable for each other to be resolute and decisive, and you can't procrastinate, which will hurt your feelings to a certain extent.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. If there is no real affection.

    2. Don't force yourself together.

    3 decisive separation.

    4 may be a wise choice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can choose a long-distance relationship and get together again during the holidays, so that distance produces beauty, which is better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I want to break up just after we get together, is it an eye-poppy?

    If you want to break up just after you get together, think more about why you want to break up with him? If after being together, you feel that he is not the right person, you feel that he has too many shortcomings, and after being together, he is not as good to you as he was before, you can communicate with him, if he still can't change, then break up with him and be decisive. Because a relationship either doesn't start, once it starts, it's good to be together, if you really can't be together, at least you have to break it cleanly, otherwise it will be more difficult to let go decisively in the end.

    This will hurt people more, so if you want to break up just after we get together, you can communicate with him first, and if he still can't change, then break up with him. If a relationship knows it won't work out, don't do it in the first place. One is not wide, this is good for everyone.

    No one will be hurt in this relationship.

    If it's not his fault that he wants to break up just after they get together, he is still as good to you as ever, and better than before, but you still want to break up with him, then it's your fault, you have to think carefully about yourself, what is wrong, and then correct yourself. If you correct it and you feel that you really can't be with him, then break up with him. Breaking up with him now will hurt him, but it's much better than breaking up with him when he has a deeper and deeper affection for you later.

    Because the more time passes, the easier it is to hurt people. If you want to break up as soon as you get together, and it's not his fault, reflect on your mistakes more, and if you still can't be with him after correcting yourself, then decisively propose to him to break up. Maybe you hurt him now, but he will forget about the relationship later, but if you hurt him again in the future, it will hurt him even more.

    It does feel a bit hasty to want to break up when you're together, if you don't think about it, why be together? If you're going to be together, why wouldn't you want to be good? I waited until we were together to break up.

    It's a blow to anyone. What kind of despair is the expectation at the beginning, and the sudden disappointment at the end? What a pity it is for him that a relationship ended before it even began.

    If you want to be together, you have to live a good life, but if you want to break up with him just after you are together, it will be really unhappy for him.

    Therefore, before starting a relationship, I hope you can think about it carefully, don't decide to be together hastily, and then want to break up after deciding to be together, which will be very sad for anyone. Like a fool yourself. If it is recruited, it will come and it will be gone.

    It's not good to be anyone. So when starting a new relationship, you must think about it carefully, don't make a decision easily, after all, don't let go easily when you're together, otherwise it will be easy to hurt others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you playing with your feelings? If you are together on impulse, and you want to break up when you are just together, then why did you go earlier. Is it the sentence that what you can't get is the best, and if you get it, you feel like a grass?

    1.Don't break up just yet, give you a chance. I don't know if it's because of personality incompatibility between you or other reasons that make you want to break up with each other so soon.

    If you have a conflict just for a trivial matter that makes you have the idea of breaking up, then calm down and don't be so impulsive, after all, your current relationship is already lovers, and you have to be responsible for your feelings.

    Isn't it always the same during the run-in period of feelings? You can't let the other person do things exactly according to your ideas, everyone's ideas are different, he is a human and not a robot, he can completely follow the instructions you set to make you completely satisfied. So, give you a chance, try to see if you can go on, and don't rush to break up just yet.

    2.If both people refuse to give in for each other, then break up. If you are together and your personalities are incompatible and you are not willing to compromise for each other, then break up.

    The relationship is about you advancing and I retreating, and you retreating and I entering. If neither of you is willing to sacrifice for the other, what is the point of being reluctant to be together, and those who are not willing to sacrifice for their feelings will not share the joys and sorrows when they encounter great things. You might as well break up and let each other go, giving others a chance to find true love.

    The relationship between two people is that you love me, and now you want to break up, you will definitely not love each other wholeheartedly, you have withdrawn yourself from this relationship, and it must be unfair to the other party. If you really can't continue, then break up, and if you break up early, you can also let the other party leave you early, so as not to hurt him more in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then break up, just together is when you are in love, and you want to break up, it means that you are not suitable, and it is also a good thing to break up when you haven't caused too much harm to each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then divide.

    Holding hands and looking at each other's teary eyes, they were speechless and choked. Affectionate parting since ancient times, and even more so that can be snubbed on Valentine's Day, this past year, should be a good day and beautiful scenery is imaginary. Even though there are thousands of styles, who do you say, you are my woman, I am your man, you are my heart, I am your liver, you are my all, I am your everything, you are my world, I am your future.

    It is an unchanging vow for our life. We meet in the red dust, we hold hands in the wind and rain, we move forward side by side in the waves, and the heavens have their own arrangements in the dark, let us treat this love well. I hurt you, I know it's because I don't know how to cherish it, I deserve to lose you.

    But I want to say that if I am given another chance, I will definitely take good care of you, not let you be hurt a little bit, not let you shed a single tear, so that we will never be separated again for the rest of our lives.

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