When my girlfriend was with me, I couldn t afford to pay a penny

If you are sure that there will be no result with him, then the best way to say goodbye directly to him!

I'll say a few words. You know there's a problem between you, why haven't you solved it? Now that you don't understand her big shortcomings, why don't you nip the problem in the bud?

I don't mean to blame you in the slightest!! Because that's your life.

I think you will encounter problems in the future relationship, and you are not afraid of problems, but to solve the problem, maybe the best way to solve this problem is to communicate! Communicate!! Communicate!!

There are some things that you may be OK if you tell her clearly, of course, that is when you have little prejudice against her, if you feel that you feel no to her, brother, I advise you to get out of the "predicament" as soon as possible

So, if you can't communicate, you really can't be together!

From your language, I feel that your simplicity is very likable, but it is also the kind that is easy to be bullied, I feel that your girlfriend is not worthy of your good to her, and treat you as a pocket that cannot be dropped, this kind of woman, I am not qualified to evaluate her, right, the key is whether you like it or not, and your feelings are more important in your inner world than anyone else. In anyone's eyes, I don't think I approve of that woman treating you!!

In addition, I would like to say brother, this world is not pure, sexual relations are not as valuable as they were in the 80s, and they are very cheap and cheap.

If you really like her, you should persuade her on the basis of tolerating her and give her a chance. If you don't like her anymore, leave!

Quickly cut through the mess, speechless, it should be broken, it is because of you that there is an ATM and a meal ticket, she always comes to you, it is estimated that every time she comes, you are soft.

Eh, do you think you're tired! You don't have any feelings now, buddy, cut through the mess! This kind of thing can't be delayed!

Married, after marriage. She's changed, and so have you. Or just a baby.

If you like her, find a way to change her, even if she is hopeless, if you don't like it, then break up, such a person is not worth your nostalgia. Whether you like her or not, you have to think about it yourself, if you see her every day, will you miss her? She's not happy, will you be unhappy, etc...

Think clearly, make a decision as soon as possible, this kind of thing is the most taboo and indecision.

The other is that she relies on you too much, and she indulges herself too much, always thinking that no matter how bad she is, you will never leave her, such a woman, you must be ruthless with her88, otherwise there will be endless trouble

Because this kind of woman is not worth it, it is recommended that you divide it, the sooner the better. There is no need to contact in the future.

She treats you as her little bank, fly early, you should be tired of it too, give others the opportunity to love you early, maybe you will meet soon, don't let this person drag you down.

Congratulations, buddy! Meet a woman who is so clingy to you. Wash and sleep, she won't come to you tomorrow.

Really, find another one, it's still entangled if you don't have feelings, and you deserve to die if you're not tired.

Say something you don't like to hear, a girl who doesn't know how to give, it's not worth it.

Of course she doesn't want to break up now, is there an ATM like yours to put it?

It's best to be able to say cruel things directly and break off the relationship.

You tell her you've had enough of this life and don't want to spend a penny for her anymore.

You can be as ruthless as you can say, and it's not too much to call her a meat seller, because she always thinks of you as a fool who will automatically give money!

Don't have the slightest pity, despise this kind of woman, and strongly ask the landlord to cut off all contact with her now!

Don't blame yourself, because sex is your wishful thinking.

Treat her coldly and don't take the initiative to contact her, and after a long time, she will know that you don't have feelings for her

Tried and tested. Dude, how can such a woman have a good life, let's break up early

Preface: When going out to eat with your girlfriend, your girlfriend never pays for it, and girls don't covet boys' money to stay with her. As a boy, you should take into account that the reason why girls are reluctant to pay for meals is just that the boy should pay for the problem of two people consuming food.

Boys should not be too stingy, since they want to be with their girlfriends, they should work hard for girls. In this way, you can get the girl's like, and if the boy is too picky, the girl will consider breaking up. <>

When boyfriends are dating girls, most of them will choose to eat out, because considering that the two have not yet entered into married life. When you go to each other's house to eat, it is obviously a little inappropriate, and most of them will choose to eat out with their girlfriends. But when eating out, most girls will not directly consider paying the bill, because thinking of the relationship between two people who are already lovers, it is normal to ask their boyfriends to pay for it.

But as a boy, considering that his girlfriend doesn't pay for every meal, she is only greedy for her own money to be with her. <>

Boys should be aware that when they are in a relationship with such a girl, the girl does not pay for it, and she belongs to the type of life like this. Because some girls in the process of dating boys, in order to show their economic strength, they will always rush to pay, which will also seem to be faceless for boys. Because most of the boys pay when couples eat together, if you let the girls pay, you will feel a little embarrassed, in order to save face for the boys, it is normal for the boys to pay.

Boys should not be cautious and should realize that it doesn't cost much to go out to eat together every time. Even if girls really don't spend a penny, they won't consider spending more time with boys because of the money for meals, or because the two of them want to develop steadily for a long time. In order to stabilize the relationship between the two people, the girl doesn't spend money, but just wants to be frugal.

Yes. If she loves you more, she will give some money, maybe she is greedy for your money, so she never pays for it.

It depends on the situation: 1. If this is often the case, then this woman cannot be sexed. Selfishly picking the door is taking advantage of your good impression of him, and using you to be handsome. Men, don't live so humblely.

2. Maybe it's to take care of your face and make you pay. Cherish such a girlfriend.

Your girlfriend is not greedy for money to be with you, it may be that your girlfriend thinks that the money is very small, so she will not pay for it.

Divide it, it's 8,000 a month, and it will cost her more than 6,000 just to spend, and the water and electricity are all my burden. talked about marriage for 3 years. In the end, if you don't have a car, a house, or a deposit, the boy still saves up the money and buys a house, love needs to go both ways, and a girl who works together with you is worth marrying.

When she goes out to eat with her girlfriend, she never pays for it, she doesn't necessarily want your money to be with you, maybe she thinks that the boy should pay for the meal.

It's a person who understands the situation of courtesy exchanges, I know some women, if she loves that man, she will pay for it, balance, only a spare tire, she doesn't care.

No, I just don't think it's necessary, I don't think it's necessary to be so clear as a boyfriend and girlfriend, it's with the purpose of your marriage.

How much can it cost to eat, hahaha, laugh to death, 1000 a meal.

The first type: out of politeness, maybe you are not particularly familiar with friends, in fact, girls will think more, if they are not familiar with each other, they will not want to owe you favors, and will definitely take the initiative to pay, of course, out of politeness, they must be paid together with the other party's bill, so that they will appear more generous. This kind of specific manifestation is **, I can't quite explain clearly, a woman invites a man to eat, and a woman has the right to choose in front of a man, that is to say, a woman is willing to invite a man to dinner, which means that she should have no other thoughts about this man.

This kind of specific manifestation is **, I can't quite explain clearly, a woman invites a man to eat, and a woman has the right to choose in front of a man, that is to say, a woman is willing to invite a man to dinner, which means that she should have no other thoughts about this man. According to common sense: men and women eat out, and the woman pays the bills - the working relationship, and the woman is "the secretary, the person in charge of finance or the daily management of the unit."

There is some truth to this. The lady is more careful, coupled with the talent for careful calculation, and a "sober" mind, the man is dizzy.

Generally, men pay the bill, all in order to please their girlfriends, if the communication is smooth, it will come naturally, and the expenses between men and women will be paid as a willing enjoyment, and love is developing towards a deeper step of maturity. It may not be necessary to have a good impression of you, although you will definitely not compete with a boy to pay for it, which is a normal performance of most dating between men and women, but it is possible that women don't know if you have a good impression of her, thinking that this time she bought it, you may come back next time, indirectly increasing the chance of two people getting along.

Usually when boyfriends and girlfriends eat together, women will not take the initiative to pay. One is for men's face, and the other is that some women do love to be cheap. If a woman is competing to pay, it's really not a good thing.

Tempt you. At some point, although a woman is competing to pay you, but in fact this is not her original intention, she is also a kind of perfunctory on the surface, she wants to test your reaction to her, from the inside, she does not really want to pay, at most it is a show.

No. Because men and girlfriends go to dinner together, it is usually men who treat them, and girls generally don't have to pay money, so I don't think she is greedy for your money.

If you go out to dinner with your girlfriend and she never pays for it, it doesn't mean that she is greedy for your money. It's possible that she wants you to be more face-saving, and doesn't want you to be particularly embarrassed, so she didn't pay for dinner!

I think your thinking is wrong, because after all, he is a girl, with long hair and short eyes, and he likes to be greedy, which is also normal, because you men are generous, and it is reasonable to invite girls to dinner, so don't say that girls want your money. Right? Don't hurt the peace.

This girl doesn't have you in her heart, if there is you, he won't let you pay all the time, even if it's on the surface, she will show it, he's not him, he just doesn't want to pay any money for you.

No, I think it's going out to dinner with my boyfriend, and the man should pay for it, and he really wants to have a relationship with you, so he doesn't see you.

Why? Isn't it the greatest satisfaction that someone is willing to go to an appointment?

If you don't have money, what does she covet? If you're not bad for money, do you care if she's greedy or not?

Therefore, everything pays attention to a balance, and you have to pay the price when you get it.

Summary. This kind of girl, they know that the payment in love is mutual, she will not let you suffer, let alone make you feel: your contribution will not be reciprocated.

Such a girl has a strong sense of self-esteem and proportion, and has a strong ability to empathize. She knows what to do in love, which is conducive to maintaining the relationship between two people; I also know what to do in a relationship, and it is easy to hurt each other. Because she loves you, she feels that everything she has paid for you is worth it; In a relationship, love cannot be exchanged for money.

But giving, is a way to show love<>

My girlfriend is not very rich but is reluctant to spend money on me.

Dear <> I'm glad to answer for you, girlfriends are not very rich but they are not willing to spend money on me, they are willing to spend money for you, they are willing to invest in you, and all this is based on loving you. The girl's willingness to spend money for you also shows how much she values the relationship between the two of you. <>

This kind of girl, they know that the payment in love is mutual, she will not let you suffer, let alone make you feel: your contribution will not be reciprocated. Such a girl has a strong sense of self-esteem and proportion, and has a strong ability to empathize.

She knows what to do in love, which is conducive to maintaining the relationship between two people; I also know what to do in a relationship, and it is easy to hurt each other. Because she loves you, she feels that everything she has paid for you is worth it; In a relationship, love cannot be exchanged for money. But giving, is a way to show love<>

Maybe you haven't figured out a question, if this girl becomes the other half in the future, then your things are hers, hers or hers, so that she will feel secure. This has nothing to do with stinginess. Think hard about whether the two of you have this future together.

Sort of, you have to be careful, no girl likes stingy guys.

She never buys you anything, does she?

Follow-up yes, I basically haven't bought it.

Relationships between people need to be mutually beneficial to last, so your mood is understandable and very normal, but as for what your girlfriend is thinking psychologically, I don't know. It's not easy to ask this kind of question, but you can find a chance to complain and see what her response is.