Why do we forget things we don t want to forget

People will constantly experience new things, new memories, the more old memories will easily disappear You can have a habit of making records@

In fact, if you really can't let go of him (her), then don't let go, after all, you used to care so much about him (her), this relationship will not change all of a sudden, unless you immediately like someone But is it possible? So, why do you have to forget everything, let go of everything, it will only make you more miserable, right? You can quietly put him or her in your heart, and you can also go back to the sweetness that you once had, and be happy, isn't it? It's going to be hard at first.

But gradually, you will find that in fact, it was just that at that time If he (she) doesn't care about you, then even if you go to the ends of the earth Even if you live a decadent life all day long, he still won't remember you (the sun still rises and the days still have to be lived without him - we still have a wonderful life) ps I think it's still very good to have friends by your side After all, friendship is more valuable than love The above is my experience I hope you can take a look Thank you [This answer ° exclusive, please do not plagiarize].

The mouth or heart always thinks not to forget, not to forget, but who can resist the experience of time?

Because the human brain organizes things that are painful for us and that we want to forget are called the past.

It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget a loved one.

What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

There are some things that are definitely a "haste is not enough" ......

If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......

If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote; I don't know what bad things I did to him in my last life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life, so I'm better.

If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......

Many people have had the experience of falling out of love, breaking up, and suffering, perhaps this is a necessary process in life, and only in this way will they mature and grow up ......Learn to forget, learn to give up ......Come out early and give yourself a little more chance! You'll reap another piece of ......You have to do it!

Or. You can also cherish these in your heart, treat them as an experience, and savor them until you are old, even if it is a bad thing, you may feel that it is worth remembering at that time! Anyway, it's also my own personal experience!