How do you balance buying a house and working in a city that is not in the same city?

This should be a very real problem, many young people now work in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but because the housing prices are too expensive, they have to choose to buy a house in second-tier cities. This creates a difficult work-life balance, so how can we solve this problem?

You can choose to make a reasonable plan, choose the number of times you want to go home according to the distance, if the distance is close, you can go home once a week or two, if it is far away, the time is a little longer. You can also choose a suitable location and make an appointment with your family to go out on a trip. In this way, the bond with the family will be strengthened, and the children will not complain that you are too busy with work to take them out to play.

Another option is to rent out the house you bought and rent a house in the city where you work, so that it is convenient to go to work, and you can stay with your family and save a lot of money. Why not?

A colleague once complained to me that she was under a lot of pressure at work and that she had less and less time to spend with her family, so I told her to learn to organize her time, prioritize her priorities, and improve her work efficiency. Work is important, but family is even more important, especially for a woman. Assign each task and distinguish which ones must be done and which ones can be put aside first.

Putting everything at the highest level will only drain your energy and make you feel overwhelmed.

You can also communicate more with leaders and coordinate the relationship between work and life. For example, remote collaboration and sharing work can all be done from home. As long as it doesn't affect the work, I think these proposals can still be accepted.

I hope you find these suggestions helpful.

<>I think it's hard to balance, if you can, it's best to buy a house as close to your place of work as possible, and now people can't afford to buy a house in a big city because many of them are working in big cities, so they can only go back to their hometown to buy a house or buy a house in the suburbs.

I have a very good friend, now I work in Beijing, has been renting a house, after getting married, the two have been renting a house, you must know that the house in Beijing is not affordable for ordinary people, but when it comes to the age of having children, they will face the problem of where the child will live in the future and where to go to school, they discussed and then bought a house in Langfang, we will ask her when we talk together, you don't live in Langfang, why did you buy a house.

Then her plan is to wait for the child to take care of the old man in Langfang, so that when the child goes to school in the future, he will not go back to his hometown to go to school, so that the child can have a good opportunity to receive education, and it is not too far from Beijing, where they work, her husband can work in Beijing, live in a rented house, and go back to Langfang to live with them on weekends; And her words, you can find a job in Langfang when the child is still young and need to breastfeed, and then go back to Beijing to work when the child is older, or buy a car, try to drive back to Langfang every day, although it takes more than two hours to drive, but after all, lactating women enjoy an hour of breastfeeding leave every day, so that there is more time to spare.

In short, it is more difficult to have children, and you can rent out the house before you have children, and the rent money you earn every month can also make up for the money you spend on renting a house in Beijing.